I’m starting to think we should come up with a different term for fictional shipping, because I realize now that “shipping” can mean one of two things:
- Type A: You honestly believe they’ll get together in canon (the canon matters) - Type B: You just enjoy them together and don’t care about canon (the fanon matters)
Reading some comments on “shipping” recently, it’s made me wonder if I’ve lost people in conversations because I’ve used that term and they interpreted it differently than intended.
To make a point, let’s look at two of my ships that I ship differently:
Queliot (Type A): The show built up that relationship and gave us hope over several years. I did not feel a need to go to fandom content for that, because it was in front of me. Fans (myself included) were understandably upset when it didn’t come to fruition. I definitely shipped them together throughout the run of the first few years of the Magicians, but I never reached out into fan content for a fix. Other examples I see are Supercorp (not canon), Catradora (canon), and McDanno (not? canon, we’re still not sure), or Stormpilot (sigh). We desperately want these ships to be real in canon.
Steelatom (Type B): I saw potential in the ship, but I knew it wouldn’t be canonized. Some people were actually upset that it didn’t happen, making them Type A shippers, and I just don’t understand why - the show made absolutely no move towards making it romantic, and in fact did what they could to enforce positive, healthy, emotional male-male friendships. (This isn’t to mean I wouldn’t have been over the moon if they’d become official.) This was important work, and applauded by many, myself included. I shipped their relationship as I wanted it to be, not how it was. Because of all this, I was happy to look to the fandom for my fix. This is joined by most of your typical ships that don’t have much basis in canon.
The point: It seems so obvious now, but I’m just realizing that you (”you” being a singular person) can “ship” two pairings in totally opposite ways, and using that term could confuse people who aren’t associating it the same way you are.
Addendum: Neither Type A nor Type B are “wrong” ways to ship. You’re free to ship however you want, as long as you’re not an asshole about it.