If I learned anything from my parents generation is that if you're not doing back breaking, exhausting work, then you're called lazy. You need a man's job like construction, or a lumberjack. I can't say I had a hard day of fighting anxiety and depression cause it's lazy and I'm faking it.....😡😡😡😡😡😡😫😫😫😫😫😫
Truth.
Everyone has it differently, and you cannot compare one to another. And I freaking HATE that macho, toxic bullshit that you have to hit some physical level determined by whoever thinks they have it the hardest. Everyone is just trying their hardest and doing what needs to be done. Support each other, understand and empathize. Competition over something like this just hurts everyone.