transfaabulous reblogged
Quick survey how old are you and do you care about your wedding like is it actually that serious for you
#27#i go back and forth on it#i want to engage in my ethnic traditions that surround it but i also feel like...just get the paperwork over and done with#y'know?#it's probably half because i'm aro lmao#though also i would have to worry about my family#if i ever had a wedding they probably wouldn't be invited tbh?#but then they'd be upset about it FOREVER#and like. is it worth it??#also lately my stress levels have been through the roof so that might be contributing to it#i can't imagine my having a wedding - even a small one - during a pandemic#and#well#lots of little things are making it seem either impossible to have it AND enjoy it or even have one at all#romance#text post#reblog games#queue