lan wangji and spock are basically the same character in different genres and for that reason if they met they would either be best friends or mortal enemies no in between

me explaining the narrative parallels between spirk and wangxian to the niche group of huge nerds this post resonated with:

Even Wei Ying has some characteristics of Kirk. He is lively, extremely intelligent, solves situations that seem impossible to solve, he is a natural leader and the others are drawn to him like a magnet! He is outgoing and playful.