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I’d suggest having an open conversation with her to talk about where she’s at and if she’s in a space to commit to a relationship. That will at least give you a place to start from.

Or you can tell her you have feelings for her and that you’d like to be together if she’s in a place to commit to a relationship

I think it’s also good for both of you to understand what you both expect from a relationship.

I hope it all works out for you two ♡ ♡ ♡

Next time she stares, smile at her. It’s a small step, but it’ll be a step, especially if she is interested in you. It also tells her you’re open to conversation and perhaps she’ll also take it as an opportunity or a go-ahead to be the one to initiate conversation.

You could even just have small interactions at first, don’t need to jump straight into conversation. You know, like, ‘your hair looks really pretty today’ or even ‘I like your shoes’ if you want to go simpler.

Anything just to break that ice and ease you both into easier interaction/conversation.

From the sounds of it, that’s just how you interact with your best friend without it being romantic.

I said to someone a long while back in the asks that there are ‘tiers’ to the physical affection.

The lowest tier is what you’d do with practically anyone, including acquaintance or stranger, and the highest is a partner.

Perhaps there’s just an imbalance in what, for them, is best friend and what is partner level, and what for you is just best friend, not quite partner level.

If they express feelings for you again, I’d suggest having an honest conversation about what you actually feel and that certain things are just how you interact with them as best friends.

Of course, only you know your true feelings, but from what you said, it doesn’t sound like you like them like that, which is fine. Don’t let outside expectation make you enter a relationship that doesn’t need to be, it’s unfair to you and her. Others don’t have to understand the dynamics of your friendship.

Wishing you the best ♡ ♡

I get that. Especially the accent when they’re speaking English.

But I have to admit 😂 as someone who grew up around Afrikaans, to me, Dutch sounds like someone speaking Afrikaans while drunk or just with really bad pronunciation 💀 the pronunciation is the hardest part for me now as I’m learning Dutch 😂

You mean about the girls and the crush on my ex?

If so, I’m staying away from furthering that crush on my ex. We broke up for a good reason, and unless we can find a solution for that, it wouldn’t be fair to indulge the crush.

As for the girls 😫 lord have mercy. These women are just great. Most of us are busy with university finals at the moment, but once December hits 💃🏽💃🏽

We’re still friends. We did take a break from talking after we broke up, just to move on, but we were friends before we dated, and we had a healthy, civil breakup, so no use in throwing the friendship away.