URGENT PLEASE REPLY ASAP i think one of my closest friends sjust killed tj3mwelef and I want to die too and i m freaking out please hellp
Haruka says:
breathe for me. please. take a deep breath in - 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 - and out - 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. in, and out. in, and out. please breathe for me.
okay. first of all, is there anything you can do to see if your friend is okay? please don't hesitate to call 911 or the emergency number where you are at. it is much better to be safe than to be sorry, and the police may be able to do more for your friend at this point. but without confirmation, there is no definite way to say that your friend is dead. there is hope.
I want you to breathe again for me. 3 times.
okay. whenever highly publicized suicides happen, suicide rates go up. when someone close to us commits or attempts suicide, it is common to feel increased suicidal feelings. and it looks like your friend talking about this tonight has triggered some suicidal idealation in you. and i want you to know that killing yourself is never the answer. never.
the worry you are feeling for your friend right now - that's because you love them, because you care for them. because you want them to be alive. that's what people around you feel. when depression and suicide hang around it is so very hard to see that there is light and hope and good and people who care. but just because we can't see them doesn't mean they're not there. us 13 mods at TTSG - all of us spend our time, willingly, on this blog to help you. we love you. our followers - over 13,000 of them - so many of them care and are willing to send good vibes should you ask. you are loved and you are worthy of love and you are worthy of life. leaving this community will not help anyone. staying here, staying with us - that will change the world for the better.
we need you to be here. you are a good and important part of this world that we live in. you and your friend and all of y'all are good and important parts of this world. you deserve life, love. i hope you know that. and i hope you choose to live.