#boss ladies don’t let me decorate the booth with gender reveal baby shower stuff tho which is sad bc it would be really funny to me as a

was talking to my gf about my fear of dying young for being trans and my mom putting my deadname on my gravestone, and she said "i hope that never happens, but if it does, i will carve your name into your grave myself if i have to." and i think theres something extremely raw about that sentiment and trans community in general. you can kill only our bodies, but you cant kill transsexuality

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APPOINT SOMEONE ELSE AS YOUR NEXT OF KIN

If you are over 18 and do not want your parents to have control over your body after you die or if you go into a coma or something, take that power away from them. They are your automatic next of kin unless you get married which is why they have control over those things. But getting married isn’t the only way to change that, an advanced directive can do the same. This video has more information

#I work at this law firm in the south that’s like 40% queer and when we go to pride as vendors we do advanced directives for free for #people who stop by the table and want one #boss ladies don’t let me decorate the booth with gender reveal baby shower stuff tho which is sad bc it would be really funny to me as a #trans person to get handed a balloon that says “’it’s a boy congratulations’ but they think that’s Too Much