i think what most people fail to understand is that curating your online experience doesn't just mean blocking and filtering the things you don't like or don't want to see but that it also (and maybe more importantly) means engaging with the things you do like and want to see. if someone creates something that makes your experience better, let them know! tell them! reblog their things! you get to see/share more of what you like and they get to know that someone out there appreciates their work it's a win-win situation for everyone involved

do you ever think about how sometimes it just... takes one random message? and suddenly you find yourself with a best friend or in constant conversation with someone who lives on the other side of the world but is just as much of a freak as you are or maybe you find yourself in love with someone without a last name but with so much kindness and affection in their words and presence. crazy how life and love and friendship just happen

Women in STEM (Sleepiness, Time for bed, Extremely comfy sheets, Mattresses)

Something about drinking cold water really hits the clitoris of the soul....

listen to me very carefully

Kathryn Hahn and Lisa Ann Walter playing sisters

imagine the shenanigans

stop glamorizing “the Grind” and start glamorizing whatever this is

mission accomplished: reblog has been liked by specific mutual that it was rbed for

im not immune to how corsets make breasts look

Give me all the Janeway contradictions. Soft. Hard. Chilling with the senior staff. Reading a book alone in her quarters. No trading with the Kazon. Here’s holodeck technology, Hirogen, have at it. Give me her emotional distance, her close talking, her doe-eyed affection, the steel in her disdain. Give me alliances and backstabbing and wholehearted trust and trust that withers on the vine. Give me refusal to take sides and alliances and diplomacy and insults. Give me change and growth and love and sorrow. Give me the whole Janeway. Hell, yeah.

AMEN!  Christine Baranski won Best Supporting Actress in a Comedy for “Cybill” in 1995, at age 43.  Hannah Waddingham won the same award for “Ted Lasso” in 2021, at age 47. 

you ever start to write a post and just x out halfway through like nobody wants to see this not even me

My sexuality is Kate Mulgew playing with knives.

I hope you find someone that is emotionally, intellectually and sexually compatible to you.

may 2020 be the year of emotional stability, honeyed laughter, peace, freedom, healthy relationships, long hugs, creativity, embracing your quirks, bountiful positivity, wide smiles, pink-coloured skies, unbridled happiness, experiencing love in all its forms, being kinder to yourself, growth, and healing.

my only three moods :