Character Analysis: Ryuji Takasu from Toradora
**spoilers ahead**
I started with Taiga, so it only makes sense to end my Toradora analysis series writing about Ryuji. (you can read Ami, Kitamura, and Minori’s here).
In my opinion, Ryuji is one of the best male protagonists in all of anime; there, I said it. He’s kind, he doesn’t have toxic masculinity, he knows how to cook! The bar is pretty low, but Ryuji is leagues above it anyway. Truthfully, Ryuji doesn’t actually go through as much character development as some of the other characters; because he kinda rocks from the beginning, personality wise. However something that Ryuji grapples with and learns to accept throughout the series is his relationship with his family, and that’s what I’d like to talk about instead.
One of the only times Ryuji looks back on something he did and reevaluates his decision is the arc where he urges Taiga to reconcile with her dad; later on, he realizes this was a mistake and Taiga’s dad really sucks, and the reason he was pushing her to reunite with him is because Ryuji would’ve loved the chance to know his own father.
From the moment he’s introduced, Ryuji is complaining about how he looks too much like his father, who he never knew, who was absolutely terrifying and intimidating. He does have a good relationship with his mother Yasuko, who is implied in the show to have been a teen mom (and in the light novels, is confirmed to have had him at age 14/15). However, their relationship becomes more and more strained as Ryuji grapples with the fact that he feels guilty about Yasuko having to give up everything else in her life to raise him.
This culminates in the finale of the whole show, where he lashes out at her about how she’s projecting her own failures onto him, desperately wanting him to go to college. To an extent, they were both right. If Ryuji really didn’t want to go to college, it isn’t right for his mother to be forcing him to so she can live through him vicariously. However, that was not the case; Yasuko just wanted Ryuji to have as many opportunities as possible, and he was stubbornly rejecting those opportunities because he has unresolved guilt. Fortunately, they have a heart to heart and make up in the last episode.
I really love how this familial drama was incorporated into the primarily rom-com vibe of Toradora; it makes both Taiga and Ryuji feel more well rounded and whole, since we get to experience their home lives as well as their lives at school. Not to mention, Ryuji’s cozy, welcoming family is part of what makes Taiga feel more at home around him, bolstering their relationship with each other as well.
I hope you enjoyed this in depth delve into some of my favorite characters in anime. Thanks for reading!
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