1. I'm GreyAce or grey sexual, and sometimes use the label Bi in public spaces (usually offline) not only to avoid confusion and judgement (people irl ik have absolutely NO concept acespec) but sometimes because it fits as well.

2. Demiromantic- infrequent romantic attraction (often have to make up crushes when I was younger just to appease my friends lol- they never believe me when I say I don't have a crush on anyone), gender doesn't matter nor race? Altho, aesthetic-wise I do often am more 'attracted' to my fellow Asian people (we're a broad bunch and so pretty 💜)

3. Thru the Internet osmosis. I'm lucky. I grew up at the right time. Sometimes I feel guilty because it felt too easy- finding a label and immediately going, yep. That's me. But to elaborate more, I guess, it's a culmination of things? I don't get a lot or romantic attraction, I got a libido but I get sexually attracted rarely and sometimes be repulsed with just the thought of doing it with someone- sometimes touching is nice if it's cold or I need a hug but often times I get weirded out by it.

4. No. Not personally. I've heard about it. Saw the occasional posts that would say being Asexual is not a real thing- which I ignore, but for the most part I feel like I entered at a real safe space. Never received a judgement or an attack about my sexuality's non-existence. The lgbtqia+ spaces I've been in are very supportive and I've never felt unwelcome even when I identified as a bi before transitioning to an ace-label. The people are warm.

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peter parker is bisexual and no one can tell me otherwise

Listen, I’ve tried not hating men. They’re hellbent on proving that they should be hated like what can I do????

Physically, I can appreciate them a lot. I got a lot of boy crushes based on their looks. But I have never -and I mean, NEVER got emotionally attracted to a guy in real life.

Celebrity crushes do not count btw. Or, (fan)fictional characters for that matter.

And that is why, I'm not completely straight.

hey um filipinos when will you stop thinking gays = super girlish and lesbians = super boyish??

YES! Thank you! I get super mad whenever I see this kind of stereotypes in tv. That I just-- avoid. I know it's wrong. I know I should always do the right thing and--- FIGHT. But I have to face this kind of bigotry every day of my life and sometimes... sometimes...

And whenever I try explaining (especially to the fam), I am not taken seriously -like, at all. Or is literally told to shut up and be ignored. They don't want to listen to anything that does not conform to their world view. Some of them think it's funny to "trigger" me. And they want to silence me because I get too loud when I get passionate with my arguments and I'd end up embarrassed, humiliated, or worst feeling resigned. I just... man our country's so backwards sometimes it's... so... katalaka gid ya, sa tuod lang.

The sole reason I headcanon Peter Parker as bisexual is because I want him to at some point say the phrase “I swing both ways”

What the fuck they’re two years old

STRAIGHT PEOPLE ARE SO FUCKING WEIRD 

This is exactly what I was talking about the other day. It’s not even just the bizarre urge to sexualize children, it’s that they’re sexualized with the explicit purpose of then policing their hypothetical sexuality. Little girls have sexuality forced on them for the sole purpose of teaching them that sexuality is meant to be shameful.

^this is a great point

I repeat: HETEROPATRIARCHY IS SO FUCKIN WEIRD

I'm sure straight people aren't always like this. However, there will always be extremists... like my aunt would occasionally make incestuous remarks on my cousin and I when we go a little more rambunctious with each other (I live with her and my cousins who are all boys and are like a brothers to me) and I swear, things would immediately go silent and so fucking uncomfortable until suddenly there's this distance that makes feel so fucking disappointed and miserable like don't distance yourself we're doing fine, there's nothing wrong, and we're not each other's type anyway -like c'mon, dude.

And then the moment's gone and he'd move on and we all move on, and there's always this fucking divide between boys and girls -which is ironic since most of my friends are boys, within the family and I couldn't do anything about it because I'm not taken seriously no matter how reasonable I sound and they'd even make sexist jokes to mess around and laugh until they'll have these serious discussions about how different boys and girls are, and how being gay is a common insult inside the household. Sigh. Basically, it's all about masculinity here. Which I have to tolerate until I can manage on my own someday... and maybe when we all grow up and be more mature, things will change. I hope.