The human body has 12-13 visible holes in it. 12 for men and 13 for women. (I'm talking about biology.) We add extra holes in different ways. Mainly when we add piercing to ourselves. So, there are some out there with more than 100 (visible) holes in their bodies. It's strange that we add them to ourselves willingly. I don't see it as mutilating your body. No. I see it as adding your personality to it. Add as many as you want. Be who you want to be. They just add to your beauty. Express yourself in any way possible regardless of others' opinions of you. You will find someone who will accept and love you both physically, mentally, and romantically. It just takes time.
I hope you all are having a great day so far. I know this started out strange, but I hope the ending made you smile and love yourself more. Be yourself. Not who others want you to be. You are loved even if you don't believe so. I love you. So, keep shining and confident in yourself.