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Todd/Toby || They/Them || late 20s || COMMISSIONS [OPEN] | Art Blog: tovart | Twitter: @tovanori | Instagram: @tovanori
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it's been really depressing lately...

extra depressing because I don't have much reason to be depressed yet I am. I am burnt out and depressed but I need to keep doing things.

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pixelburied

Now that the Terror Bill has been signed into law and will take effect in 15 days, a little reminder for my PH mutuals:

  • Set your social media to private
  • Do a clean up of your public posts
  • Block everyone of your friends who have voiced pro-government sentiments. You don’t know who will sell you out.
  • Do a check of your facebook groups. If you’re part of anti-admin groups, make sure it’s legit and not a fake group used to redtag.
  • Increase your email security
  • Stop signing petitions vs terror bill on change.org as this is what they’re using to redtag (remember the influx of fake accounts? Yeah)
  • Instead, send emails to your representatives using a vpn
  • Have your lawyer’s number on standby
  • Be aware of your rights (i will post a refresher here later on)
  • Look out for your friends and family

as a hker, I'd say, switch to protonmail, download signal (for personal msg) and telegram (for channels/large group chats), replace google with ducducgo, always use a vpn but switch to tor if its extra sensitive (or u can use both)

for anyone seeing this later: the original post was made on july 3rd, 2020. 15 days from now will be july 18th, 2020.

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PSA: Parents. Please do not emotionally manipulate your children.

They will grow up completely untrusting with a general sense of sadness and guilt.

Manipulation includes:

- “I just wish [something passive aggressive involving your child]”

- “You do whatever you want to do.” and then getting mad when they make the “wrong” choice

- Not believing them when they tell you something someone did or said to them, including their friends, your friends, family members, or even you

- Doing something shitty and then pretending you didn’t in hopes they’ll forget?

- Getting upset when they open up to you. About anything. Even if it’s something angering or disappointing. Don’t show them it’s dangerous or counterproductive to talk to you.

- Making them feel bad for the friends/significant others they choose, career path (or lack thereof), school choice (or lack thereof), gender/sexuality (or lack thereof) literally anything that either they didn’t choose or that they would be miserable without

- Do NOT EVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES pressure them to talk to you about personal things.

- Kids do not owe their parents anything. They did not choose to be born. You chose to get pregnant/chose to carry to term/chose to raise a baby (even if you didn’t choose all of these things, you at least chose one) under the assumption that you would love this child no matter what.

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But being in a life that looks so perfect is one of the worst things when you have depression because you tell yourself everyday,”what have you got to be so depressed about? you have no right.”

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