Hi! I enjoy your videos and I noticed something. Do you have a nose ring? Or septum ring I suppose, either way, can I play with it like a tiny bell and then possibly kiss you because of how awesome you are? Sorry if this is rude, you're just cute and your knowledge of history is slightly intoxicating
Paragon response:
A) I do have a septum ring.
B) Have you been by my FAQ lately? Particularly item 11, where I go into detail regarding how I feel about comments on appearance and sexually/”romantically” motivated messages. Hint: Not ok. Never ok.
Renegade response:
Jesus Christ NO you may NOT play with my septum ring. What the Hell makes you think that is an appropriate question to ask anyone? Why would I let anyone play with the hunk of metal in my nose? Do you honestly think I put it there for you to do that? For anyone to do that?
Don’t come to me and tell me that you want to kiss me because I’m awesome, because this is a remarkably problematic backhanded compliment that blames me for someone else’s advances.
And don’t tell me that you’re “sorry if this is rude” because that statement CLEARLY points out that you know damn well you’re being rude and that you’re going ahead and doing it anyway, so you must not be that sorry, now must you? Particularly when you follow it up with another statement “You’re just so….” which attempts to shift blame to me for the way YOU feel, when I’ve never done a thing to encourage you.
I’m glad you like the blog but you need to stop with the gross versions of compliments and reevaluate how you talk to people.