My dear lgbt+ kids,
I'm compiling some safety tips here for people in the US here that I found online. Some things you may want to do before January:
- Make an appointment with your doctor to talk about a long-term birth control plan, such as an IUD or vasectomy.
- Make an appointment with your doctor to make sure your vaccinations are up to date and to get a Covid booster.
- Check in, and stay in contact with, your queer friends. There’s strength in numbers. Community is important.
- Consider renewing your passport if necessary.
- Consider stocking up on fluoride toothpaste, pregnancy tests or other health products you worry about not (safely) having access to in the future.
- Rest up. Hydrate. Eat. Take care of yourself. The best act of rebellion is staying alive. You don’t need to feel strong or brave or even optimistic, just be kind to yourself.
With all my love,
Your Tumblr Dad
Some additional information on fluoride, to answer the questions in the comments: as everything in this list, this is a safety measure for potential situations that could arise. I obviously can not predict the future. With that in mind:
Fluoride is an important mineral primarily used to strengthen tooth enamel and prevent cavities. It helps rebuild weakened enamel and can reduce the amount of bacteria in the mouth that causes decay. In many places, fluoride is added to public water supplies in safe amounts, a measure backed by numerous studies showing it significantly reduces dental issues, especially in children.
Politicians who are right-wing extremists or conspiracy theorists may, however, seek to ban fluoride due to long-standing misinformation that fluoride is a form of government control or even a toxin (similar to the misinformation about vaccines that they also may seek to ban).
Some add-ons I can think of:
- As dark as it may sound: if you are a woman (or are read as one) and you’re considering breaking up with or divorcing a man, do it NOW. Who knows if you still can when Project 2025 comes.
- There’s a post going around by @lesbiantestsubject on how to stockpile HRT
- Maybe keep on extra eye out on signs of suicidal tendencies in your friends. Suicide rates may skyrocket.
- Just… hug your trans friends. Seriously, we need it.
Good additions! But obligatory addition on my part to that first point: breaking up or filing for divorce can be dangerous, especially in an unhealthy or abusive relationship. So, if that’s your situation: Reach out for support. Let trusted friends, family, or a support group know about your situation. And plan your exit carefully, even if time is of essence. Choose a safe time and place to leave, ideally when the other person isn't around. Plan how you'll get out and where you'll go. Collect IDs, bank info, and any essentials beforehand so you're prepared to leave without having to go back. Also, create a safety plan. Know your options in case things escalate, like where to hide or who to call. Have emergency contacts ready and consider storing a “go-bag” in a safe place. After leaving, consider limiting what you share publicly and possibly changing passwords. This can prevent tracking or unwanted contact.
Additions, inspired by the comments:
- Ensure all necessary legal documents (marriage certificates, adoption certificates, name change orders, wills etc.) are up-to-date and securely stored
- Talk to your doctor about completing gender-affirming care steps earlier if possible (such a surgeries or HRT evaluations or prescriptions)
- Build or join lgbt+ support networks (locally or online), both for solidarity and mutual aid (sharing resources like food, medical supplies and skills)
- Look into learning skills for climate resilience (like sustainable gardening, energy conservation and disaster preparedness)
- If you rely on mobility aids, durable medical equipment or specialized supplies, stock up on extras if possible
- Stock up on masks and Covid tests
- Get a refresher on how to do Covid safety measures properly (social distancing, masking, hygiene etc.)
- Build an emergency fund if possible, to provide financial security in case of sudden job loss or other instability
- Familiarize yourself with laws around voting, protests, and digital security
- Follow trusted sources to stay updated on policy changes and potential impacts on your community. Consider including international sources in your routine, for unbiased reporting
- Get a library card and use it
- Don’t forget to vote locally. Support progressive candidates in local and state elections who can act as barriers to harmful policies
- Digitize and securely store important personal records in case of sudden displacement or legal threats
- Read up on digital footprint and privacy
- If you receive disability benefits, ensure all necessary paperwork is current
- If you rely on caregivers services, establish a network of trusted backup caregivers. If possible, (ask someone to) teach close friends or family members how to assist with specific care needs, such as administering medications or using medical devices
- Develop a plan with your loved ones about how to respond to worst-case scenarios. Even if they never happen, having a plan in mind can reduce stress and anxiety
