Rejuvenating Witchcraft

Things to help you move on and recover from a long day, a rough night or a good cry.

Spells and magic:

Things to make:

To move forward:

Little things to do:

Drinks:

Odds and ends:

*Please research herb safety before using!

Spell for Emotional Healing and Moving Forward

Cast this spell at dawn.

Materials:

As you light each candle (starting from the middle, then right, then the left), say:

This is the turning point in my life. I am erasing the past. The future is mine to choose. Right at this moment, I am making my tomorrows. I forgive myself for all past mistakes. I start over with a clean slate. I choose for myself only that which I desire to experience. I choose (health, wealth, companionship, happiness, etc.) As I will it, so it shall be.

Extinguish the candles.

Goodbye, My Almost Lover: A Spell 🥀

Have an ex lover you just can’t seem to move on from? Just went through a bad breakup and want to take your mind away from them? Want a bit of closure?Here’s a spell for you, darling! ✨

(inspired by the song “Almost Lover” by A Fine Frenzy)

you will need:

• a pencil

• a sheet of paper

• dried rose petals (optional)

how to do it:

take the sheet of paper and pencil and write your ex-lover’s name. under their name, write the reason things came to an end. you can also make a list of things you dislike about them/other reasons the relationship ultimately went sour. finally, end your letter with a message to your ex. it can be a sentence, or the rest of space on the paper. just be sure to get all of your feelings out.

next, crumple the paper. (if you have rose petals, put them on the paper and fold it before crumpling.) then, destroy it. I burned mine, but there are other ways of doing it. you can bury it, flush it down the toilet, rip it into shreds, etc. whatever you do though, imagine all of those feelings you have for that person being destroyed and becoming non-existent.

when you’re finished, clean up your space and take a breath.

moving on is tough, but I believe in you. ❤️

life cleansing tips:

- delete conversations between people you no longer talk to. its healthy to let go of the past and not letting yourself dwell on things.

- say kind things about people you like. say good things about yourself. don’t speak or think about people you don’t like.

- look in mirrors. you shouldn’t be afraid of facing yourself.

- clean sheets make clean sleep make clean minds

- allow yourself time to feel and grow. don’t be too hard on yourself for crying, you need to vent in order to move on to better times. even rainy days work towards sunny days.

- if things don’t work out, stop forcing them. there’s no reason for you to keep working and failing if there’s other places/people for you to excel and be happy.

- kiss your body, caress your body. make yourself feel loved.

- running away doesn’t always solve everything. sometimes, the reason that made you run will still be with you. focus on freeing yourself before starting anew.

- a glass of water and a good nights rest can go a long way

Spell for Emotional Healing and Moving Forward

Cast this spell at dawn.

Materials:

As you light each candle (starting from the middle, then right, then the left), say:

This is the turning point in my life. I am erasing the past. The future is mine to choose. Right at this moment, I am making my tomorrows. I forgive myself for all past mistakes. I start over with a clean slate. I choose for myself only that which I desire to experience. I choose (health, wealth, companionship, happiness, etc.) As I will it, so it shall be.

Extinguish the candles.

Spell to get over someone

This is for anyone who needs this. I recently went through something with someone and couldn’t seem to get over them no matter how hard I tried, until I did this spell from The Love Magic Book by Gillian Kemp (which is an amazing book, all of her work is). It’s simple and really powerful.

“Onions are ruled by the planet Mars and are said to resemble the cosmos. The core is the earth and the heart is the moon.”

This spell is best done on a waning moon, since the waning moon takes things (i.e. heartbreak, bitterness, negativity, etc.) away while the waxing moon brings things (i.e. new love, energy, etc.)

Materials: • 1 blue candle • 1 raw onion • large saucer or plate • Water • Pot

1. Light a blue candle someplace you will not be disturbed. 2. Sitting in front of the candle, take the onion and gently peel away each layer, placing the pieces on a saucer in front of the candle. If the onion makes you cry, let it– its purging you of pent up emotions and negativity. 3. Once you are done peeling away the onion pieces and they are all on the saucer, leave them there and let the candle burn for 1 hour and then snuff it out. 4. Boil all of the onion pieces in a pot until the water turns yellow, then throw out the water and onion pieces somewhere outside, preferably as far away on your property as possible. Alternatively, throw out the water and bury the onion pieces. As they rot and decompose in the earth, your heartache will ease and you will move on.

Spell to get over someone/move on

As we move in to another season, we may feel the need to let go of some things in life to welcome the new. Do this simple spell if you need a little support to move a step away from situations or people who are toxic to you. 

You will need:

1 Black candle ( banish negativity, healing and support through loss and grief, ridding of bad habits ) Peppermint/eucalyptus essential oil to anoint candle 1 Bay leaf

Anoint the candle and light it. Write what you want to achieve on the bay leaf (paper works fine as well). Burn it and visualize all your negativity and pain vanish and fade away. Release your wish to the universe, into the wind or the water whichever you feel more connected to. As you snuff out the candle/let it continue to burn out, let it absorb all you hurt and let the fire’s energy heal you. Focus on your intent of allowing the fire to give you the strength and power you need. Release what does not serve you and open your mind and soul to opportunities that await. After you have released the ashes and the candle light is out, you may dip your hands in a bowl of water to symbolize a clean start. 

My version of it (origami version)

1 white or black candle (optional)

lavender oil (optional)

white or black origami paper

first being by taking some of the lavender oil and putting some on the candle.

then take something to write with and write the person’s name on the blank part of the origami paper.

try to form something basic such as: a heart or a cup.

then light the candle and while your looking into the flame imagine you and this person walking away from each other in different directions

try not to turn around.

when the image is strong enough in your mind say out loud or in your mind:

(Person’s name) I Realease you from my life i’m moving on and you can no longer effect me anymore.

If you can burn the paper on the candle flame or you can just tear up the paper and realease it to the wind (if there is a windy day of course).

I love this !

💔Bury my heart💔

Alright so, my boyfriend broke up with me not too long ago and I’ve been thinking way too much about someone I can’t have, so I made this simple spell to sort of bury my feelings for now.

You’ll need:

•a small jar •dirt •paper and pen •candle of choice (i used red) •something with a heart on it (picture, pendant, etc.) •lighter/matches •fire proof bowl

1. Light the candle and as it’s burning, write a letter, releasing everything you feel for that person. It can be angry, sad, whatever just make sure you get everything out that you want to say. Make sure you write their name as well.

2. Take the heart and put your initials on it.

3. Place the paper in the bowl and light it up (I found it easier to tear it apart first). As it burns, visualize yourself moving on from those feelings and healing yourself.

4. Once the letter is nothing but ash, take the dirt and mix it together with the ashes. Fill the jar halfway with the diet mixture and make a little hole to bury the heart. Fill the rest of the jar with more dirt, making sure the heart is covered.

5. Close the jar tightly and take the candle, pouring the melted wax over the top of the jar.

6. Keep the jar in a dark place, hidden from view. You can put a sigil on the jar is you’d like to help keep it hidden and out of your mind for a while. If you want to say a chant go ahead. Mine went like this

“ My feelings will remain buried, undisturbed and secret. There is no jealousy. I have buried it away and moved on. May no harm come to anyone and let happiness come forth.”

7. Afterwards, do something that makes you happy. Read your favourite book, listen to music, or watch a movie and munch on snacks! Hell, take a bath to cleanse yourself if you still feel a little icky.

This helped me a lot earlier as I was doing this. I’ve loved this person for several years but after doing the spell, I feel a bit lighter, like I can finally move forward with my life.

THIS SPELL IS NOT MEANT TO BE USED AS A CURSE

POSITION 1: What needs to be left in the past? What about this situation do you need to let go of in order to move forward?

POSITION 2: What are your present circumstances? What energies are currently surrounding you?

POSITION 3: What should you take with you? What is the valuable lesson to be found here?

POSITION 4: Advice for you. What is the best course of action in order to move forward in a healthy way?

POSITION 5: Something to look forward to. What positive development is coming up in the near future?

Redesigned spread layout! What do y’all think?

Well…Now What?

I created this spread to cheer up a friend who had just been through a rough patch. Despite having come out of the other side of a looooong and difficult situation, she was feeling a little lost and empty so I really wanted to empower her but at the same time give her some hope.

Hope this is useful to you! Happy tarot-ing!

In addition to what’s mentioned in this link, we have some info to help folks make a plan to stay safe when leaving an abusive relationship, and when they can’t leave just yet: The Scarleteen Safety Plan

This is the most affirming article I've ever read about being in an abusive relationship and coping while in it. A very popular blog on here pissed me off a few weeks ago because someone reached out to them anonymously about their abusive relationship and their response was, “first of all, you need to figure out why you don’t respect yourself enough to leave the relationship” and I s2g I was ready to leap through the screen and shove their face into a pile of poop. It was such a flippant, triggering response to someone who very obviously just needed a little reassurance and I wish I knew who that anonymous person was so I can hug them and send them this article instead.

If you’re in an abusive relationship right now and you’re not ready to leave, like this article said, your reasons for staying are your own. You are not foolish. You staying is not a reflection of how much you “don’t love and/or respect yourself” and FUCK anyone who tells you that. People who say shit like that are trash.

POSITION 1: What needs to be left in the past? What about this situation do you need to let go of in order to move forward?

POSITION 2: What are your present circumstances? What energies are currently surrounding you?

POSITION 3: What should you take with you? What is the valuable lesson to be found here?

POSITION 4: Advice for you. What is the best course of action in order to move forward in a healthy way?

POSITION 5: Something to look forward to. What positive development is coming up in the near future?

Redesigned spread layout! What do y’all think?

Well…Now What?

I created this spread to cheer up a friend who had just been through a rough patch. Despite having come out of the other side of a looooong and difficult situation, she was feeling a little lost and empty so I really wanted to empower her but at the same time give her some hope.

Hope this is useful to you! Happy tarot-ing!

Spells to Forget, Let Go, Move On

There isn’t really any spell that can help you forget completely - you will not permanently erase your memories - but there are spells that can help you accept and move on, and make things easier to handle or deal with.

Please note, there is likely not much these spells will do if you are not actively trying to move on in your own way - you have to do some of your own actions to ensure that you are indeed moving on, and doing what you can to forget and let go. Magic should not be relied on solely to solve one’s problems.