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Hi! unforth everywhere. queer as fuck.
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Howdy, I’m unforth, afab agender (any pronouns), aroace, queer, 41 years old, mother of two, queer-married to @ramblingandpie. I’m white, Jewish, atheist, and I live in New York, USA. I’m mostly known as a fanfiction author I guess? I’m pro-ship and pro-kink - which really is to say I'm anti-censorship - though there’s plenty I personally won’t read...I mostly read sappy shortform fluff, tbh. My primary fandoms are Supernatural, MXTX stuff, things with Zhu Yilong in them (esp Guardian and Daomu Biji), things by Priest, whatever danmei books I've found time to read, and danmei manhua I can devour on the Bilibili app...and a splash of LOTS of other fandoms (Star Trek, Star Wars, MCU, Yuri on Ice, The Witcher, Wheel of Time, Check Please, One Piece, and Slayers, to name a few). I tag everything, so if you stick around, just blacklist all the stuff that doesn’t interest you. I love art and fibercraft. Fuck TERFs. BLM.

Master post of c-drama and danmei media I have, am currently, or intend to consume in the future. and by consume I mean devour. nomnomnom. This post lists what I'm currently watching and reading, what I have read, what I want to read, and it has loads of links. idk if it'll be useful to anyone but at least it helps me remember?

List of Fandoms I'll Write For (give or take a few....currently VERY out of date, oops)

Other things I do:

I think that’s everything current, but I’ve done lots of other stuff over the years...I’ve been in online fandoms since 1994, so I’ve been around the block about a bajillion times.

I don’t usually follow back because I get overwhelmed easily, but if you want to be friends, just start talking to me, and I’ll respond, and if we end up friends I will follow - basically everyone I follow is a mutual, and a friend.

Don’t be a stranger, and I look forward to getting to know ya’ll!

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Okay but what if the reason Jiang Cheng and Wei Wuxian are so close in age is that they were both conceived during the same foursome between Jiang Fengmian, Yu Ziyuan, Cangse Sanren, and Wei Changze?

What then?

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If your democrat friends start muttering about stolen election conspiracy theories, the time to have a sit down with them and express your concerns is NOW, while you still have a chance to reach them, not 6 months from now when they're fully conspiracy-pilled.

Here's some of the talking points and why they're bullshit:

  • '10 million votes don't just disappear!' -> Joe Biden's 81 million votes were a statistical outlier, sparked by the recent experience of the Trump presidency. The democrats failed to maintain that sense of urgency, but Harris still got more votes than Hillary Clinton, more than Obama and more than any previous democratic candidate. These numbers are not weird at all.
  • 'The Republicans tried to infiltrate election- and vote counting organizations!' -> yeah, they did, and yet hundreds of independent legal observers didn't see anything go wrong enough to raise any alarms. Independent exit polls are also very consistently similar to the counted votes. Tons of international organizations specialized in this stuff observed the election and didn't see a reason to raise the alarm.
  • 'But I know a dozen democrats whose mail-in votes were not counted!' -> In any election a certain number of votes are registered as invalid because something was wrong with the ballot. In a country the size of the US, that translates to many thousands of votes. The internet allows these people to find each other, creating the false impression that a suspiciously large group of voted was not valid.
  • 'Musk used Star Link to mess with electronic voting!' -> Electronic voting machines are not connected to the internet and dozens of independent media have already debunked this myth. It is absolutely impossible to use Star Link to fake election results.
  • 'There is voter disenfranchisement!' -> This is true. This has always been true, for every election. It's an issue worth talking about but it's not a special secret conspiracy that's unique to this election.

But just as importantly as the facts: sit down with your friend and talk about the anxiety that's behind their conspiracy leanings. Acknowledge their pain and fear. Help them find ways to feel less powerless and regain their sense of agency. Take them to a mutual aid event, involve them in a fundraising event for a marginalized group, invite them to a local community effort. If they spend more time feeling connection and empowerment and less time doom scrolling online, they're far more likely to stay in reality.

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beskad

This this this

I worked as an election judge across multiple polling locations and election types in my state from 2018-2023 (presidential primary and general elections, midterms, and special elections like for the school board etc.)

US elections are extremely secure. There are so many safeguards in place. Everything is double and triple counted.

The number of ballots electronically counted by the box are checked against the number of physical ballots at the end of the night, and also the receipt papers that individuals exchange for their ballot. All three of these counts MUST MATCH. Sometimes you're off by 1 number and it means everyone stops and triple counts these papers until you find the error (human error, it's been 16 hours and two pieces of thin receipt paper were stuck together and the second person to recount finds it and everyone cheers because thank fuck, it means no one dropped anything on the floor anywhere.)

There are eyes everywhere and there's a deliberate mix of poll workers across political parties/affiliations. It's simply not possible to alter even 1 ballot at 1 polling place, much less thousands.

Unfortunately, Donald Trump won this election. If there was interference, it was NOT at the voting booth. That's simply not possible. The "interference" (if you can even call it that) comes from right wing propaganda convincing stupid and/or hateful and/or selfish people to vote for him.

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ajloun

what I wish people would understand about fundraising for gaza is that while everyone is desperate and I would never say not to fundraise for or donate to individual families-- I currently fundraise to support multiple friends' families-- the overwhelming narrative I see on Tumblr that the best and most ethical thing you can do is send money to individuals and there is no option for anything else is so so incredibly damaging and inadvertently lends support to the marginalization and distrust of any remaining communal social infrastructure. the sameer project, which you should donate to, talks about this in a recent video they put out. the situation in gaza is unimaginable and everyone is in need of a huge level of support, and yet this fundraising discourse by well-meaning people in the west that donating money to individuals is the only moral way reproduces societal divides wherein resources are directed to people who speak English, who have relationships with people outside of gaza, and who have internet access while hundreds of thousands are left behind.

there ARE non-ngo locally based grassroots initiatives working to meet those needs however they can, and your small donation goes a lot further with them because they are able to buy food/water/supplies in bulk at a reduced price and reach more people with less money. again I'm not saying people shouldn't fundraise for individuals because these initiatives are so limited and many people cannot access them -- but as an example, the group I fundraise with is currently serving people fleeing north gaza who are starving and have nothing, and when we fundraise enough to do cash aid distribution there's so much need that our partners can only distribute 100-200 per large family. and then I go online and see people who have absolutely no understanding of this context at all exclusively working towards raising tens of thousands for just a few people when evacuations haven't been possible for months. it's good to do whatever you can but please consider how this narrative being reproduced among westerners trying to help that there are no other options has the potential to damage groups working towards equity and wider reach however is still possible

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Confessions of a Chinese language student: for some reason I have a mental block for keeping the pronunciations of 七 and 九 straight and literally the only way I keep it straight is 79 as the ship name for Yue Qingyuan and Shen Qingqiu.

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Got my first "how dare you say women have to walk on eggshells to appease men" piss on the poor reply to my post about not hating men.

Love that block button. 👌

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unforth

Ungentle reminder that if I were a disinformation tumblr account, what I'd be doing now is getting people on the left to blame other people on the left for this election outcome. Divided we are weak and unable to organize to protect each other and resist.

The Fascists won because there were a lot of fucking Fascists. Stop cannibalizing your allies and assign blame where it belongs.

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meret118

If someone chose not to vote, or voted for anyone other than Harris then they helped the fascists. With friends like that . . .

Your absolutism might make you feel good but it's not going to protect anyone or improve anything.

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unforth

Ungentle reminder that if I were a disinformation tumblr account, what I'd be doing now is getting people on the left to blame other people on the left for this election outcome. Divided we are weak and unable to organize to protect each other and resist.

The Fascists won because there were a lot of fucking Fascists. Stop cannibalizing your allies and assign blame where it belongs.

Do not blame or harass people who struggled with complex ethical decisions. Blame and harass everyone who bought a “grab her by the pussy” T-shirt, and everyone that excused them.

These were not "complex ethical decisions." They were clear. They were easy. Your failure to vote because you wanted to look good on a crappy social media platform instead of making the best choice for vulnerable populations across the world is not the work of an ally.

The fascists won because the left sat on their butts and obsessed over themselves instead of the one simple act of voting. These people are not allies. They already chose not to organize, and you cannot trust them going forward because they just don't do anything of value. They have already divided the left.

The left who voted do not owe them anything. They have every right to be angry. They were betrayed.

You realize that the non-voters ARE the people who are out there excusing the fascists?

Eat your consequences.

Hi. I did vote. I encouraged everyone I talked to to vote. Who the fuck is the "you" this anger is directed at?

I think the people who didn't vote were fucking stupid. I am angry at them.

And I think and feel that *doesn't fucking matter anymore*. We've got bigger fucking problems now. Doubling down on a mistake that would require a time machine to fix when the fascists are right fucking there is counterproductive.

Be angry, but recognize which anger will help. The Fascists will never be our allies. The people who didn't vote and are now realizing they fucked up could still be allies. So put the rage at them aside and do the work that actually matters, building community and resiliency with each other to survive what's to come.

They fucked up then, 100%.

That doesn't mean we make it worse now by blaming them for what was, ultimately, the fault of the millions who did vote and chose Trump.

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My brain has latched onto the idea of a Hualian AU inspired by Centerfold by J. Geils Band and is refusing to give me any other information beyond the song.

Like.

Hua Cheng had a massive crush on his teacher Xie Lian during his last year of school when he was 17/18 and teacher is early 20s.

Now, 5 or 6 years later, he sees his teacher in a skin mag and holy fuck beefcake. He just HAS to buy it.

What happens next? Yeah I'd like to know too, come on brain, cough up the deets.

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Y'all have got to stop virulently hating men. Like, I'm sorry, I fucking hate the patriarchy too, but the patriarchy isn't just men and saying it is just exculpates complicit women. I am the mother of a young boy, and I look at this precious, empathetic 8 year old boy I'm raising and I don't know where online is safe for him. Places like this will say he's evil just for his gender, and other places will say "we'll be your friend if you hate with us," and still others will radicalize him in other ways. Where is he supposed to go? Why are we saying the radicalization is the fault of the kids just trying to find a place to hang?

Like this is seriously getting urgent. You have got to fucking stop conflating the patriarchy and men. 53% percent of white women voted for Trump. Men aren't the problem. White supremacy and Christian patriarchal structures are two examples of patriarchy-reinforcing structures that aren't solely couched in maleness. Men aren't the problem, and pretending they are drives more men into more welcoming extremist spaces and also ignores all the parts of this that are forwarded by people who aren't men.

What I see happening all over is scared, depressed, lonely people looking for someone they're allowed to hate automatically, unquestioningly - someone they're allowed to place all the blame on. Fascism says people of color, non-Christian people, queer people, etc., are the ones they're allowed to hate.

And way too many of yall answer that no, it's leftist to hate men instead. You are doing *the exact same thing they are.*

Fucking knock it off.

The answer is we're not supposed to hate anyone automatically based on their immutable personal characteristics. Hate the specific people who've hurt you. Hate the self-reinforcing systems that let them get away with hurting you. Hate the strangers who prop up those systems. Hate the fascists. Hell knows I hate Donald Trump, but it's not because he's a man, it's because he's a piece of shit.

Hate the pieces of shit, not the gender.

But don't hate men just because they're men. That's unhelpful, stupid, insane, and entirely counterproductive. Fucking. Stop.

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horsegirl

this looks like one of those pictures you're supposed to see at least 10 years later

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unforth

Tbh the amount of time I've spent the last few days imagining their angry post-election phone calls is. Probably not a reasonable amount of time for me to spend imagining political platonic rpf. But man. I wish I could have heard it. How many times y'all thing they each said "fuck"?

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