Tfw when men do that thing where they pretend they have no control over their temper. LOL It’s so funny like am I supposed to pretend that I don’t know you’re completely self-aware and present during this rage performance. Or should I pretend you’re the tortured hero in a movie, possessed by a series of fabricated flashbacks of the war and your father

Someone put in the “Why Does He Do That” quote

Another one:

Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft

If they really didn't have the ability to control themselves, I'd have a lot more questions. To me it would sound like these men are more irrational than the women they accuse of that.

I don’t want to be some man’s beta bucks.

I always hear about “beta bucks” in the manosphere community. “Beta bucks” is when a woman sleeps around from ages 18-25, then around age 25-29 starts looking for a husband.

Now that I am at the ripe old age of 23, I am realizing a lot of men do the same thing. They sleep around with random girls, then at age 25-35 start looking for a wife.

One guy I know sleeps with a ton of women on a regular basis. He calls them “sluts” and has had threesomes and orher things. But then he now says he is sick of sleeping around and wants someone to consistently sleep with.

-_____-

I don’t want a guy who sleeps around. Either you never dated before or had a couple girlfriends in the past, but no man whores.

I don’t want to be a beta bucks.

This isn’t satire either. Wtf am I going to do with an extremely experienced man who thinks saving sex for marriage is archaic?

Enjoy the fruits of his extreme experience.

Sorry, this response was just so painfully obvious. As one woman I used to know said, “Hell hath no disaster like two virgins in a bed”.

No, speaking seriously, good for you; last time I checked, there is no vocal minority demanding women give up on dating and relationship standards altogether (even incels don’t entertain the scenario in which women suddenly get a 1000x sex drive and just go and have sex with anything that moves) but a huge demand for them to get any standards at all.

What fruits? 2 virgins in bed can entertain each other

Oh and any time a woman has standards she is harshly criticized.

Excess practical knowledge of female anatomy and sexuality, obvs! There’s a lot of things in this area that are very hard to learn from a book.

But he can become an expert on my body over time. As I with his. Good grief.

Okay, this person is a hypocrite! Why is it that men can you complain about women sleeping around between 18 and 25, but if a woman does it, how dare they not want an experienced partner? If your Arguments for men being able to do something that women shouldn't be allowed to do in your can apply to women you're a hypocrite. Case closed. Why wouldn't a man want an experienced partner anyway, manosphere?

Do you not want women to be able to use men the way they men obviously use women? This is what happens when you're in the early twenties, you're in the trial phase you learn what you like and you don't like and that helps you figure out what kind of relationship you're looking for anyway. Why don't you know this? @wgtow , every time I look at the posts you find, I cringe really hard.

Highly suggest you guys to read this 1 particular reblog by me from that guy over there if you guys honestly need an explanation,,,,

HC him as not having top surgery means jackshit when you draw him with boobs because…..he actually mentions wearing binders….which are made specially so…..the boobs don’t show

I said specifically with him hc’d without bottom surgery along with the implication of the canon reference of him wearing binders lol

I’m not trans myself so I wasn’t aware of what should’ve been done to make him seem like he was wearing a binder and I’m sorry for that but like don’t attack me bro

…you don’t have to draw him to “make it seem like he was wearing a binder” you have to draw him like….a man. its that easy

transphobes really hate the idea of transmen being men

I've noticed, they don't seem to understand that we want to transition to BE the opposite sex. We don't WANT to be in some separate category. We just want to be the men/women we feel we were meant to be.

Ya MCM said ew when you told him you were on your period. He’s 27.

That shit is forever nasty lol

How

Bruh like what are you supposed to do with it? Play in it? Come on now

Ya MCM thinks periods are nasty because he can’t play in it. He was born in 1986.

periods arent nasty but woman arent supposed to have them its actually poor diet that causes them look it up just a fun fact 

Ya MCM thinks periods are a result of a poor diet. He’s over 18.

This nigga thinks periods are like optional. And was confident enough to try to tell a woman with a vagina that that was a fact. The internet is wild bruh.

W i l d. and he deadass.

…………

I’m so glad I had comprehensive health classes in school. I couldn’t imagine being that dense

Actually, he’s not wrong. For Black women, a period is called such because it should LITERALLY appear to be a drop of blood, hence a PERIOD. Heavy blood flow is caused from hemorrhaging in the system, which isn’t natural. That’s why it hurts, as I would imagine. It really does involve diet.

Ya MCM thinks black women menstruate in a different way than other women.

Jesus Christ where do you people read this crap.

Is this guy before or after Common Core? Where can I look it up, foreveravirgin.com?

Also, isn't that a little racist?

males, and being fucked by males, is the leading cause of death for females

*excluding age related deaths

At least 7/10 of the most common causes of death in girls as young as 15 and women as old as 59, is caused by males. A few, specifically, are caused by being fucked by males.

- HIV/Aids: Do I need to explain? Obviously, mostly transmitted by males through sexual relations. - Maternal deaths: Again, is an explanation needed? It is the second leading cause of death for 15-44 yo girls and women. Obviously, pregnancy is inflicted on women by males, through rape and through demand of continuous PIV, even though the logical outcome of PIV is pregnancy. ALL maternal deaths are preventable. - Tuberculosis: Often linked with HIV infection. - Burned: There are high rates of death by burning in India, Asia and the Middle East, obviously almost always done by males to females. - Cervical cancer: All cases linked to a sexual transmitted genital infection with HPV. - Straight up murdered by males - Depression and suicide: I wonder why women are more likely to be depressed? I wonder what drives them to suicide? I wonder if both of these have anything to do with males and male supremacy and what it is to be treated as a woman under patriarchy?

None of this accounts for women who die in wars raged by men. All of this is utterly unacceptable. It is gynocide and it is very fucking intentional.

Can you imagine if women were causing this much male death every year? If an specific way that women demanded “sex” - let’s say, if performing oral sex on women, lead to so many male deaths? They would cut our clits out. Oh wait, they already do that anyway.

This entire post is the most absurd thing that I have ever seen. How in the hell are you blaming things like cervical cancer, maternal deaths, depression and suicide on men? 

On this day let it be known that Tumblr blamed cancer on men.

Can we just stop blaming all our problems on the opposite sex? I see both men and women doing this and it's bullshit.

The only way that I know I’m trans is because I have dysphoria.

Idk what the fuck you trenders are talking about with your “I feel like this” shit. What the fuck does gender even “feel” like.

Please explain what gender what gender “feels like” to me without using any reference of how you express yourself because as you all have said many times, “how you express yourself doesn’t determine your gender”

This all day.

Will you fuckers stop blaming each other for shit?

Feminists blame men for their problems. mgtow and some MRAS blame women for their problems and on and on. Meanwhile, I’m sitting here like, “can we all just take responsibility for our own shit?”

Do you not realize that women are oppressed?

Of course he doesn’t lmao

TRUUUUU

Men are beating raping killing and cutting the genitals off of us…where is the part we are “responsible” for? It is the part where we’re angry about it? Fuckface!

Just because some men are doing bad things does not mean all men are responsible. Same with women, both genders do bad things to each other. That said, women are not oppressed. Not in the western world! Men and women both have problems that are important and should be solved! All you're doing is making it so people don't care about women's issues. Plus, implying that there is an invisible ceiling causing women and minorities not to be able to succeed in the western world is incredibly insulting. Saying that certain segments of the population are oppressing other segments simply because of the way that they are born is also insulting. You really need to step back and think. Not that you're going to do it because all you seem to be able to do is come here and make snap judgments. You don't even know who I am or what I Stand For, All you know is My URL and you're making assumptions based off of that and a post of mine you happened to find. It is clear to me that you are not at all interested in trying to understand my perspective on the issue, instead you would rather treat me like I don't understand the world around me. I don't appreciate that.

If you’re born a poor, white, male you’re fucked.

There are no scholarships for being white.There are no scholarships for being male.

Sometimes MOMMY AND DADDY DON’T HAVE THE MONEY TO PUT THEIR BABY THROUGH COLLEGE.

There are scholarships for being ethnic and/or female. I’m not bitching about it! I want us all to have the opportunity to succeed. We all deserve an equal shot to live above the poverty line. I once got a scholarship for being a woman for some job training! Believe me, I’m not complaining! I am pissed off that no one cares or notices poor white males.

It comes as a shock to a lot of people but

  THERE IS SUCH A THING AS WHITE TRASH!

And some of them aren’t that trashy. It’s like people expect all white people get money for being pale or something! Sometimes you have a mom who works a minimum wage job, has a GED, and a father who’s either missing or drunk all the time. Sometimes life just deals you a bad hand.

But if you’re a white male no one gives a flying fuck because you have all sorts of social privilege. (Walking around after dark, for starters!) But hey, that doesn’t mean you’re magically able to afford college.

I remember as a kid in church the preacher told us this story of a family who slept on the floor, 5 kids, raised by the grandma, with the parents off who knows where. The church dragged mattresses all the way from Eastern Wyoming to Pine Ridge South Dakota. Thirty minutes down the road my best friend lived in the same situation. But you know, no one cared because her skin wasn’t the right color.

This is America.

None of us should have to go hungry

All of us should be able to receive higher education

No one should be living in their car or on the street!

It’s not the color of your skin. It’s what life handed you and what you do with it. Some have it harder than others. Some are really, really, lucky like me! I just wanted to draw attention to the fact that:

POVERTY HAS NO COLOR!

There ARE scholarships for white males, though.

https://www.scholarships.com/news/new-scholarships-to-support-refugees-and-white-males

Take a look around Google as well.

Jfc terfs are some fucked up people. Like they’re all “it’s a biological reality” but as soon as I point out that sex is a spectrum it’s all, “don’t bring intersex people into this!” Like I didn’t! I’m pointing out a fucking biological reality as you put it. How many perisex people actually conform 100% to a sex archetype? Like sexual diamophism in humans is extremely low. The differences between male and female are minute at best and ultimately irrelevant outside of reproduction. Just cause we as humans have implemented an arbitrary divide and act like there’s some sort significance to it doesn’t make it true.

Op has forgotten about sexism and sexual orientation 👀

Lmao I know both. I’m a lesbian and am subject to misogyny. But sexual orientation isn’t based on chromosomes cause that would make dating hard. Also if sexism was based in chromosomes it wouldn’t exist.

Sex is biological, Terfs use science incorrectly, but it doesn’t change the fact that that reality exists. It still doesn’t account how gender dysphoria and all that stuff works when they use it

Sex is biological. Just as gender is. But doesn’t make it binary.

Gender is your identity but for most people it matches the biological sex. Only an estimated 0.3% of the American population is trans, so only a very small percentage of the population even if you count closeted transgenders differs from sex to gender.

Terfs can’t be lesbians. They aren’t attracted to women, only genitals.

This is not only true, it also pisses off terfs a LOT and that makes it an excellent ‘getting rid of terfs and knowing who to block’ post.

Women who are solely attracted to other biological women… aren’t lesbians. Does that mean women who are solely attracted to biological men aren’t straight?

Except exactly what I’m saying is women exclusively attracted to biological women are lesbians. Trans women are biological women. Just as trans men are biological men.

Unless you have two x chromosomes, you’re not a woman. And without an x and y chromosome, you’re not a man. These are the facts.

“Ur a biological woman if u need hormones and surgery”

Your assigned sex is not your biological gender. Trans woman are born as women just as cis women are. Society forces them to transition to be accepted as women

“If you were born with a penis and society says ur a man then society is wrong”

What the hell? Trans women aren’t biologically women. If they wanna live as women, that’s their right, but they aren’t biologically female.

Except they are. Biology has already proven that gender identity is inborn. Assigned sex does not determine gender.

It does for most people, but for Trans people, while their brain is much more similar to the gender they are transitioning to, their physical body is still there assigned sex until they transition and even then they cannot change their genes. So you are partially correct.

The only “genes” that can’t change is their x and y chromosomes. Otherwise all the other genes are still there. We have so many genes in our DNA that is turned on and off based on circumstance and environment. There’s all sorts of hormone activated genes. There is literally nothing that is sex exclusive. Also the sex binary doesn’t exist and labeling people and segregating them on superficial external characteristics is gross.

You can get your body to behave differently, but you still have the same genetic makeup that you were born with. You know what I meant, you can’t change your chromosomes. Chromosomes are what determine your gender. You can get yourself pretty close to the biological gender of your choice from what I understand though.

Lmao chromosomes don’t determine sex actually. It’s a 5 step process with chromosomes are just one part of determining sex. Also did you not just read what I said? Our genes are constantly being turned on and off so the time due to multiple factors. Like no we can’t change our genetic makeup but we can influence how our genes manifest

No, I think you just tried to ignore a scientific point that I just made. I understand that we turn genes on and off all the time, but we still have all the same genes that we were born with whether we turn them off or not. You likely have inactive genes that make you prone to schizophrenia, does that mean you have schizophrenia? You’re really not making any point, you’re just ignoring my points. Why are you making this so much more difficult than it needs to be? Literally nothing you just said changed any of the points that I made. Did you not catch the part where I said we can make our body behave differently?

No but you are trying to make like chromosomes are what determines sex which is false.

What biologist is saying that?

Literally all of them. Please open a biology book.

That's pretty funny, because if you watched Bill Nye the Science Guy before Big Brother censored it, it would have said the same thing that I'm telling you now. Here is the clip that Netflix edited out: https://youtu.be/axiFot2Azsg It's also pretty funny that you tell me literally all biologists say that chromosomes don't determine biological sex. Genetics happened to be an interest of mine for a while and I have never heard a biologist say something like that. I even followed the new studies that came out. Never once did I ever see anyone challenge the gender binary with any scientific evidence. Especially not a biologist. The only argument that I've ever heard used was the existence of intersex people which are a very small percentage of the human population and it is considered a genetic defect. If you want to live as a non-binary person, that's one thing but don't insist that your biological sex doesn't exist. So if all of them are really saying that biological gender has nothing to do with your gender and I happened to miss it, why don't you prove it?

Terfs can’t be lesbians. They aren’t attracted to women, only genitals.

This is not only true, it also pisses off terfs a LOT and that makes it an excellent ‘getting rid of terfs and knowing who to block’ post.

Women who are solely attracted to other biological women… aren’t lesbians. Does that mean women who are solely attracted to biological men aren’t straight?

Except exactly what I’m saying is women exclusively attracted to biological women are lesbians. Trans women are biological women. Just as trans men are biological men.

Unless you have two x chromosomes, you’re not a woman. And without an x and y chromosome, you’re not a man. These are the facts.

“Ur a biological woman if u need hormones and surgery”

Your assigned sex is not your biological gender. Trans woman are born as women just as cis women are. Society forces them to transition to be accepted as women

“If you were born with a penis and society says ur a man then society is wrong”

What the hell? Trans women aren’t biologically women. If they wanna live as women, that’s their right, but they aren’t biologically female.

Except they are. Biology has already proven that gender identity is inborn. Assigned sex does not determine gender.

It does for most people, but for Trans people, while their brain is much more similar to the gender they are transitioning to, their physical body is still there assigned sex until they transition and even then they cannot change their genes. So you are partially correct.

The only “genes” that can’t change is their x and y chromosomes. Otherwise all the other genes are still there. We have so many genes in our DNA that is turned on and off based on circumstance and environment. There’s all sorts of hormone activated genes. There is literally nothing that is sex exclusive. Also the sex binary doesn’t exist and labeling people and segregating them on superficial external characteristics is gross.

You can get your body to behave differently, but you still have the same genetic makeup that you were born with. You know what I meant, you can't change your chromosomes. Chromosomes are what determine your gender. You can get yourself pretty close to the biological gender of your choice from what I understand though.

it’s so funny how people get upset that gender is a social construct? EVERYTHING is a social construct??? go ask a frog what day of the fuckin week it is, he doesn’t know

The biggest problem with that is that psychological gender tends to correspond with biological sex much more often than not in humans. Not that this gives anyone any good reason to make generalizations about either gender. So that's one problem with it. Obviously, your biological gender doesn't determine every interest or behavior that you exhibit and for some people it doesn't even determine most, but that tends to be the biggest problem that is brought up with the whole idea of gender being a social construct. I know personally, my biggest problem with that besides the one I just mentioned is that if that were true, that would mean that for example, being a little girl who prefers race cars over baby dolls would make you less of a little girl. So basically, my issue with the whole idea of gender itself being a social construct and then they're also being some thousand genders According to some people is that it basically means that in order to be a man or a woman, you have to exhibit all or most of the stereotypical behaviors of the gender you were born with. Make sense? Following that train of thought, don't you think that would cause people to have way more identity issues than we already do? I don't mean to start an argument or anything, I just think that this idea set us back in a way. If anybody disagrees with me, I certainly wouldn't mind listening to their reasoning. It just seems like it kind of forces us back into gender stereotypes and gender roles. I hope that makes sense, your gender and your personality are two different things.

This chart is so mind-bogglingly nitpicky that I just have to go through it, at least for the ones I know. For the ones I don’t, feel free to make your own contributions.

Guardians of the Galaxy [spoilers for the 2nd one]:

Who is more competent - Okay it’s true that Gamora is a trained assassin, and is frighteningly good at it. That does not REMOTELY make Peter Quill “semi-competent”, and he in fact has several other skills which he wishes to deploy despite interference from the other Guardians, like say, diplomacy. And while Gamora’s sheer battle prowess is formidable, Peter’s ability to improvise on the fly has saved himself and the Guardians AND the Galaxy.

Who gets captured - Well in the 1st movie nobody, but in the 2nd movie it was Peter, wasn’t it?

Who saves the day and gets the credit - uh, it was all of them. I distinctly remember that official pardon which all of them received (followed hilariously by Drax and Rocket respectively asking if murdering and stealing stuff was still okay).

The Lego Movie - this one misses the point so hard it’s actually worrying.

Who is more competent - Lucy, surely. But her hypercompetence was a blessing and a curse - she knew how to make the most incredible things Emmett had ever seen, but it got her and the entire resistance movement absolutely nowhere in the fight against Lord Business. Emmett isn’t semi-competent, he is completely useless… because he is being told constantly that he has to be special in exactly the same way that Lucy, Batman, Superman, Wonder Woman,Vitruvius etc. are special. But he doesn’t, and that’s the most important lesson that Lucy and everyone else learn from him. He is special because he knows how to work as part of a team, which is something no other Master Builder knows how to do, until he teaches them.

Who gets captured - everyone.

Who gets the credit - Depending on your interpretation of Emmett and Finn’s final speech, the answer is either “Lord Business” or “everyone”. Almost like no one specific style of creation is necessarily superior to any other.

Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets

Who is more competent - I find it odd that Vox chose this specific movie/book, because it’s the one where Harry swordfights a Basilisk all by himself. Either way, Hermione is more competent academically, but Harry is more competent in Defence Against the Dark Arts, and in several other ways besides. Hermione’s own speech at the end of the previous book should have put this comparison to rest, but Vox insists on using it anyway.

Who gets captured/defeated - You got me there. This was the one time Hermione was rendered entirely incapacitated.

Who gets the credit - Harry and Ron. You know. For discovering the entrance to the chamber of secrets by themselves, saving Ginny by themselves, fighting a basilisk, defeating Voldemort for the second year in a row… fun fact: Hermione and Voldemort were never ever in the same room together between the time when he was hidden under Quirrel’s turban, and about five minutes before Harry kills him for good. I’m not sure what credit Hermione deserves aside from that which Harry and Ron already gave her - for giving them basically all the information they needed to solve the mystery. Unless you think Hermione could have or would have taken Voldemort down by herself, but that’s another discussion.

I’m gonna skip the Matrix cause I’ve only seen it about once. But as far as Inspector Gadget is concerned, if I recall correctly the entire joke is that Penny is the competent one and the inspector himself solves the mystery by accidentally bumbling his way into it.

Star Wars: A New Hope:

Who is more competent - Unpopular opinion: It’s Luke. I’m not gonna tell you that Leia is incompetent, cause she’s not by a long shot. She has a decent strategic mind, and she’s a good shot when she needs to be (though she was heavily outnumbered). But Luke was a better pilot, which kind of came in handy for the legwork part of the operation. The actually-blowing-up-the-Death-Star bit. Different skills sets = different value at different times.

Who gets captured - For this movie and this movie alone, it’s Leia. Luke and Han are captured in subsequent movies.

Who gets the credit - Luke, for blowing up the Death Star. Han and Chewbacca, for being directly involved in ensuring Luke’s ability to blow up the Death Star. Leia got the credit during an earlier scene for delivering the plans to the Rebel Alliance. You know. The part that she was actually involved in.

What exactly is the problem here?

Trinity never gets captured at any point in the Matrix series. Neo gets captured, then released, as obvious bait. And Morpheus is captured and interrogated. Both Neo and Trinity save him.

And by the time the lobby scene rolls around, Neo seems to be at or near Trinity’s level of competence.

Funny how they chose the one Harry Potter story where Hermione and Hermione alone needs to be saved at the end. Of course, a major theme of the series is that the Trio are competent in different areas. Hermione was disabled, but she saved someone’s life in the process. She’s not “hyper-competent”; she panics in the climax of the previous book, and isn’t that good without prep time, until her character develops some more.

This isn’t “nitpicky”, it’s “lying”. Or maybe “delusional”.

Are we not even going to mention what we pointed out like two years ago?

It is a common trope that when men and women are paired together that the woman is the competent one and the man is less capable idiot.

Why is that not seen as a problem? To get to the point that you tried to make, you had to come to the first conclusion. Why was that not even remotely pointed out?

Okay I am not totally caught up on my magicians but Quentin is extremely competent. He has an issue seeing his own self worth and thus reaching his true potential cause he’s depressed and has super low esteem but basically everyone in the show agrees he’s talented beyond his years. He defeated the madness maker on like episode 4. He does a ton of shit on shit own. And Alice got her own damn self in that situation. She got turned into a niffin cause SHE pushed to hard on purpose. It was 100% Her fault. But they totally credited her for totally 100% herself killing the Beast. She drank the God jizz it wore out , she niffined out ON PURPOSE and killed him. She was not defeated by the villain she killed herself. Alice is never treated as a side kick. She is incredibly powerful and people recognize it

Yeah, because apparently super strong hyper masculine males and not so useful females don't exist and movies or on TV anymore, guys!! It's not like there are still plenty of modern movies in which females need saving and are less useful than the male characters. God... It's like any time a movie or TV show comes out, one gender or the other start bitching about how attacked they are in Media and that there is a war on men or women. It's ridiculous! How about everyone just shuts the fuck up and actually watches whatever type of TV shows or movies they like and quits bitching about how they don't like a certain character cuz it apparently reflects badly on AN ENTIRE GENDER?! Can we do that? How pathetic and insecure do you have to be for one fucking character in a work of fiction to be all it takes to shatter your fucking ego? Seriously, I don't care which side you're on, anti sjw or sjw, keep your goddamn politics out of our entertainment. You're the Reason that there are so many TV shows and movies that are pandering and terrible! Fucking stop projecting your insecurities on everybody else and ruining our entertainment.

@sini-sterility, what group of people does Op remind you of?

Domestic violence: data shows women are not the only victims - The Australian

/clap

Comments are great too.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, we need to stop gendering everything. We need to treat all victims of these types of issues equally. Obsessing over the gender victims of whatever pet issues feminists or MRAs alike have helps nothing. And in situations like this, it just makes one gender look worse than the other. This particular issue shows that identity politics and hyper-focus on gender helps nothing.

It does nothing but divide us. This is coming from someone who is abused by men and women both regularly and has been their whole life.