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Yeah, like the bird.

@yeahlikethebird

Pigeon, 33 (nonbinary, they/them). I recently changed my name and pic on here to keep my nonsense/personal tumblr separate from my attempt at making an art account, but we'll see if it sticks lol. If you need me to tag specific triggers let me know.
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just a friendly reminder that this type of rhetoric is misleading, (in my opinion, slightly antisemitic) and not the way to go about fighting religious homophobes.

religious jews still follow these laws. we dont wear clothes that have a blend of wool & linen (laws of shatnez). fresh produce in israel follows all of the agricultural laws outlined in the torah. as for some of the other laws i always see referenced: we don’t eat shellfish or pork or anything prohibited by the torah. clean-shaven men will only ever use electric razors never blades. we don’t work on the sabbath, we observe the sanctioned holy days, we believe in, love and fear God and obey God’s commandments.

personally, i find the rhetoric harmful and insulting for three reasons. one, it only works on the (very christian) premise that the torah is outdated, and that ~nobody in their right mind~ would follow those laws anymore. two, it tends to ignore the fact that lgbtq+ orthodox jews exist and have to live through the struggle of being lgbtq+ and observant, despite community backlash, severe judgement and institutionalised homophobia. and three, it gives homophobia-masked-as-religious-observance some sort of legitimacy because yeah, the rest of those laws are kept in varying degrees by millions of people.

don’t fight homophobes by saying ‘look at all of these other ridiculous laws’ – those laws matter to a lot of people, including me, a jewish lesbian. instead, say ‘do not stand idly by your fellow’s blood (leviticus 19:16)’, ‘whoever humiliates another in public forfeits their place in the World to Come (avot 3:11), ‘one shall not say to a person words that hurt them or cause them pain against which they cannot stand (sefer hachinuch, mitzvah 338)’, ‘do not do to others that which you would not wish them to do to you. this is the whole Torah; the rest is commentary (gemara shabbat 31a)’, and what is perhaps one of my favorite verses in tanach, ‘to what is good and just is more preferable to God than sacrifice (proverbs 21:3)’.

oh, and here’s a good starting point for educating your religious friends and family members. 

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yeehawlw

she probably thinks michael cera’s character grew up to be a lesbian too

lesbians are allowed to have had previous relationships with men and still be lesbians

See also: it's a completely valid idea for Michael Cera's character to grow up to be a lesbian since trans women exist.

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nokiabae

Since the incel community is getting a lot of headlines rn, I just wanna make a quick reminder that anyone who tries to console and pity them by attaching isolation and loneliness is full of shit since the incel community is vehemently against including gay men, who are statistically more likely to commit suicide due to isolation.  They even make memes and valorise suicide. They’re not here to save men from themselves just like how meninists never gave a shit about police violence against black men. It’s rationalised white male entitlement and violent misogyny masquerading as community

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gayboyfriend

Can we talk about this?!

HEY remember in WWII when Jewish people were fleeing Germany and the USA put a quota on how many Jewish immigrants they would accept because they were worried there were too many Jewish people coming over to the USA???

Reminder that the USA has always been fucking garbage to immigrants and basic humanity

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bulbiedorf
How Obama joked: here is a video of my birth *shows clip from Lion King*
How Trump jokes: haha my vice president wants to kill all the gay people
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abcoconut

Hey future historians, please note that although tumblr is a fountain of hyberbolic sarcasm, there is exactly 0% sarcasm or hyperbole in this post.

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reblogged

Mama Maya Angelou said “Is that your coat?” 😭😂😂😂

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jervae

Me unfriending on Facebook

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adoranlam

Proud to say this is a family tradition of ours. I witnessed my father throw the base commander, his boss, out of our house at a party. The man had used a racial slur while addressing my father’s sergeant. I was behind the stairs, and so thrilled and proud. Dad spent a year commanding the base at Thule, Greenland, for that night and also for sticking the same jerk’s head in a snow bank, but had a great time up there. We missed him, of course, but so worth it.

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bi-son

I still dont get why straight-passing privilege isnt a thing

It’s not a reason to exclude ppl from the lgbt community or stuff like pride but it is a material privilege that can be given to those who are in a m/w relationship or ppl who can have heterosexuality projected on to them (which comes in various forms such as not wearing pride accessories, fitting into gender norms, not being w/ ur same-gender partner, being with a same-gender but non-passing/not out trans person, etc.) Privilege isnt about identity, it’s about the material world.

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hxmoerotic

Uhhhhh nah sorry but just because people don’t know you’re lgbt doesn’t mean you have any kind of privilege because even if you’re not visibly lgbt you’ll still be affected by a homophobic/transphobic society. This kind of thinking comes from the idea that homophobia and transphobia is a small, personal thing and not a long reaching societal issue. Closeted people, non passing trans/stealth trans people, bi people in m/w relationships are still going to suffer from living in a society that hates and fears them. The reason some people don’t go around wearing pride stickers or being gnc or being loud and proud is because they can’t out of fear for their life. Having to hide who you are isn’t a privilege.

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How insensitive are you people?
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To say these things about another human being. About a man who helped so many people and delivered the gospel to those whoo needed it.

To be glad that someone is dead, another human being just like you.

This isnt about freaking politics.

Its about a man who lived out his life for the glory of God and served others.

So please, have some respect will you?

Stop being selfish for once and think.

Dude wanted thousands dead and now thousands will piss on his grave :)

The man called Jewish people ‘the synagogue of Satan.’

Dude said gay men were dieing of AIDS because god cursed them.\

He’s burning in hell for good reason.

Death comes for everyone, but sometimes it's a victory for the living.

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rubyvroom

Don’t believe the whitewashed version of Billy Graham in all the obituaries right now. Even his supposedly progressive stances in the 60s are largely exaggerated. 

The reality was a good bit more complicated: Once the Freedom Buses started rolling South, and civil disobedience spread in the early 1960s, Graham’s support for civil rights dissipated. When King wrote his famous Letter from a Birmingham Jail in 1963, Graham told reporters the Alabama preacher should “put the brakes on a little bit.” He began to criticize civil-rights leaders for focusing on changing laws, rather than “hearts.” He mocked King’s “I Have a Dream” speech, saying, “Only when Christ comes again will the little white children of Alabama walk hand in hand with little black children.” And he broke with King altogether over his opposition to the Vietnam War, which Graham enthusiastically championed.

He was also good buddies with Nixon, a fellow anti-semite

When the tapes that sealed Nixon’s doom came out, and the vulgarity and hatefulness of the president were revealed, Graham pronounced himself “shocked” at the kind of language the president used, in addition to his criminal behavior. It would be decades before tapes of Graham’s own conservations with Nixon were made public. In brief conversations from 1972 and 1973, Graham comforts and cheers Nixon during his darkest hours, partly by engaging in anti-Semitic banter.

And of course, despite his kinder-gentler reputation, he was both a theocrat and a homophobe

Graham’s special gift was portraying himself as a different kind of evangelical. The most famous and most heavily self-promoted Christian of the entire 20th century was big on promoting his humility, and his personal moral rectitude. He famously insisted that everyone call him “Billy.” He refused to make himself insanely wealthy, taking only a comfortable (and publicly disclosed) salary from his organization. He instituted the “Graham rule” for himself and his associates – he’d never be alone in any room with any woman but his (long-suffering) wife, to avoid temptation and even the appearance of impropriety. It was a purposeful strategy to ignore the Elmer Gantry-ish excesses of the famous American evangelists who’d come before him. And it worked like magic. When scandals destroyed some of his imitators in the 1980s, like Jim and Tammy Bakker, Graham’s operation looked even more like a model of rectitude in comparison.
But despite his showy flag-waving, despite the conflation of Christianity and Americanism that he trafficked in, Graham was no small-d democrat. Quite the contrary: He was an ardent theocrat. “Every type of government has been permeated with corruption, evil, and greed,” he proclaimed in the wake of Watergate. “But there’s one type we have not tried. That is a theocracy, with Christ on the throne and the nations of the world confessing him. Someday His flag will wave over every nation in the world.”
Billy Graham reputedly mellowed and became more tolerant of religious differences in his later years, even as he turned over his vast empire to his more overtly bigoted son, Franklin. Maybe, he even suggested at one point, you didn’t have to be a born-again Christian to attain heaven. But he never evolved on the “gay question.” Quite the contrary, in fact. At a rally in 1993, he speculated that AIDS might be a “judgment” from God. “I could not say for sure, but I think so,” he said. He knew this was bad PR, and two weeks later, he apologized. “I don’t believe that,” he claimed, “and I don’t know why I said it.” But he never disclaimed the infamous “My Answer” column from 1973, never took back his description of homosexuality as “a perversion that leads to death.” In 2012, in his last public act, Graham took out full-page newspaper ads in 14 North Carolina newspapers calling for passage of a law banning same-sex marriage. 

I’m sorry to excerpt so much of this article but it’s so good and important, and I didn’t even get into the author’s personal struggle with being born again at a Billy Graham event while simultaneously being condemned to hell for being gay, at ten years old.

Next week, Graham’s corpse will lie in state at the Capitol rotunda – only the fourth private citizen to be so honored, and the first since Rosa Parks in 1995. This is a disgrace. But in a certain way, it’s also right and fitting – as oddly appropriate as Graham’s star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. If Billy Graham was, ultimately, a conniving hypocrite with a layman’s grasp of the Bible and a supernatural lust for earthly power, he was also a quintessential American success story. He was not so much “America’s pastor” as its greatest evangelical entrepreneur – the man who launched a whole separatist (and lucrative) Christian media culture, who laid the foundations for megachurches and prosperity ministries, who brought Jesus back into American politics. He was a public-relations savant, a shameless sycophant who whispered sweet nothings to power in lieu of hard truths. He demonstrated what fortunes could be made, and what human glory could be attained, by transforming evangelical Christianity into a patriotic corporate entity. If that’s not American, by God, what is?
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honestly you guys need to stop misapplying intersectional theory. since you base your ideas on identity politics you seem to think that each “identity” holds the same weight, but in reality our lives are determined by race, class, and gender (and also ability and nationality). but these things don’t have equal predictive effects on people’s lives. you guys seem to think that if a working-class person of color is also “neurotypical” and able-bodied and cishet that the count of “privileges” to “disprivileges” makes them “less oppressed” than a white person who is not-cis, not-straight, and not-neurotypical at the same time, but that’s absolutely not how oppression works. trying to quantify oppression “levels” means you’ve already lost. even then, we have to understand this through historical transformations and labor relations under capitalism, patriarchy, and white supremacy. 

wrt to the working-class cishet poc, their cishet status doesn’t really grant them grand material benefits at the end of the day. they’re still oppressed by the state and denied access to material goods. like, cathy cohen talked about this in her pivotal essay in which she criticized queer theory for this exact dichotomy (queer vs cishet) in her essay “punks, bulldaggers, and welfare queens”. 

whereas even if a white person is a woman and also lgbt, their race is a huge shield against certain forms of material violence that cishet men of color face despite being cishet or male. 

oppression is continuous and sustained and it’s determined by labor relations/class relations. if there is no class or race in your analysis then it is faulty. 

we have to analyze these things through a materialist lens. so for example, a white lgbt woman may be oppressed because she is denied access to material goods either because she’s a woman (so being denied employment bc she doesn’t wear makeup, for instance) or because she’s lgbt (so being denied housing, for instance). but is she susceptible to sustained poverty, or environmental/biological racism, or urban racism, or biometric surveillance, or state violence? probably not. class has to factor into this. 

a working class cishet poc who may appear neurotypical and able-bodied (i say appear bc it’s necessary to chart the physical and mental effects of poverty onto a person and that doesn’t become immediately apparent) is not less oppressed or more privileged because they have “three” or “four” privileges (cis, het, able-bodied, neurotypical). let’s say they live in flint, michigan. they are targeted by an onslaught of environmental racism that has trickled down into the very cells of their body. so in addition to living in abject poverty, which the state ignores and even exacerbates, the environmental racism that characterized the flint water crisis affects them physically and psychologically on a daily basis. this prevents them from working, from providing for their children, from saving and investing. they have low assets and disposable income. their income probably decreases because of outrageous healthcare costs and their difficulty working due to health problems. 

their supposed “neurotypical” status or their cishet status neither shield them from this violence nor gain them any benefits. on the contrary, a white lgbt woman living in a middle-class town may have “fewer” privileged identities (if you’re using the identity politics privilege chart) but her life isn’t impacted by environmental racism or police brutality or class violence, and so she can navigate her material reality with far greater ease. of course she can still be exposed to the violence of misogyny and homophobia, but that violence is quite unlikely to come from that working-class cishet poc in flint, michigan. 

we can an apply a similar analysis to the dakota access pipeline and how that is an example of the settler colonial state oppressing indigenous people. it doesn’t matter if the indigenous person in question is straight or not - their people are universally targeted by environmental racism and state violence. 

so when like you guys call cishet poc “heteronormative” or cishet moc “patriarchal” it makes no sense bc they aren’t oppressing you and if they are enacting homophobic or patriarchal violence it’s probably and primarily against women or LGBT people in THEIR community, not against white women or white LGBT people. 

sure they can be homophobic or misogynistic. but if we’re going to analyze something such as “straight” privilege or “male” privilege in their context, we’d have to compare it against lgbt poc and women of color, not against the lgbt community or women at large. and that’s when you see like cishet moc being privileged against lgbt woc. 

oppression is not a simplistic algebra equation. it’s not like “okay, i have three privileges, and you have four, so your privileges cancel out your oppression”. it’s a complicated, interconnected matrix, primarily determined by race and class (and gender).  

I feel like this post is doing itself a disservice by ignoring the institutionalized and personal violence LGBT people face?

To say that the primary concern those people have is class or income-based seems extremely disingenuous. And of course it doesn’t come close to scratching the surface of what POC face, and especially not queer POC or WOC but like. Yo trans people just get murdered every day, regardless of race. We get raped and have very little recourse. And most of this IS class-based. Of course it is. Ultimately most things come back to class right? But like. I think this post severely overestimates how easy it is for a trans woman to get a job? Unless she stays completely in the closet. And, again, much harder for trans WOC.

And this isn’t me trying to dispute the core thesis of this post. I think it’s pretty spot-on. But acting like sexuality and non-cis gender identities only impact people by whether or not they can get a job feels wrong. Queer people experience violence every day and I am super uncomfortable with dismissing that when talking about intersectionality.

Op is a bi WOC, so I’m sure she has the perspective to know which impacts one’s life more.

And, speaking as a white trans woman, while we do face a high murder rate and that absolutely should not be dismissed, it’s dishonest to ignore that TWOC, and most notably black trans women, face a greatly higher murder rate, around three times higher than white trans women, iirc. It’s not ‘trans people,’ it’s most definitely trans women, and it’s not ‘regardless’ of race.

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I really really really hate “humor” where the setup is making someone feel bad and then the punchline is that you actually supported/approved of them all along. I can’t stand dumbass comics where someone comes out as gay and the other person is like “this is unacceptable” and you’re like “oh god I know that feeling of heart-sinking rejection” and then the next panel the person is like “unacceptable that you took this long to tell me I love you no mater what!!!”

that’s actually a really tame example compared to the bullshit I see all the time so let me tell you that it’s literally just Not Funny At All to make someone think you’re about to reject them for their gender identity, sexuality, race, etc. to set up some punchline of acceptance.

Not to be dramatic but it’s literally so fucking stupid and annoying just so ya know.

the reason I find it especially weird and stupid is that it’s so often people who AREN’T part of the group in question who make these jokes and draw these comics. So it’s literally like people saying “hahaha wasn’t that funny? I made you think for a second that I hated you but it turns out I’m super progressive and understanding.” Fuck off

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like a year ago I saw a trailer for Some Fucking Romcom where I thought for the first thirty seconds the plot was “bride asks her gay brother and his boyfriend to get heterosexual dates for her wedding”

turns out the plot actually was “bride asks her two Commitmentphobic ™ brothers to get dates for her wedding” which, lame

I like my idea, where two gay dudes and two lesbians have to pretend to be straight for an entire weekend 

“I can definitely pretend to be straight,” Lesbian One says, “I successfully pretended to be a straight man for twenty years.”

“No,” her girlfriend Lesbian Two says, “no you definitely didn’t.”

Lesbian Two, who is butch, discovers an eyelash curler. “What is this, a torture device?”

Gay Guy One hooks up with the DJ, the wedding planner, three caterers and the best man. Shenanigans happen as he narrowly avoids getting caught by the bride.

Gay Guy Two, of course, finds himself falling hopelessly in love with the groom.

At the climax of the movie Gay Guy One falls out of the closet where he’s making out with his latest conquest, the florist. The bride screams, eyeliner smearing from tears, about how he’s RUINING HER WEDDING and she didn’t choose to have a brother who was QUEER and why didn’t he ever think about HER and why couldn’t he just pretend to be NORMAL for her SPECIAL DAY–

the groom is like “honey, I’m bi”

the bride says “no, you’re not! you’re marrying me! you’re straight now!”

and then the wedding is called off and Gay Guy Two and the groom live happily ever after. the after-credits scene is Lesbian Two suspiciously poking her eyelids with an eyelash curler

Please write this movie.

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audiaphilios

Play It Straight (2019)

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Didn’t even know people are not allowed to give blood if they are gay

MLM are not allowed to give blood. That includes gay men; bisexual and pansexual men; gay, bi, and pan trans men; and possibly even straight trans women.

The day my friends and I signed up to donate blood, I was SO happy to be helping someone in the world with what little efforts I could attribute but the lady doing the paperwork was like, “Ooo. Soorryyyy. Times are changing fast so hopefully you will be able to donate someday” and it broke my little heart that I couldn’t meaningfully contributing to society with my friends as they light-headedly regrouped with me and asked “Why didn’t you get your blood taken?”

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colt-kun

Also if you had sex in the last 12 months with a man who had anal or oral sex with another man.

Or if you’ve had any blood transfusions since 1980.

Or if you have had sex with a “drug user” in the last 12 months (the definition on this ranges.)

or if you have had sex with a sex worker or had sex with someone who has had sex with a sex worker in the last 12 months.

Piercings or tattoos in the last 12 months.

EVER done intravenous drugs.

Been incarcerated for 72+ hours in the last 12 months.

Certain medications and medical conditions. (An understandable one.)

Oh and if you’re trans? You are supposed to self-identify and “self report” if you want to donate.

Which is ridiculous since ALL BLOOD IS TESTED AFTER DONATION. And they will toss the blood and contact the donor if it tests positive for any diseases. I know someone who couldn’t afford a blood test so they donated JUST to see if they got a call back that their blood was unusable.

And all these stipulations can (and have) been LIFTED in times of great crisis, so you gotta ask… how important are these especially since its tested anyways…? Definitely donate responsibly. But the stipulations are ridiculous.

Our generation can’t donate as easily. And we’re blamed for it. I had chemotherapy treatments and am unable to donate and have still gotten shamed when pushy attendants try to ask “don’t you WANT to help?”

In the US, there are also restrictions on people who’ve lived with someone who has Hepatitis B or C in the past 12 months.

This is going to impact Millennials disproportionately because of our living situations. Most of us have roommates. So, so many roommates. Others live at home with family members who didn’t have the benefit of vaccination or tested blood transfusions in their youth.

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