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peak hatemail [ choosy moms choose gif ] long and prosper, baby
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nudityandnerdery
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dingdongyouarewrong

i really don't get the edgelord types who say stuff like 'love is nothing but a chemical reaction' as a way of trying to like, devalue love or dismiss its importance. like ok and ?

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dingdongyouarewrong

it's like this idea that intellectualizing and demystifying what's happening in our body somehow makes those processes less meaningful, as though they are opposites somehow. odd!

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txttletale

"pfft. love is just a chemical reaction normie. you're just chasing brain chemicals" — guy chasing the 'feeling superior online' brain chemicals

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fragrant-stars

Idk man some of us have been deeply traumatised by love and don't see the point in romanticsing it I guess?? Like ok love is like. Cute and all, happy for you or whatever but let's not pretend it's as magical and unconditional as everyone likes to say it is 😒 but sure boil us down to an edgelord caricature if that makes the concept of ppl not liking the thing you do easier to process idk

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txttletale
#love#chemicals#the new atheists#cool story bro
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drbrucebananer-blog

Stop teaching children that there is only one person out there meant for them. Let it be easier for people to let their toxic relationships go without fear of losing “The One”.

Its so fucked up and weird that we don’t tell people that there will be multiple important people in their lives

#love#abuse
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coochienojutsu
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oddishfeeling

no one wants to hear it but love is earned after the initial infatuation. commitment is something u both mutually agree to and then from there it’s work. it’s not work like it’s a chore it’s jus work like it takes effort. to get good at these things takes practice. it takes practice to learn to communicate better and it takes practice to learn to love each other in the ways u need to be loved.

#love#commitment#labor
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guerrillamamamedicine
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bythe-sea
Genuine love is rarely an emotional space where needs are instantly gratified. To know love we have to invest time and commitment… dreaming that love will save us, solve all our problems or provide a steady state of bliss or security only keeps us stuck in wishful fantasy, undermining the real power of the love – which is to transform us. Many people want love to function like a drug, giving them an immediate and sustained high. They want to do nothing, just passively receive the good feeling.

bell hooks (via

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Yea

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#bell hooks#love#hearts#emotional labor
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tariqk
One of the biggest problems with religion is that people stubbornly, insistently reduce God to their own size; they imagine that God loves the same people they love, and that God hates the people they hate. This is not just insidious theology; it’s actually idolatry, because people are just worshiping a blown up version of themselves. So let me say it simply: God’s love transcends all of that. When your parents reject you, God loves you; when your friends or classmates make fun of you, God loves you; when your priest, minister, imam, or rabbi tells you that you are an abomination, God loves you; when politicians cater to people’s basest prejudices, God loves you. No matter how many times and in how many ways people make you feel less than human, God knows otherwise, and God loves you. When you feel frightened, or abandoned, or humiliated, I hope the unshakeable conviction that God loves you can help hold you and enable you to persevere.

From a Rabbi, An Open Letter To People Who Are LGBTQ by Rabbai Shai Held (via jewishtransition)

#god#love#hope#okay to be takei
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chronically-ill-dandy
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artistluv

When the honeymoon stage ends what happens

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You’re more honest with each other. Bodily functions are something to laugh about. Sweatpants and tee shirts are a regular thing. They know what you look like without all the makeup. Being “laid up and watching Netflix” is the only thing you’re looking forward to after work. You don’t go on fancy dates as often but you trade that for quality time. You find yourself being more vulnerable and you open up more. They become your best friend. You will able to talk about anything. You won’t be worried about impressing their parents, you’re just gonna love them anyway regardless of how their parents may feel. You will have inside jokes that no one else will get. Sex is not as often but, twice as passionate. Little fights will happen, but you’ll learn not to sweat the small stuff. You’ll learn what compromise really is about. You’ll dream about the future together. Grow together. Be on each other’s team. See their ugly crying face, and be the one to wipe the tears away & do something stupid to make them life. things are amazing after the honeymoon stage. However, it’s a time about giving up your walls and open up some doors you have locked a long time ago.

That’s why some people don’t make it past this point, because they don’t know what unconditional self-love means. Remain open and optimistic, love will never fail you.

I love when this post resurfaces. It’s like a gentle reminder.

#love#labor#the heart is a mussel
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writerswritecompany
I want to take a moment to talk about the middle of things. The middle of things is less exciting than the beginning and less dramatic than the end. Middles can seem humdrum. Say that your current relationship to writing has been like falling in love: we exalt falling in love as the finest of all possible experiences. But the reason people marry and stay married is that the middle, when it can be made to work, far outclasses the beginning. Ask people who have been happily married for a decade or two whether they would like to start all over again, and you’ll find that they mostly wouldn’t, even if some are tempted by the occasional dalliance. It gets to be that way with your writing, too, as you get an ever-clearer sense of what interests you, what you can do, what you’d like to be able to do. Your mature work is the outcome of your early work: that there can be no meaningful middle without a meaningful beginning. But the middle is as joyous as enduring love.

Andrew Solomon, The Middle of Things: Advice for Young Writers (via clevergirlhelps)

#writing#love#process#work
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