THEY GOT RID OF THE R*PIST EVERYONE CHEERED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
wednesdaysviolet reblogged
“Don’t yuck peoples’ yum” works when the yum in question is pineapple on pizza.. not sexual violence 💀
This fandom has worms for brains bc imagine calling statutory rape “hot”
Do not EVER come in my inbox with shit like this again. Ever. I will put you on blast.
Do not ever compliment my work and follow up with abuser apologist nonsense.
My work is not for you.
My work will never be for those who make excuses for sexual violence or misogyny or white supremacy
May we see a Palestine free from ethnic cleaning, apartheid, and settler colonialism within our lifetimes.
Vive la résistance. 🇵🇸
depicting Tyler Galpin as a r*pist is the most egregious crime against his character
my work being used as a template once or twice was something I could ignore bc I understand ppl get ideas/inspo from other works but wow considering the source I am sorry but I have to laugh
wednesdaysviolet reblogged
Goodbye goodbye you were bigger than the whole sky 🕊️
I'm scared to ask, what happened, but my curiosity wins here.
“Feminist” Jenna Ortega revealed in her interview with Elle Fanning that the show is completely ditching any love interests for Wednesday, which she has advocated for from the beginning because she doesn’t believe young women can be powerful or have meaningful stories if they have romantic interests or desires.
++ Also just a few weeks ago Jenna Ortega was spotted with her bestie Percy Hynes White. Mind you this is the bestie in question:
Goodbye goodbye you were bigger than the whole sky 🕊️
#that girl should do a master class on how to ruin the success of your own show in less than a year#bc wdym you’re getting rid of elements central to the Addams family#feminism is not a woman denying herself pleasure and happiness via romance#feminism is also not being besties with sexual predators and racists#let’s hope the wga#sag and dga (upcoming)#strikes put off production as long as possible hehe
This man is fucking garbageeee and if the show doesn’t get rid of him by next season they can keep that shit !!!!!!!!!!
“Don’t yuck peoples’ yum” works when the yum in question is pineapple on pizza.. not sexual violence 💀
wednesdaysviolet reblogged
the KINK BINGO CARDS are finally here!!! 🥳
after you have thought long and hard (😏) and picked the card that you like the most, make sure you sign up by filling this form! Sign ups will be officially closed June 30th.
Once you have filled the sign up form - feel free to start smutting!!! When you post your fills, make sure to appropriately tag them with warnings, rating and of course, the square filled on your card. Make sure to @ us as well so we can share your creations!
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sorry but non-con being in here is so beyond morally bankrupt
Hey there!
This event features all kinds of kinks. Non-con IS a kink, and although it may be triggering for some (or just simply not up everyone’s alley), it’s still something some people enjoy reading and writing. Fanfiction is a fantasy; writing or reading a certain kink does not in any way mean you condone it in real life.
Knowing the difficulties this kink may trigger, we specified it should be warned about and tagged properly. However, kink shaming is also forbidden in this event, so please take that into consideration.
Kink and let kink, and of course, we encourage you to only consume creations that appeal to you.
I didn’t realize I needed to explicitly state that I won’t be part of this. Making this out like I’m kink shaming is kind of wild. I have a degree in sexuality studies, am transitioning into a sex-education job and can tell you all explicitly CNC is an established and valid kink, non-con is not.
“This is fantasy” is not an excuse
“Just because you write about it in real life doesn’t mean you condone it” is not an excuse.
Honestly this is so disappointing and wild to me. Good luck with y’all’s event even though you’re explicitly excluding people who are able to recognize that this is a celebration of sexual violence
“Let me be clear: There must ALWAYS be an agreed-upon stop mechanism in kink. If there isn’t, it’s not consensual. If there’s no consent, it’s not BDSM – it’s coercion, abuse, or assault.” - Sunny Megatron, award-winning BDSM & Certified Sexuality Educator
I believe you are getting definitions mixed up and misunderstanding. Non-con kink IS CNC. CNC is a form of non-con fantasy. When the wyler summer event says, “non-con” it is referring to any form of non-con FANTASY/KINK. As in, consensual non-consent, fictional dubious consent, etc. Non-con kink and CNC are quite literally synonyms. You are jumping to conclusions and judging people involved by instantly assuming that everyone is somehow promoting sexual violence. No one here supports SA.
All of this is a fantasy. No one can actually get hurt because it is fiction. Every writing piece will be properly tagged and labelled so everyone knows what they are reading and what they are getting into.
You sound like one of those antis who acts like everyone is a “pedophile” in fandom for shipping canonical teenagers or aging up characters or whatever. You are acting like we are sexual predators and it is nasty and makes no sense.
Yes, writing about something DOES NOT mean that you condone it in reality. Do people who enjoy horror movies or writing horror content like real life murder and violence? No.
And while your note at the bottom is correct, without consent kink is assault and no longer kink, but we all know this. These are fictional stories we are writing about our kinks, or just kinks we haven’t written about before and find interesting. We all know about consent and safewords, thanks.
Oh look another person who supported said plagiarized work. Kudos are PUBLIC, people!
CNC and non-con are NOT the same thing or synonymous whatsoever, thank you very much. If that were true it wouldn’t have the “and/or” feature, and frankly CNC could have sat on its own and been given more room in that tiny box if not for the egregious inclusion of non-con on the board.
“No one can get hurt because it’s fiction” WRONG. Real life people get hurt all the time when tags are not properly added and they are bombarded with triggers with no content warning. Everything will be tagged correctly? Are you a psychic who can see into the future and ensure that not a single tag is missing?
Calling me an anti is almost as funny as calling me a kink shamer. I actually have to laugh. It’s interesting that I never said or implied anything about anyone here being a sexual predator and just stated that the inclusion of non-con is morally bankrupt. If anything I accused people of being morally bankrupt and ykw I will stand by that!
The statement literally says N-C is a kink. I’m sorry but it’s just not. CNC was out WITH NC and they are vastly different things.
Very vile the lengths you will go to to defend the indefensible atp. Yikes
I’m circling back to a very simple fact:
If you don’t agree with or don’t like something, it is not your job to police others about it.
The discussion whether something is or isn’t a kink isn’t relevant to this mentioned fact.
Please act respectfully, and end this discussion here. I don’t want to have to block you - and I am saying this with sincerity, because it’ll block you from my personal blog too, and so far I have enjoyed interacting and sharing the fandom with you.
-Wince
You can go ahead and block me because atp it’s not worth it for me to be “sharing the fandom” with people who think non-con has a place in a kink-celebratory event. Non-con is not a kink.
“It’s not relevant” I’m addressing something YOU specifically and directly stated and proving that it’s not true. But you didn’t like being called out with legitimate sources from the POV of an expert so that’s fine!
“If you don’t like it” please read that back to yourself. “If you don’t like non consensual sex….” Are you being fr?
This isn’t about “policing” people’s actions. Do what you want! Write your non con fics! Just know that it’s not kink, it’s antithetical to the characters you are trying to represent, and is in general, morally depraved.
FYI, had this have not happened, I still wouldn’t participate, since you’re still “too busy” to have read the works published for the last event you ran I’m not even sure why you’re even running another one.
“Community” is foundation to fandom. And community is clearly a lost concept for you. This is not a community, this is a vapid, unethical circle jerk.
Bye bye :)
wednesdaysviolet reblogged
the KINK BINGO CARDS are finally here!!! 🥳
after you have thought long and hard (😏) and picked the card that you like the most, make sure you sign up by filling this form! Sign ups will be officially closed June 30th.
Once you have filled the sign up form - feel free to start smutting!!! When you post your fills, make sure to appropriately tag them with warnings, rating and of course, the square filled on your card. Make sure to @ us as well so we can share your creations!
We are here to help with any questions you may have! 🖤
sorry but non-con being in here is so beyond morally bankrupt
Hey there!
This event features all kinds of kinks. Non-con IS a kink, and although it may be triggering for some (or just simply not up everyone’s alley), it’s still something some people enjoy reading and writing. Fanfiction is a fantasy; writing or reading a certain kink does not in any way mean you condone it in real life.
Knowing the difficulties this kink may trigger, we specified it should be warned about and tagged properly. However, kink shaming is also forbidden in this event, so please take that into consideration.
Kink and let kink, and of course, we encourage you to only consume creations that appeal to you.
I didn’t realize I needed to explicitly state that I won’t be part of this. Making this out like I’m kink shaming is kind of wild. I have a degree in sexuality studies, am transitioning into a sex-education job and can tell you all explicitly CNC is an established and valid kink, non-con is not.
“This is fantasy” is not an excuse
“Just because you write about it in real life doesn’t mean you condone it” is not an excuse.
Honestly this is so disappointing and wild to me. Good luck with y’all’s event even though you’re explicitly excluding people who are able to recognize that this is a celebration of sexual violence
“Let me be clear: There must ALWAYS be an agreed-upon stop mechanism in kink. If there isn’t, it’s not consensual. If there’s no consent, it’s not BDSM – it’s coercion, abuse, or assault.” - Sunny Megatron, award-winning BDSM & Certified Sexuality Educator
I believe you are getting definitions mixed up and misunderstanding. Non-con kink IS CNC. CNC is a form of non-con fantasy. When the wyler summer event says, “non-con” it is referring to any form of non-con FANTASY/KINK. As in, consensual non-consent, fictional dubious consent, etc. Non-con kink and CNC are quite literally synonyms. You are jumping to conclusions and judging people involved by instantly assuming that everyone is somehow promoting sexual violence. No one here supports SA.
All of this is a fantasy. No one can actually get hurt because it is fiction. Every writing piece will be properly tagged and labelled so everyone knows what they are reading and what they are getting into.
You sound like one of those antis who acts like everyone is a “pedophile” in fandom for shipping canonical teenagers or aging up characters or whatever. You are acting like we are sexual predators and it is nasty and makes no sense.
Yes, writing about something DOES NOT mean that you condone it in reality. Do people who enjoy horror movies or writing horror content like real life murder and violence? No.
And while your note at the bottom is correct, without consent kink is assault and no longer kink, but we all know this. These are fictional stories we are writing about our kinks, or just kinks we haven’t written about before and find interesting. We all know about consent and safewords, thanks.
Oh look another person who supported said plagiarized work. Kudos are PUBLIC, people!
CNC and non-con are NOT the same thing or synonymous whatsoever, thank you very much. If that were true it wouldn’t have the “and/or” feature, and frankly CNC could have sat on its own and been given more room in that tiny box if not for the egregious inclusion of non-con on the board.
“No one can get hurt because it’s fiction” WRONG. Real life people get hurt all the time when tags are not properly added and they are bombarded with triggers with no content warning. Everything will be tagged correctly? Are you a psychic who can see into the future and ensure that not a single tag is missing?
Calling me an anti is almost as funny as calling me a kink shamer. I actually have to laugh. It’s interesting that I never said or implied anything about anyone here being a sexual predator and just stated that the inclusion of non-con is morally bankrupt. If anything I accused people of being morally bankrupt and ykw I will stand by that!
The statement literally says N-C is a kink. I’m sorry but it’s just not. CNC was out WITH NC and they are vastly different things.
Very vile the lengths you will go to to defend the indefensible atp. Yikes
Kink Without Consent is NOT Kink
1. “The answer's easy: if someone doesn't want you to do something to them, and they tell you they don't want you to do that thing, but you do it anyway, that's not kink or BDSM. That's assault.” - KYNK 101
2. “In the kink community, consent is paramount. Consent is never implied - it is generally understood in the kink community that consent is an important discussion between partners and that it is ongoing. Saying “yes” to one activity does not imply a “yes” for all other sexual activity. It is crucial to negotiate consent before a scene and go over each participant’s limits and to check in during the scene as well.” - The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center
3. “Kink can be thrilling, terrifying, emotionally exhausting, and sometimes incredibly overwhelming. But it should always be consensual, and everyone participating in a kink experience should always feel respected, supported, and like their boundaries are inviolable. Without that respect, it’s not kink, it’s abuse. And being kinky does not make abuse okay.” - THEM Lux Alptraum is a writer, sex educator, and consultant who has written for Hustler, Cosmopolitan, and The Guardian, among other publications
4. “A core principle of kink is negotiating with a prospective partner before anything happens. If that negotiation is done right, it's more like a collaboration toward a common goal: each party's pleasure. That includes discussing what's about to happen before it happens, hashing out boundaries and ensuring that everyone involved is on the same page.” - NPR in conversation with sex experts
5. “No matter what you’re into, kinky sex is about consent, communication, and compromise. Before trying any new sex act, obtaining enthusiastic, continuous consent from all parties involved is a must.” - GLAMOUR
6. “Consent works the same way in the kink world as it does in the vanilla world. If you don't know what your partner likes or wants, ask. With your words.” - Huff Post
7. “The kink community has a phrase that most of us abide by — Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Encoded into everything we do is the concept of consent. It is important to kinksters that we are not abusing each other, that we are respecting each other’s boundaries, individuality, and autonomy. We like to get each other’s rocks off, but we do so with integrity and an ingrained sense of propriety and rules that are codified. Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) is to kinksters what The Ten Commandments is to the religious.” - MEDIUM Mister Vinnie Editor for Edgeplay Vinnie is a cismale, sex positive, pansexual, polyamorish, dominant, leatherman
8. “If you've established that you'll explore BDSM or specific fetishes, you might want to lean on an acronym used in the BDSM community: RACK, which stands for "Risk-Aware Consensual Kink" and serves as a helpful checklist for ensuring everyone's on the same page. "It means that someone cannot consent until they have been made aware of all of the risks involved in the act," -Shan Boodram, a certified intimacy educator and spokesperson for K-Y.
9. “However, it is time for us to move past these misconceptions and accept kink as a lifestyle, a behavior, and a sexual practice. You can adopt kinky sex practices with your partner(s). Whether it be BDSM or fetishes, ensure that there is consent, which is essential for everything.” - Tickle.Life Editorial Team
10. “Having an actual verbal discussion about kink with a partner it is pretty important because when it comes to BDSM and kink activities, going with implied consent drives the risk of violating consent right up. Not everyone reacts to pain the same. What may be a genuine stop reaction for one person can be an expression of surrender and enjoyment for someone else. If you want to respect boundaries in kink, having open communications about what those boundaries are is far more successful with verbal communication.” - Keeping It Kinky Founder, Kashiko Black
wednesdaysviolet reblogged
the KINK BINGO CARDS are finally here!!! 🥳
after you have thought long and hard (😏) and picked the card that you like the most, make sure you sign up by filling this form! Sign ups will be officially closed June 30th.
Once you have filled the sign up form - feel free to start smutting!!! When you post your fills, make sure to appropriately tag them with warnings, rating and of course, the square filled on your card. Make sure to @ us as well so we can share your creations!
We are here to help with any questions you may have! 🖤
sorry but non-con being in here is so beyond morally bankrupt
Considering this isn’t the first time you’ve shown a judgemental attitude over works of fiction in this fandom (and I doubt it’ll be your last), I find it hard to believe you’re apologetic for your inappropriate comments. This event in particular rejects any sort of kinkshaming or censorship and you don’t get to make anyone feel badly for any kink they choose to write about.
Considering you’ve personally celebrated works that plagiarize other works this doesn’t surprise me either. Have fun with your event or whatever!
Never did that. Thanks for confirming you’re my anon. I’m not answering it until things are confirmed and settled with the two people who’s word actually matters with that fic, the authors in question, so I have accurate information to put the matter to rest. Both of which haven’t been able to yet because they’ve been busy. I’m not going to rush into addressing that and I am not going to encourage exacerbating the situation in the meantime. Kindly, don’t make accusations about things you don’t know about.
I’d provide screenshots but you are clearly not worth my time. It’s happened more than once too 😬 but interesting you seem to have the “they’re too busy to reply” excuse in your back pocket.
wednesdaysviolet reblogged
the KINK BINGO CARDS are finally here!!! 🥳
after you have thought long and hard (😏) and picked the card that you like the most, make sure you sign up by filling this form! Sign ups will be officially closed June 30th.
Once you have filled the sign up form - feel free to start smutting!!! When you post your fills, make sure to appropriately tag them with warnings, rating and of course, the square filled on your card. Make sure to @ us as well so we can share your creations!
We are here to help with any questions you may have! 🖤
sorry but non-con being in here is so beyond morally bankrupt
Considering this isn’t the first time you’ve shown a judgemental attitude over works of fiction in this fandom (and I doubt it’ll be your last), I find it hard to believe you’re apologetic for your inappropriate comments. This event in particular rejects any sort of kinkshaming or censorship and you don’t get to make anyone feel badly for any kink they choose to write about.
Considering you’ve personally celebrated works that plagiarize other works this doesn’t surprise me either. Have fun with your event or whatever!