“In speaking of archetypes and essential gay differences, [scholar Will] Fellows goes further than I would go...But he is certainly right to note the perennial defensive reflex that is immediately triggered nowadays by any suggestion that ‘gender variance’ or ‘gender-atypical’ behavior might be a part of gay male identity--a transphobic reflex. Fellows knows that routine by heart. He both anticipates it and reproduces it unerringly: “’I’m homosexual,’ they will protest, ‘but I’m not effeminate.’” More controversially, and more intriguingly, Fellows counters those claims by contending that the mere failure to appear effeminate does not support such a defensive assertion on the part of a gay man, since gender variance “may be manifested more internally in his interests, aptitudes, values, emotional constitution, and communication style.”...
Unlike Fellows, I do not regard gender variance as the key to understanding gay male subjectivity. But the project of my class and of this book agrees with his insofar as it bucks the historical trends that are responsible for making gay male culture a permanent embarrassment to gay men--and that do so by constituting gay culture as inherently backward, archaic, unmasculine, unsexual, and therefore inassimilable to modern, normative gay identity. These are the same historical trends that have made the denial of any and all non-sexual differences between gay and non-gay people, including differences in culture or gender style, an article of faith in the ideology of the post-Stonewall gay movement. Such a denial lies behind the insistence that younger gay men, healthy and untouched by homophobia, have no need of gay male culture--and certainly no need of a gay male culture that implies some sort of female identification or effeminacy.
A similar denial persists, more surprisingly, throughout much writing in the academic field of ‘queer theory.’ There it assumes the protective coloration of an axiomatic opposition to ‘essentialism’--the stubborn but ultimately untenable belief that social identities are grounded in some inherent property or nature or quality common to all the members of an identity-based group. The rejection of essentialism did not prevent the original founders of queer theory from asking, ‘What do queers want?’ or from exploring the particularities of gay culture. But as queer theory has become institutionalized, the understandable reluctance to accept essentialist assumptions about lesbians and gay men has hardened into an automatic self-justifying dogmatism, a visceral impulse to preempt the merest acknowledgment or recognition of any cultural patterns or practices that might be distinctive to homosexuals.
...The very attention that queer theory has lavished on difference, intersectionality, and comparison has ended up screening out the question of how, for a large segment of homosexual American men during the past century or so, being gay has been experienced through highly patterned forms of embodied sensibility--even as those patterns tend routinely to be disavowed by gay men in their efforts to escape ‘stereotypes’ and ‘labels.’...
Unlike the kinds of hostile stereotypes that are intended to demean and denigrate the members of a minority group, the stereotypes about gay male culture and identity that I am interested in here are stereotypes that have been elaborated and propounded by at least some gay men themselves. That alone makes them worthy of being treated with seriousness, respect, curiosity, and analytical rigor--even though certain proud gay men...find them ‘skewed’ or even self-hating...
In the case of gay men, it is not only (or even chiefly) homophobes who think that gay men like Judy Garland. Gay men themselves--or, at least, some gay men in the United States and Great Britain during the past sixty years--have thought the same thing. We are not dealing with a hostile stereotype, then. We are dealing--at least, within certain historical, geographic, racial, and generational limits, with a collective self-recognition, though a self-recognition that admittedly continues to occasion a good deal of shame and therefore to produce a considerable amount of unease, and even outright denial.
In order to face down that shame and resist that impulse to denial, it is tempting to be shameless, to throw caution to the winds, to go all the way to the other extreme and to entertain, if only for a moment or two, the assumption...that just because one is gay, one must like certain things, such as particular works of art and music. That assumption is plainly indefensible when it is put in those terms. But what if we tried to discover what was behind it? What if it were possible to connect the experience of gayness with particular cultural tastes, with the love of certain cultural objects? What if there actually were a certain logic to that connection? What if we could derive the characteristic themes and experiences of gay culture from the social conditions under which that culture arises and is reproduced? What if we went even further and considered the possibility that gay male tastes for certain cultural artifacts or social practices reflect, within their particular contexts, ways of being, ways of feeling, and ways of relating to the larger social world that are fundamental to male homosexuality and distinctive to gay men, despite gay men’s many differences from one another? What if gay male subjecthood or subjectivity consisted precisely in those ways of being, feeling, and relating?
What if, in short, post-Stonewall gay male attitudes were wrong, and it turned out that male homosexuality was less about sex and more about culture, as well as the feelings, emotions, and complex combinations of affect (as epitomized by some gay men’s love of Judy Garland) that cultural practices imply?...
Which brings me back to my original, hazardous hypothesis. Perhaps there really is such a thing as gay male subjectivity. And perhaps gay men’s cultural practices offer us a way of approaching it, getting hold of it, describing it, defining it, and understanding it.”
David M. Halperin, How to Be Gay