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Anonymous asked:

do you think you could make me a buggy from one piece live action dni banner that says this blog is protected by the buggy pirates and says dni if kink homophobic racist ya know the basic stuff please?!

why did you send this ask? /gen

my blog says closed. i have left the community and this blog due to how unwelcoming it was. i had nothing but terrible experiences on this blog. i log back in just to see, and this ask threw me for a loop. no asks that were kind, or expressing anything nice to me. just this. when i have never ever made dni banners, that has never been a thing i have done on this blog or any other ones.

i am genuinely confused why you sent this. please, if you’re still around, can you explain?

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cgstuff asked:

Hey,

I’m so sorry to hear about what’s been happening and it is absolutely not okay that people have disregarded your wishes about your own posts. It’s horrible! I am however glad you are respecting yourself enough to take a step away from this. I hope you have a wonderful life away from this account (though do let me know if you have a main or other account non agere related to follow if you’re comfortable!). Wishing you all the best 💕

thank you for your message.

i expected negative responses but i did not anticipate people bringing up such triggering topics and seemingly doubling down when i said that is not what the post is about, and i especially did not expect anyone to vaguely post about something i said that was based on the response they gave me. i thought a community that has a basic understanding of trauma, coping mechanisms, and triggers would be more cautious of that stuff, but perhaps that is on me for assuming.

i do not personally feel comfortable giving out my main account at the moment but i appreciate you asking. thank you for your kindness.

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Anonymous asked:

It can be incredibly taxing to run an age regression blog online, unfortunately. I completely understand where you're coming from. Asking people to respect your boundaries shouldn't be a big deal, and I'm so, so sorry you haven't been able to create a safe space online :(

thank you for your kind words. i am sorry that you seem to have had some kind of experience to where you understand the mental drain it can be when people do not respect boundaries and triggers.

i appreciate this message 💌

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tiniebuggy

i am leaving

i am only making this post so i do not disappear without a word, though i am not sure i have enough of a following for that to truly be a concern anyways.

i have had various age regression blogs across the years, trying time and time again to find a way to fit into the community somehow and each time it starts out alright and then i realize it will never work for me.

for a community that is based entirely around a coping mechanism, oftentimes for trauma, i never thought i would have to worry about having people reblog my posts with triggering content but i suppose that is my own fault. i do not want to allow myself to be put in a place where people are using my posts to talk about things that are extremely upsetting, triggering, and painful for me. this blog and community were supposed to be a space to get away from thinking about that. i come on this blog when i have the mindset of a child and having my post inundated with talk about “icky” stuff disturbed me during what is supposed to be a safe space and coping mechanism for me.

i do not know if i will ever try again in this community, or keep my regression to myself from now on. i probably will not come back.

please be mindful of what you put on other peoples posts. for a community that is supposedly welcoming to all, i have never felt very welcomed.

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playgroundpinwheelz

sprinkles pngs !!

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tiniebuggy

i have a question for the general age regression community

what is the current outlook on impure regression (or i guess it’s being called vent regression now)? because in the past on my agere blogs it was very taboo i feel to talk about it or post when you were experiencing it and i saw many regressors who experienced impure regression driven away or ignored by the community at large

has the public opinion changed? is it more acceptable now?? pls reblog / reply / send me an ask and tell me

imabunnyyy

Impure/Vent regression is very real, and I think it needs to be talked about more and more wildly accepted, especially because some people only experience impure/vent regression. Those people are regressors too and need to know that they are loved and seen and cared for.

mossyssmolspace

i think most people agree that it should be called vent regression or sad regression (although sad regression isnt applicable at all times)! calling it impure makes it sound yucky or bad but its neither of those things. i personally experience most of my involuntary regression when i get upset or overwhelmed making it a form of vent regression and thats ok! its completely normal to experience things like this! im also willing to answer any questions anyone has about vent regression (whether its about mine or just in general) from the op or anyone else!

tiniebuggy

i have always used impure regression because that is the terminology that was solely used when i first came onto the regression community here years ago. i understand it’s generally been changed to being called vent regression, i know that. but i was asking if the community’s outlook has changed. because the outlook was that it was impure, and people who posted about vent regression were shunned, shamed, or driven away by the community at large. so far nobody has really been able to answer that question for me.

i asked because things like vent regression and baby talk, for example, used to be so taboo and that has driven me out of the community time and time again. but i guess asking this question will be what drives me out this time because people keep bringing up things that are triggering.

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mossyssmolspace asked:

dni said to send an ask so here i am!

hello ˶ᵔᴗᵔ˶

you are the first person to actually send me an ask from reading my dni so thank you for that.

i saw your reply on my post as well, thank you for that too. i appreciate your kindness very much. i am not sure what i will do about staying in the community or leaving just yet.

have a good day

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tiniebuggy

i have a question for the general age regression community

what is the current outlook on impure regression (or i guess it’s being called vent regression now)? because in the past on my agere blogs it was very taboo i feel to talk about it or post when you were experiencing it and i saw many regressors who experienced impure regression driven away or ignored by the community at large

has the public opinion changed? is it more acceptable now?? pls reblog / reply / send me an ask and tell me

imabunnyyy

Impure/Vent regression is very real, and I think it needs to be talked about more and more wildly accepted, especially because some people only experience impure/vent regression. Those people are regressors too and need to know that they are loved and seen and cared for.

pupsiez

TW: sexual themes mention, and this is all based on personal experience

i feel like vent regressors perceive being shamed if they don't vent regress properly in this perfectly pure way. truth is, some people regress with sexual traumas and have been taken advantage of and it can be a point of shame when they regress and feel icky in that way (iykyk) or relive those experiences and its usually something they don't want. i feel this is the biggest taboo with impure/vent regression. it's hard to deal with. especially if your regression isn't clear cut.

regression shouldn't be sexualized (by others or by the person regressing) BUT regression due to trauma can have those aspects due to the nature of the trauma and it can be very uncomfortable and hard to deal with and painful for most experiencing it. based on personal experience.

it's not fair for everyone to have to disclose their personal traumas just to be understood for this. i don't think it should be super public either, its one of those things people have to privately struggle with and work on, in my opinion. but i wish it was more understood and less 'creepy' to people.

tiniebuggy

i did not exclusively mean regression due to sexual trauma. though i now feel obligated to disclose that is sometimes the case for me, so my point does not come across as insensitive.

i meant the regression community at large used to view any regression that wasn’t one hundred percent happy and wonderful and aesthetic as odd and shameful. impure regression simply means regressing and not being happy. tantrums and yes dealing with trauma and generally being upset or having a difficult time during regression.

i never wanted it to become a discussion about sexual trauma which is why i deleted the original post. it is very triggering for me.

pupsiez

did not see OG post was deleted, newer to the community but have regressed for a while. i understand you were not speaking only about this subject matter but i feel it was important to bring up because i see no one talk about it and it makes me feel bad. just clarifying. because i often see the exclusion factor for regression being "ickiness".

we deserve to be accepted too, i think there just needs to be more people willing to open up about it even if its hard.

just clarifying my point before i drop this reblog thread :)

tiniebuggy

i understand that, but if that is a point you feel needs made i think you should have made your own post. my post was not about that. having people bringing up sexual trauma, something that is incredibly triggering for me, on my post that was not about that, was extremely upsetting.

it is important to talk about, but adding it onto someone else’s post when they are completely unsuspecting is not fair. it is a very sensitive topic and when it gets added to a post i made i cannot very well avoid it as i usually would. i broke my offline during shabbos rule to come back on and deal with this because it upset me so deeply.

and my question was directed at people have been in the community long enough to tell me whether there has been a change in attitude or not. that is all i wanted to know.

#tw sexual trauma #tw trauma #buggy talks

tiniebuggy

i do not think i will ever feel welcome in the agere community

i should just stop trying

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tiniebuggy

i have a question for the general age regression community

what is the current outlook on impure regression (or i guess it’s being called vent regression now)? because in the past on my agere blogs it was very taboo i feel to talk about it or post when you were experiencing it and i saw many regressors who experienced impure regression driven away or ignored by the community at large

has the public opinion changed? is it more acceptable now?? pls reblog / reply / send me an ask and tell me

imabunnyyy

Impure/Vent regression is very real, and I think it needs to be talked about more and more wildly accepted, especially because some people only experience impure/vent regression. Those people are regressors too and need to know that they are loved and seen and cared for.

pupsiez

TW: sexual themes mention, and this is all based on personal experience

i feel like vent regressors perceive being shamed if they don't vent regress properly in this perfectly pure way. truth is, some people regress with sexual traumas and have been taken advantage of and it can be a point of shame when they regress and feel icky in that way (iykyk) or relive those experiences and its usually something they don't want. i feel this is the biggest taboo with impure/vent regression. it's hard to deal with. especially if your regression isn't clear cut.

regression shouldn't be sexualized (by others or by the person regressing) BUT regression due to trauma can have those aspects due to the nature of the trauma and it can be very uncomfortable and hard to deal with and painful for most experiencing it. based on personal experience.

it's not fair for everyone to have to disclose their personal traumas just to be understood for this. i don't think it should be super public either, its one of those things people have to privately struggle with and work on, in my opinion. but i wish it was more understood and less 'creepy' to people.

tiniebuggy

i did not exclusively mean regression due to sexual trauma. though i now feel obligated to disclose that is sometimes the case for me, so my point does not come across as insensitive.

i meant the regression community at large used to view any regression that wasn’t one hundred percent happy and wonderful and aesthetic as odd and shameful. impure regression simply means regressing and not being happy. tantrums and yes dealing with trauma and generally being upset or having a difficult time during regression.

i never wanted it to become a discussion about sexual trauma which is why i deleted the original post. it is very triggering for me.

#tw sexual trauma #tw trauma #buggy talks #i even came back online during shabbos because this was upsetting me so much

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maternaldreams

Hey, kiddo. Hop up on the couch with me. Bring your plushie, too. Plenty of room for us under your favourite blankie. Let's stay up a little past bedtime and watch cartoons, okay? I won't tell your caregiver.

#rb