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rosa

@ailoveuu

🌸🌙 | minor
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"If you're a proshipper, you're probably a groomer!"

Explain why I couldn't finish my notes of Sigmund Freud's psychosexual development without multiple breaks because "this slideshow isn't done but I am"

By your logic, I should be drooling at the mouth, but I wasn't, now was I?

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With the new year officially being here, I think it's important that I say something.

To whoever is reading this - I'm proud of you. This could've been the best or worst year of your life. You could've moved on from something terrible or fallen deeper. You could have changed your entire mindset. The you exactly a year ago could be overjoyed or absolutely horrified at how your life has gone. No matter what, I'm proud.

You did what you had to in order to survive. Sometimes, we have to be alive before we can try to live.

Even if you wanted to give up, even if you were like me and you did give up. Maybe that attempt made it to the hospital, maybe you relapsed into a terrible coping mechanism. It doesn't matter, because that doesn't change the fact that you're still here and continuing another day. I know firsthand how hard that can be sometimes.

The new year brings so much positive energy into our lives. Whether you believe in that or not, try to remember that you have an entire lifetime to accomplish everything, not just a year. Figure out where you are, and go from there. Whether 2024 was amazing or not, whether the year started good for you or not, you have time. You're alive, and you made it; and if that's not something to be proud of, then I don't know what is.

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REFERENCING MY LAST POST BECAUSE TIKTOK IS PISSING ME OFF...

"There was this one episode where this girl wanted to see her panties. She is a minor!" This person would have a heart attack if they saw the shit my girlfriend says about me.

"They went to a swimming pool and she barely had any clothes on!" Yeah that's called a BATHING SUIT.

They find ANY reason to hate on something. They hate sexuality, so they accuse the stupidest shit of being sexual.

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Hey, for the record, I may not be as active for a while. I'm very vocal about the fact that I'm mentally ill, but over the thanksgiving break I've come to realize that I genuinely cannot live the way I do anymore and I need to recover. It'll be hard, because so much of my childhood has been stolen due to severe anxiety and possibly depression, and I'm not letting it steal any more.

I love the proship community, however I must admit that it can be very, VERY negative, and I feel as if the last thing I need at the moment is reading others complain about people who'd look at my attempts at recovery and try to make me relapse solely because of fiction. It is, for the better of my mental health, that I give comshipping a little break :)

I'll still be here, during and post recovery. I'll still be here if I fail and relapse. I'm just taking a small break and being less active. I love you all so much and I hope everybody has an amazing day/night <3

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Antis will yell at proshippers and when they give into their beliefs and try to make amends for what they've done, antis well yell at them again and tell them that it doesn't excuse what they did...

Hey guys, fun fact friday - FICTIONAL CHARACTERS ARE NOT REAL PEOPLE. That person you cancelled did not groom an actual child, it was a ROLEPLAY. NOT RPF, FICTIONAL. My word y'all piss me off so much please go touch some grass 😭

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My favorite thing about antis is that they won't tell you to "kys" as a joke but they genuinely want it. It's actually so funny - because they prove all of our points.

Proshipping ≠ pedophilia. Not only are many people in the community minors (like myself) who don't fit the diagnostic criteria, but I've seen so many proshippers actually take the initiative to call out actual pedophiles. When we do, we block and report that person and move on with our day. We don't make jokes about it (unless they were a victim of said person, which I'd completely understand) and actually acknowledge the seriousness of it!

Unlike antis, who think anime drawings are equal to csem/csam. Not only that, but they use the term "cp" which is wrong on so many levels. I literally saw someone call out an artist for drawing porn of two fictional high schoolers, as if the artists bio didn't state that explicitly.

"I'm the better person" and yet you tell people enjoying fiction to end their lives. You don't care for others well being, because that care is conditional.

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To all my fellow proselfshippers in the US - live on.

I cannot lie and say it will be okay no matter what. I cannot say that it will only be four years. I cannot guarantee that this will end good or bad.

I can guarantee that I, and many people around, are angry. We are angry, and I can guarantee that the people are willing to do something in the case of a genuine threat to our government as we know it.

I know it's tempting to commit suicide right now. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't tempted to right now. However, things will not get better if you give in.

You have to be the change you want to see in the world. Not me, not the people who also read this post - you.

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