A whumpee who ruins their Own life.
A whumpee who has everything in the world, but throws it away or wastes it.
A whumpee who lashes out at everyone, never letting anyone in.
A whumpee who knocks over glasses of water when offered.
A whumpee who is left alone because people don't want to deal with them.
A whumpee who hates themselves and believes that this is what they deserve.