I just want to let you know that you are one of the most amazing people on the face of the planet. I want you to be happy. And I will the proudest person in the ENTIRE UNIVERSE to call you my girlfriend. Bar none.
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I wonder what it’s like to have someone fall for you. And I mean really fall for you. Not just they want to get in your pants because they think you’re attractive. But be consumed with every little piece of you. The way you talk, the way you laugh, the way you just exist.
so your boyfriend is genderquestioning? how does that make you feel? what's it like to date someone who might be a transwoman?
For you, anon, I thought very long and hard about this answer, even though I honestly don’t need to give it a lot of thought.
Let’s start with a simple statement: You can’t help who you fall in love with. I happened to fall in love with someone extremely special this time around - someone who is special in so many ways. Yes, people have questions about it (what pronouns does he go by, does he still go by he/him/his, etc.) but I just answer them as straight-forward as I possibly can.
How do I feel about it? I’ve never been happier, to be honest. Because for the longest time, I was confused about who I was too and I wondered why I was considered so weird because I loved everyone. But I realized it’s just because we can’t help who we are. I’m pansexual, proud to say it and very open about it, and I don’t see gender as a thing when I love someone. I think the human body and the human self is a beautiful thing. I fall in love with a person for who they are, not for what gender they’re labeled. And I’m able to give that much more love to someone who deserves it, because I’m not biased based on whether or not they have a penis or a vagina (or they identify with what gender they were born)
And what’s it like? Fan-fucking-tastic. We have fun together, we laugh, etc. We share secrets, we’re confident with each other. He tries on my clothes and it’s adorable (and I’m jealous because he looks better in them than I do). He had me help him and teach him how to do makeup (which he looks better with than I do, like damn how are you so gorgeous?) and we ask each other’s opinions, get flirty, and are just happy for every second we can see each other’s face. We live about an hour and forty-five minutes from each other, but he is so worth waiting for. And we cherish every moment we have together. You know the phrase, “You know when you know?” I didn’t believe in it until now but like damn. Damn.
So yes, he may be a woman but god damn if he won’t be (and isn’t already) the most beautiful woman on the face of the planet. Start bowing down now.
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