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Various Queer Things

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i am a woman at war with herself, torn forever between my love of detective fiction and my hatred of cops and cop media

it's so fucked up that detective is a type of cop irl. it's more like a gender to me

If this is you, I have one name for you: Perry Mason. Not that HBO shit, but the original TV show and even more so, the original novels. They're mystery stories but they are so anti-cop and copaganda, you'll be shocked they were ever made/published. But then you'll realize they're from the 1930s-1950s, before cops were cast as heroes incapable of doing wrong, and you'll be amazed. He's a defense attorney who is the hero, he uses the law to protect and serve his clients and calls out when the cops and the district attorney's office try to ignore and infringe upon citizens' rights. He's the best, just trust me.

i can also mostly recommend nero wolfe, as a detective who is frequently at odds with the police and the government. also just a fascinating lens into how much the tax burden on the wealthy went down and down and down throughout the mid-20th century

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Intersex Liberation Now! Volume 1 is out on Ko-fi!

Intersex Liberation Now! is a series of zines about the reality that intersex people face, and how our lack of autonomy when it comes to our bodies affects more than just us. The intersex author describes their experience with coming to realize they were intersex, as well as helpful information on overcoming internalized intersexism, and how you can become involved in intersex activism easily in your own community.

purchasing a copy of this zine supports its author. i am a disabled transsexual intersex lesbian artist who is losing their housing in 4 days and needs help while i relocate from my current extremely unstable and unsafe situation where i actively being abused and manipulated by my current roommate.

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I love reading about the rabbi's of old trying to specifically fit me into the legal frameworks that govern religious observances, sexual propriety, marriage and inheritance...

Fellas, is it gay to have sex with your local androgynos if they be looking fine? Judah HaNasi has some strong opinions.

(I actually am loving this book, also the "little bird" Yiddish visual pun on the dust cover)

I do recommend this book. Also informative for those that have only a very surface-level understanding of sex, and gender as understood in a Jewish halachic context.... people upon hearing that Judaism has 6 or 8 genders often try to intuit it through their familiar western cultural lense, and sex/gender are understood differently through Jewish Halachah.

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Queer Book Recs

We get asked for book recommendations pretty regularly, so I wanted to share some of my favourite queer reads of 2022 so far.

Passing Strange by Ellen Klages: San Francisco in 1940 is a haven for the unconventional. Tourists flock to the cities within the city: the Magic City of the World’s Fair on an island created of artifice and illusion; the forbidden city of Chinatown, a separate, alien world of exotic food and nightclubs that offer “authentic” experiences, straight from the pages of the pulps; and the twilight world of forbidden love, where outcasts from conventional society can meet.Six women find their lives as tangled with each other’s as they are with the city they call home. They discover love and danger on the borders where magic, science, and art intersect.

Blood Feast by Malika Moustadraf with Alice Guthrie (Translator), Alice Guthrie (Translator): Blood Feast is the complete collection of Moustadraf’s short fiction: haunting, visceral stories by a master of the genre. A woman is groped during her suffocating commute; a teenage girl suffers through a dystopian rite of passage; two mothers scheme about how to ensure their daughters pass a virginity test. And the collection’s titular story paints a grim picture of dialysis patients in Casablanca–Moustadraf ultimately died of kidney disease at age thirty-seven, denied access to basic healthcare that could have saved her life. Through brilliantly executed twists and rich slang, she takes an unflinching look at the female body, abuse and harassment, and double standards around desire. Blood Feast is a sharp provocation to patriarchal power, and a celebration of the life and genius of one of Morocco’s preeminent writers.

Not Pounded By Anything: Six Platonic Tales Of Non-Sexual Encounters by Chuck TingleAcross the wide world of the Tingleverse, one thing is clear: love is real. But, for many buckaroos, their preferred kind of love has nothing to do with sex. Whether asexual or just not feeling it at the moment, this collection of completely sexless tales is perfect for the desires of any readers who are looking for a non-sexual trip through the alternate timelines of Dr. Chuck Tingle.

Still Life by Louise Penny: Chief Inspector Armand Gamache of the Surêté du Québec and his team of investigators are called in to the scene of a suspicious death in a rural village south of Montreal. Jane Neal, a local fixture in the tiny hamlet of Three Pines, just north of the U.S. border, has been found dead in the woods. The locals are certain it’s a tragic hunting accident and nothing more, but Gamache smells something foul in these remote woods, and is soon certain that Jane Neal died at the hands of someone much more sinister than a careless bowhunter.

Witching Moon by Poppy Woods: Alandra Michaels is your everyday, run-of-the-mill, ordinary witch. She doesn’t have an affinity for an element, like her sister. She can’t speak to the dead, like her mother. Even her familiar–Beezelbub the moth–is a plain, non-threatening insect. Alandra is fine with that; she knows what she is and what she isn’t. Or so she thought … When a spell goes wrong and a gorgeous woman shows up in her living room claiming to be the Moon, everything changes for Alandra and her magical abilities will be put to the test.

A Dowry of Blood by S.T. Gibson: A lyrical and dreamy reimagining of Dracula’s brides, A Dowry of Blood is a story of desire, obsession, and emancipation. Saved from the brink of death by a mysterious stranger, Constanta is transformed from a medieval peasant into a bride fit for an undying king. But when Dracula draws a cunning aristocrat and a starving artist into his web of passion and deceit, Constanta realizes that her beloved is capable of terrible things. Finding comfort in the arms of her rival consorts, she begins to unravel their husband’s dark secrets. With the lives of everyone she loves on the line, Constanta will have to choose between her own freedom and her love for her husband. But bonds forged by blood can only be broken by death.

Iron Widow by Xiran Jay Zhao: The boys of Huaxia dream of pairing up with girls to pilot Chrysalises, giant transforming robots that can battle the mecha aliens that lurk beyond the Great Wall. It doesn’t matter that the girls often die from the mental strain.When 18-year-old Zetian offers herself up as a concubine-pilot, it’s to assassinate the ace male pilot responsible for her sister’s death. But she gets her vengeance in a way nobody expected—she kills him through the psychic link between pilots and emerges from the cockpit unscathed. She is labeled an Iron Widow, a much-feared and much-silenced kind of female pilot who can sacrifice boys to power up Chrysalises instead.​To tame her unnerving yet invaluable mental strength, she is paired up with Li Shimin, the strongest and most controversial male pilot in Huaxia​. But now that Zetian has had a taste of power, she will not cower so easily. She will miss no opportunity to leverage their combined might and infamy to survive attempt after attempt on her life, until she can figure out exactly why the pilot system works in its misogynist way—and stop more girls from being sacrificed.

The Pink Line: Journeys Across the World’s Queer Frontiers by Mark Gevisser: More than seven years in the making, Mark Gevisser’s The Pink Line: Journeys Across the World’s Queer Frontiers is an exploration of how the conversation around sexual orientation and gender identity has come to divide–and describe–the world in an entirely new way over the first two decades of the twenty-first century. No social movement has brought change so quickly and with such dramatically mixed results. While same-sex marriage and gender transition are celebrated in some parts of the world, laws are being strengthened to criminalize homosexuality and gender nonconformity in others. As new globalized queer identities are adopted by people across the world–thanks to the digital revolution–fresh culture wars have emerged. A new Pink Line, Gevisser argues, has been drawn across the globe, and he takes readers to its frontiers.

IRL by Tommy Pico: IRL is a sweaty, summertime poem composed like a long text message, rooted in the epic tradition of A.R. Ammons, ancient Kumeyaay Bird Songs, and Beyoncé’s visual albums. It follows Teebs, a reservation-born, queer NDN weirdo, trying to figure out his impulses/desires/history in the midst of Brooklyn rooftops, privacy in the age of the Internet, street harassment, suicide, boys boys boys, literature, colonialism, religion, leaving one’s 20s, and a love/hate relationship with English. He’s plagued by an indecision, unsure of which obsessions, attractions, and impulses are essentially his, and which are the result of Christian conversion, hetero-patriarchal/colonialist white supremacy, homophobia, Bacardi, gummy candy, and not getting laid. IRL asks, what happens to a modern, queer indigenous person a few generations after his ancestors were alienated from their language, their religion, and their history? Teebs feels compelled towards “boys, burgers,booze,” though he begins to suspect there is perhaps a more ancient goddess calling to him behind art, behind music, behind poetry.

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I wish kinky sex ed wasn't so stigmatized even among left-leaning "sex positive" circles. Everyone's all "uwu I'm a sub I'll do anything you ask" okay mommy wants you to read The New Bottoming Book so you learn how to sub without hurting yourself since your sex ed up to this point is porn and your ex boyfriend Jared who liked to choke you incorrectly

I’m so glad you asked! Let me list off what I’ve got for you:

Books I personally recommend:

- The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

If you’re having kinky sex at all, you need to read at least one of these two books. Point blank. They’ll teach you the very basics of negotiating properly (which is critical!), and help you identify what you are and aren’t into.

- Mindfucking Mindfully, by Sir Ezra Where this book really shines isn’t actually in helping you “mindfuck” people, it’s in taking a close look at how to do so ethically. It’s a great answer to the question “how do I get someone to consent to something and still surprise and shock them with it?”

- Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny This is a slightly niche pick but there simply isn’t a better book on the subject. It’s written from a 24/7 M/s perspective, which is not what I do, but the book itself is an indispensable guide to giving and receiving service. The phrase “if the Master doesn’t want it, it isn’t service” will be burned into my psyche for quite some time. I love this book a lot. Maybe my favorite out of all of these.

- Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, by Princess Kali This one’s high on my reading list; I’ve heard it recommended by a number of people whose opinions on these things I trust.

- Pretty Much Anything Midori Has Ever Done Midori is a great resource for this stuff - I haven’t personally read much of her work, but she’s a well known sex educator and great at what she does. She’s known for bondage, but has a lot of range beyond that.

- This Negotiations Worksheet from Bex Talks Sex This is what I default to using a lot of the time for negotiations. Forget BDSMtest, you don’t need that, it’s no good. Just look through this worksheet’s wordbank with your partner. Big fan especially of the “how do you want to feel?” section.

Books I can kind of recommend:

- The Ultimate Guide to Kink, edited by Tristan Taormino This book is weird. There’s a lot of good info for experienced players, but some of what’s written here skeeves me out. I think if I had a top that thought the way some of the tops in here think, they would not be topping me for long. But there’s some good techniques and so on to pick up that I wouldn’t have otherwise. I liked the distinction one of the authors makes between being sadistic in the sense of inflicting pain and being sadistic in the sense of doing something your sub doesn’t “enjoy.”

- The Ritual of Dominance and Submission, by David English Man, this book fucking sucks. The writing and editing are garbage, and the fear and protocol play described need way more careful negotiation than he ever lets on, let alone recommends. This is some 50 Shades bullshit. The only time I recommend this book is to tops like me who tend to be very affirming to their partners and need a guide on how to really scare them - when their partner consents and when you negotiate it, which this book sucks at teaching you. Really good content on fear, punishment, and protocol play, really terrible presentation of the topic though. Don’t read this if you don’t already know what you’re doing.

- Paradigms of Power, by Raven Kaldera I love this book. Great book. Very focused on 24/7 M/s play though, and, being an anthology, some chapters are better than others. If you can’t read something and pick out what is and isn’t for you, don’t bother. But some really great inspiration, and generally pretty well written. Big fan of the discussion of leather throughout the book.

Hope some of these are helpful for people ^-^ for the average person reading this I recommend New Bottoming/Topping, but they’re all important parts of my library and I’ve recommended all of them to friends at some point or another.

May I also suggest Hell on Wheels and Kneeling in Spirit by Raven Kaldera, d/s companion books that address kink with a disability. They're a should read for everyone, imo. You never know when you or a partner are going to have changes in your body that affect what you can physically do. Temporary illness/injury and even just age can affect your sex life.

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I'd like to suggest Better Bondage for Every Body! It goes really in depth on anatomy, pain processing, self-tying, and has chapters specifically focusing on how to do rope bondage on/for someone who is disabled or has chronic pain, which was really important to me.

[ begin id: a screenshot of a comment by @/asstraightasau-turn that says “Okay but do you have some more books for education on that matter? Im highly interested to get ACTUALLY educated on these topics”  / end id ]

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Anonymous asked:

What is your favourite art inspired by queer history?

I cannot give one answer to this question, so I will share my top two!

First, this isn't inspired by any particular story in queer history, but it is a queer historical fiction that remains one of my favourite books of all time. It was such a tender yet painfully accurate portrayal of queer love as it has existed in different times and how it connects people throughout time and space.

Next is this poem based on the ballet dancer Vaslav Nijinsky, by Frank Bidart. What is specifically notable about this snippet of the poem that I found accidentally on Pinterest, is that Vaslav Nijinsky and his journals are a part of the history of the diagnosis of schizophrenia. Vaslav himself had a difficult time coming to terms with this diagnosis and his subsequent institutionalization, as his brother had a similar experience and watching it was very upsetting for Vaslav. In this poem, the separation between the sanity Vaslav craves and the mental illness he fears is guilt for the actions he takes that hurt people. So we find him in this moment in the snow after running away from his wife and child:

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Featuring deep dives into thirst traps, drag queens, Antonio Banderas, and telenovelas--all in the service of helping us reframe how we talk about (desiring) men--this insightful memoir-in-essays is as much a coming of age as a coming out book Manuel Betancourt has long lustfully coveted masculinity--in part because he so lacked it. As a child in Bogotá, Colombia, he grew up with the social pressure to appear strong, manly, and, ultimately, straight. And yet in the films and television he avidly watched, Betancourt saw glimmers of different possibilities. From the stars of telenovelas and the princes of Disney films to pop sensation Ricky Martin and teen heartthrobs in shows like Saved By the Bell, he continually found himself asking: Do I want him or do I want to be him? The Male Gazed grapples with the thrall of masculinity, examining its frailty and its attendant anxieties even as it focuses on its erotic potential. Masculinity, Betancourt suggests, isn't suddenly ripe for deconstruction--or even outright destruction--amid so much talk about its inherent toxicity. Looking back over decades' worth of pop culture's attempts to codify and reframe what men can be, wear, do, and desire, this book establishes that to gaze at men is still a subversive act.

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Read Sara Friedman’s fascinating article, “Universal Language with a German Accent: Conrad Veidt in Silent Hollywood,” which is structured around the diary that Conny kept during his first trip to America in 1926. Update: Sorry folks, It was brought to my attention that the article was only outside the Project MUSE paywall for the month of June. O Academia!

After weeks of crying and searching, found the article through another aggregator (and my uni has access to it >:) ).

So, ya know, if anyone’s interested…

;) here you go, everyone! Courtesy of the Wayback Machine and the single person who thought to save this link to the Wayback Machine in June 2021!

This is why everyone should get the Official Wayback Machine Extension (scroll down and select your internet browser) and set it to automatically back up the web pages you visit (under settings / general / autosave > 24 hours) !

I was going to copy and paste the whole study under a read more, but Tumblr absolutely refused to process the post or even let me save it as a draft.

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Ace!Charles Fic List 🖤🤍💜

Hello yes, I would like all of you to know that I have written multiple permutations of ace and/or aro!Charles.

Dedicated especially to @blue-ravens and @genderqueer-klinger

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X Marks the Spot (ace) - Charles gets ahold of the Kinsey Scale in a canon missing scene.

Those Who Came Before (ace) - Charles sees the ace flag for the first time.

Solidarity (ace!Charles, demi!BJ) - Charles and BJ have a little chat where they both get acquainted a little better.

Safe h-AVEN (ace!Charles) - Modern AU where Charles and Hawk are in college together, and Hawk introduces Charles to AVEN.

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swifter than the arrow (aro/ace) - Charles and Potter have a chat (549 words)

The Home Universe (biromantic demi/gray-ace) - various, Charles starts off in the universe ace and stays that way; Charles/Donna (also BJ/Peg/Hawk in most stories), go from engaged to married 💜

+ Other stories tagged with "Ace!Charles" where it's not a specific plot point:

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[“Much has been written about Li’s older boyfriend, Magnus Hirschfeld. He was a closeted German doctor and sexologist who became famous in the 1930s as a defender of gay people. In books on Hirschfeld, Li is usually just a footnote.

But as I found in my research, Li was a sexologist and activist in his own right. And in my view, his ideas about sexuality speak to our moment better than his much more well-known boyfriend’s do.

When Li died in Vancouver in 1993, his unpublished manuscript about sexuality was thrown in the trash. Luckily, it was rescued by a curious neighbor and eventually ended up in an archive. Since then, only a handful of people, myself included, have read it.

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Yet Li’s rediscovered manuscript shows he did become a sexologist, even though he never published his findings.

In his manuscript, Li tells how after Hirschfeld died, he spent decades traveling the world, carrying on the research and taking detailed notes while living in Zurich, Hong Kong and then Vancouver.

The data he gathered would have startled Hirschfeld. Forty percent of people were bisexual, he wrote, 20 percent were homosexual and only 30 percent percent were heterosexual. (The last 10 percent were “other.”) Being trans was an important, beneficial part of the human experience, he added.

Hirschfeld thought bisexuals were scarce and that even homosexuals were only a minor slice of the population—a “sexual minority.” To Li, bisexuals plus homosexuals were the majority. It was lifelong heterosexuals who were rare—so rare, he wrote, that they “should be classified as an endangered species.”]

[“The next day, he sent me some photographs of a suitcase and its contents, which gave me another heart attack: There was, among lots of other things, the Hirschfeld death mask, a booklet named “Testament. Heft II”, there were photographs, and copies of rare journals.

Adam told me that he had known Mr. Li only from meetings in the elevator of the building, exchanging a friendly “Good morning, Mr. Li”. He had come across these items because as a student, he earned some money by cleaning out the dumpster of the building once a week. And one day, after Mr. Li’s death, he found all those strange things in that room, which he thought should not be just thrown away. He could not read German, and, of course, not at all old German handwriting—but nevertheless, after asking a family member for permission, he put those items into a suitcase and took everything home.“]

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