zenosanalytic reblogged
it annoys me when sapphic women see an attractive woman and are like “i’m no better than a man 😳😔” like BABE you are allowed to see an attractive woman and want to fuck her!!! free yourself from the cottagecore PG13 narrative of sapphic attraction, look at her with lust in your heart!!!
#also men wanting to have sex with women is not disrespectful either! what’s disrespectful is crossing boundaries on purpose
hater-of-terfs
I truly hate how the cinematic critique concept of the "male gaze" has been taken and fully bastardized into a progressive puritanical idea that privately feeling sexual attraction to someone is sinful
#cashitchh#skillhaver#hater of terfs#Attraction#Socializing#Sexuality#appreciative reblogs#The Problem is objectification; not attraction; and so long as you are not Treating a person AS a object to satisfy your sex urges#you are not objectifying them#thinking someone is attractive is not objectification#telling a friend you think someone is attractive or talking with said friend about your attraction to another is not objectification#CATCALLING them is objectification#TOUCHING them without asking is objectification#FORCING your attention or your physical self on another person is objectification and wrong in ALLOT of other ways#Denying a person their interiority by for instance blaming THEM for YOUR attraction is objectification#Saying explicitly sexual things to them without prompting or consent or worse just out of the blue is objectification#Dont Do Those Things#but you are not ~Bad~ for being a sexual being who has sexual thoughts#you are not ~Bad~ for wanting sexual contact in general or specifically#also while I know they mean it's an idea in progressive spaces I think we need to acknowledge just how Messy ideological ~spaces~ are#like: you CANNOT avoid conservative ideas in our culture cuz they are the primary ideas pushed by our Media#so while progressives who hold these views will come up with progressive justifications for them#because you cant protect yourself from bad ideas by just signing up to an ideology opposed to them you MUST always be self critical#that doesnt necessarily make them ~Progressive~ ideas#Puritanism#Prudery#minitagrants#zA Opnions