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ultralaser

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peak hatemail [ choosy moms choose gif ] long and prosper, baby
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yes carrie killed over 400 people ok. thats bad i know. but have you considered that i feel really bad for her :(

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d0gb0yy

carrie deserved to kill 400 ppl as a treat

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madseance

That's because he didn't write, nor intend to write, a horrible terrible disturbed woman beyond redemption. The genesis of Carrie (told in its entirety in the 1999 edition's introduction that you can read here, and in King's memoir On Writing), was this: sometime in high school, King read an article in Life magazine about supposed poltergeist activity in a home, which seemed to be associated with the teenage girl who lived there. The article included the hypothesis that poltergeist activity is, in some way, tapped into or manifested by girls at that critical and tumultuous age.

And some years before that, King had gone to school with a couple of girls he pseudonymously calls Tina and Sandra, who were bullied and shunned by the other kids—Tina for wearing the same clothes every day, Sandra for her epilepsy and extremely religious mother, but both really for having some undefinable Other quality that kids pick up on like blood in the water. Both of them were dead by the time King began writing Carrie: Tina by suicide, Sandra from her epilepsy.

Carrie was what King imagined might have happened if that explanation of poltergeist activity were correct, and if Tina and Sandra had been able to tap into such an energy. He started writing the story a few years after getting married (his wife Tabitha is also a writer), but abandoned the idea a few pages in; the raw, merciless adolescent cruelty the story called for was too much to deal with, and what did he know about teenage girls, anyway? But Tabitha dug the pages out of the trash and read them, and convinced him it was a story that needed telling.

Carrie is a story which, perhaps like poltergeist activity, could only happen to a girl on the brink of womanhood, when every emotion and sensation is excruciatingly vivid and nothing makes sense anymore and every single occurrence in your life is the most important thing that will ever happen to you. It's about being horribly powerful and vulnerable at the same time, and alienated from your own body. It's about the visceral, starved animal fear and rage of being a teenage girl, and it goes to show what an arcane and powerful craft creative writing is that a man could manage to capture that without having experienced it firsthand.

"Sometimes—quite often, in fact—I wish that Tina and Sandy were alive to read it," King says in the 1999 introduction to Carrie. "Or their daughters."

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podsolfairy

with adhd/autism it's funny like. people will call you weird all your life, people will bully you for your "outlandish" behaviour, people will criticize literally everything you do as "not normal", BUT THE SECOND YOU GET DIAGNOSED (or suggest you might have it) they're like "huh what but you're so normal, you're literally the most normal person I've ever seen, you're literally so normal and absolutely nothing is wrong with you? why would you have that now all of a sudden???"

God Shit OP

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remind me again how booing this motherf*cker degrades the honor and dignity of the office more than he does. [ BBC News - Trump says Beto O'Rourke 'quit like a dog' https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-50272171 ] #trumpets #bullying #beto #burnnotice #impeachment https://www.instagram.com/p/B4YI8SKAKId/?igshid=1oc9oj1eejbt1

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Can I please get a new nurse?

how is this a universal experience?

male high school bullies: become cops

female high school bullies: become nurses

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tcookies

As a nursing student, I can attest to the amount of bullying and horrible behavior I’ve seen from fellow nursing students. One of the students in my school’s nursing program got kicked out because she was bullying her own patient…

My mom is also a nurse and she has both witnessed AND personally experienced bullying from her fellow nurses. My dad is a nurse as well and has had his own coworkers try to sabatoge him.

This is called “lateral/horizontal violence” and it’s sadly prevalent in the Nursing profession.

it goes as deep as the billing offices for hospitals too. i cant tell yall how much highschool drama my mom has had to deal with in 20 years of billing.

I feel like talking about nurses bullying each other is missing the entire fucking point of this tweet.

“One of the students in my school’s nursing program got kicked out because she was bullying her own patient.” Yeah, that’s the fucking issue right there. It’s not that they backstab each other, it’s that they abuse the patients and they do it constantly. It is not a rare occurrence and rarely are they even reprimanded for it let alone kicked out of a program.

Do you know how viscerally upsetting it is to have been subjected to years and years of ableist abuse from someone just to hear that they’re entering patient care? Do you know what it’s like to have a high school bully walk into your hospital room with a big fake smile on her face? I do.

My cousin used to “play” with me when she was 16 and I was newly diagnosed with POTS at 11 years old by triggering fainting episodes and then laughing about it. She is an RN now and at every holiday she shit talks her patients, often outright breaking HIPPA to do it. She calls them liars and exaggerators. She did it every year until we got disowned. I’m sure she still does. I used to have to leave early because I knew that if I had to endure one more second of it and I would rip her throat out.

The peers that mocked and abused me daily, calling me a faker and a liar for having an invisible disability, going into nursing is way more upsetting to me as a potential patient than them being catty with each other. It’s way more scary to me to have someone who never believed that I was ill in charge of my care than thinking about them fighting over a promotion does.

Bullies who go into nursing abuse patients the same way bullies who become cops abuse civilians. That’s the real issue. It’s not horizontal aggression, it’s medical abuse.

It’s almost like people who get off on abusing power over vulnerable people seek professions in which they have institutional power over vulnerable people.

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exeggcute

satire is “I’m going to take this concept to an extreme or absurd level in order to demonstrate how bizarre/nonsensical/illogical it is” and not “I said something bigoted but just kidding I didn’t really mean it hahaha”

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bogleech

Dang it I’ve written like 5000 words trying to explain this and I only needed this post to reblog

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Facts that adults don’t tell you about bullying

- Communication doesn’t work on bullies. Telling a bully they’re making you feel bad is the wrong way to go. They want to make you feel bad. That’s the point.

- being kind to a bully doesn’t always mean they’ll stop. Sometimes it means they’ll just use your kindness to manipulate you while still continuing to bully you.

- not every bully has a sympathetically tragic home life. Sometimes people are just mean. Sometimes people just get off on hurting others.

- on that note, a tough home life is a reason, not an excuse. You don’t have to put up with bullying because somebody’s life sucks, just like you don’t have to let someone mug you because they’re broke.

- in order to forgive someone, they have to apologize first. If your bully has not apologized to you, you do not owe them anything.

- getting bullied as a kid can still mess you up in adult life. Maybe kids grow out of being bullies, but the marks they left often don’t go away.

- there are ways to get people to stop bullying you, but they almost all involve being mean back.

- as long as parents keep raising shitty bullying kids, there will be bullies. No amount of assemblies and hand-drawn posters will fix the problem. It’s the parents’ fault.

- It’s not your responsibility to fix your bully or to stop the abuse they send your way, but some adults sure will act like it is.

- Many times (especially in the case of girls) your friends can be your bullies. This makes things even worse as these are people who know you and your intimate secrets and use them to their advantage. If your friends are bullies, don’t take crap from them. Get new friends. 

im gonna throw in that its never your fault, people will pick a target to gang up on because theyd rather it be you than them. even if you think “this must be because im weird”- everyone is weird, in different ways. anyone can be made a target. it’s not just you for some reason in particular, i promise.

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PRESIDENT TRUMP - i'm sorry all you morons are too dumb to appreciate how well i got along with putin in helsinki. also i meant to say 'i don't see why it would-N'T be russia' which in the context of everything else i said makes total sense! just like when rick santorum called obama 'a government niggardly person' or when he said 'blah people' and not, as was widely mis-reported, 'black people'. everyone is just suffering from totally real 'trump derangement syndrome' (thanks, rand paul!)

also, and this is an actual direct quote, "There's never been a president as tough on Russia as I have been," [ he told reporters at the White House later in the day. ] the real tragedy here is everyone being mean to me!

#trumpets #twitter #putin #helsinki #bullying

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ELON MUSK - i'm 'sorry' i called that idiot a 'pedo guy' after he told such mean lies about my amazing submarine i won't fucking shut up about. i also seperately attacked a thai official who i called 'neither an expert nor that important' who also said my incredible, generously provided submarine was impractical, although that guy hasn't threatened to sue me for libel so no apology is needed. btw i am so smart and did you hear about my beautiful submarine they chose not to use for no apparent reason? the true tragedy here is everyone being mean to me.

#elonmusk #thailand #twitter #bullying #thenewrobberbarons #theycalledtheenterpriseagarbagescow

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ultralaser

the way the show treats supergirl bothered the hell out of me before - cat, snapper, mon el are all bullies who treat kara like garbage - but in the wake of kreisberg’s suspension it takes on a much more uncomfortable tenor

it is time for a reset

Cat Grant was awesome and only pushed Kara as far as she knew Kara needed to be. She was one of SG and Kara’s biggest cheerleaders. How can you dislike her? And compare her to those douche nozzles Snapper and Mon-El?

like this - the same arguments are used to defend mon-el bc he is nice sometimes and **means well**.

i have had bosses like cat grant. in my case ofc it was a dude who wanted me to think of him as a father figure, but the dynamic was the same. he **pushed me** to make me **stronger**, but he was also **my biggest supporter** and looked on me as a son.

i was 25 and thought at first this was a healthy working relationship, even as it left me doubting whether i was capable of living up to that pressure, but i strove for the moments when (i thought) i did well enough to earn his praise.

that's not actually a healthy relationship though. yes, it is extremely common for the mentor figure to be a hardass, but the mentor figure doesnt get to decide how far is too far.

deliberately withholding positive reinforcement causes long-term psychological damage that tbh i'm still dealing with. cat grant's relationship with kara is, at best, one-sided and relies on taking advantage of the power dynamic to normalize emotional, if not abuse, then manipulation.

there are parents who will tell you they have to be tough or their kids will not thrive. these same parents will take all the credit for their children's accomplishments. neither is true.

cat is a jerk to literally everyone else in the show too, like, how is this even a question. i look at kara thanking cat for making her stronger and i'm like 'oh honey, no' bc i see myself ten years ago

also the whole last season of arrow was abt calling oliver out for treating his team the way cat treats kiera, so, yeah. you're thinking of j'onnn and alex.

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President Donald Trump had a Halloween event with reporters' children in the Oval Office on Friday, expressing shock that the press "produced such beautiful children." "I cannot believe the media produced such beautiful children," Trump said. "How the media did this, I don't know." He pointed to members of the press and asked the kids, dressed up in Halloween costumes, if they knew who the reporters were. "They're the friendly media," Trump said. "That's the press." He looked over at one of the kids to his left. "Are you crying for me sweetheart?" he asked. He added that "these are beautiful, wonderful children," asking if they are "going to grow up to be like your parents?" He expressed tepid disapproval for that idea, but said that the kids should not "answer" because "that could only get me in trouble, that question." "You have wonderful parents, right?" he asked. White House press secretary Sarah Huckabee Sanders then provided Trump with candy to hand out to the children. Turning to one of the kids, Trump then said, "You have no weight problems - that's the good news, right?" Trump said he bets that the kids "get treated better by the press than anyone in the world." He congratulated the assembled media for doing "a good job here" with their children. But he then pointed to himself and said, "I wouldn't say you did a good job here." "But, really beautiful children," he said, adding that "they can stay, the parents, maybe not so much."
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all public school anti-bullying activism is extremely transparent and meaningless

faculty: BULLYING IS BAD!! ZERO TOLERANCE POLICY!! THIS IS A HATE FREE ZONE!!

me: hey this person called me a stupid dyke today

faculty: hmm that’s unfortunate. have you tried perhaps, not being gay?

I feel like everyone is against bullying until they actually look at the kids who are being bullied.

The cheesy anti-bullying tapes that they show in schools feature these skinny straight white neurotypical kids who get picked on for no reason. Usually the insults are something along the lines of “You’re a loser!” or “Get lost, freak.” All the kids watching immediately feel bad for the victim, and think “Aw! She didn’t deserve that!” 

Then, ten minutes later, they go pick on some marginalized kid without thinking twice. As an autistic person, I was often this kid. The insults I heard growing up were not “You’re a loser!” or “Get lost, freak.” They were “Don’t let the retard work with us” or “Shouldn’t she be going to the special school?”

The problem is we teach kids that bullying occurs for no other reason other than just to be mean. This could not be further from the truth. Bullying occurs because as a society, we condition kids into hating fat, black, neurodivergent, queer, and disabled people. Kids don’t bully each other just to be mean. They do it because if something’s “wrong” with the person, it’s completely justified.

But of course, we can’t tell kids this kind of stuff. We can’t say, “Hey! Making fun of your gay classmate is bad!”

Because when we do, suddenly the phone calls come pouring in, each with a parent on the other end screaming “You can’t be feeding my son that liberal propaganda!” 

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the worst memories of being bullied is when ppl would pretend not to be bullying you and ask you questions and u thought they were just asking u stuff but they were actually laughing at you the entire time and u had no idea bcos you were young and you didnt understand why people would be mean to you when you didnt do anything wrong. 

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sumersprkl

I spent a lot of my childhood in a constant state of “this is a trap but I don’t know how”

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marril96

This stayed with me. Sometimes when people are nice to me, I still think they have bad intentions.

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cumaeansibyl

not sure how many people have been put off by my defensive reactions to what was truly a good-natured attempt to make conversation

the behavior’s worn off by now but I can’t say I don’t still have twinges of suspicion

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It fascinates me how you never hear people who “tell it like it is” complimenting others. Seriously, people who pride themselves on being brutally honest or always speaking their mind should statistically be throwing out random compliments to their friends and strangers on a daily basis. Unless of course being brutally honest is just your entry fee to being an asshole.

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Fat people are most likely to suffer weight-based abuse from family members and doctors. Not co-workers, or kids at school, or comedians, or internet trolls. Family members and doctors. Let that sink in for a bit.

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sourcedumal

Let’s talk about how many fucking notes this has where folks are literally telling about how emotionally abusive the people who claim to love you are when it comes to fat bodies.

Like. Wow.

And don’t forget the APA literally said “stop the diet culture shit cus it doesn’t work”

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