zenosanalytic reblogged
Anonymous asked:
Is romance a social construct?
Yes
No
I'm not sure
#i mean yeah almost everything is tbh#but I remember lying awake one night and convincing myself romance doesn't exist#because I kept trying to pin down a static definition#and you can't!#a relationship some people might categorize as romantic other people might not see that way#romance is an agreement between 2 or more people to see what they're doing together that way#no matter how outsiders might interpret the dynamic#it's personal and negotiated#society has tried to put guardrails on it but that's a construct too(via @clonerightsagenda)