i feel like the reason everyone makes fun of trans men & men-adjacents is because the face of the trans male community is an upper middle class white boy, but that doesn’t excuse the way that people relentlessly mock “kai he/they”s and like, Basic trans boys. or infantilize them. like there’s joking about common coincidences between trans men and then there’s literaly transphobic stereotyping that erases trans men of color from the conversation. what im trying to get at is if youre cis stop making jokes about how every trans guy has a galaxy binder and is named skyler and plays ukelele and is a softboy because 1) those things arent even bad, 2) the trans men you have come into contact with are majority white and they are not the only people in our community, and 3) its not your fucking place to joke about trans people. 

cis people can reblog but dont add on

Every time I open this app i get attacked.

I made a Lavender Boy Flag which refers to mlm/gnc men! This also includes masc aligned non-binary people ofc!

I did NOT coin this term. This term dates back to the 1920s to refer to effeminate men and mlm men. I saw other mlm talking about reclaiming this term and wanted to propose a flag for it. I think it’s also a good alternative for people who consider themselves feminine boys but don’t wanna use f/mboy because of its connotations. Lavender Boy comes off super romantic and poetic to me so I really enjoy it and I hope others will want to reclaim it too! You’re more than welcomed to use this flag for icons, banners, edits, etc. though I would appreciate credit it is not needed!

Do not interact if: Exclusionist, Truscum, TERF, SWERF, anti-mogai, etc.

I’m a Lavender Boy 💜

you dont choose to be a trans woman, you wake up one day and realize you know what beef stroganoff is

Luke your TAGS

I’m enby and I kinda know what beef stroganoff is

List of People who could use this:

-Trans women (cosplayers and non-cosplayers)

- Cis Women who feel too shy to actually show off their chest but still want to pull this off

- Cis women with small chests who also want to be true the characters.

-  Pretty much any dude who wants to cosplay as a female character

- Anyone who wants to piss off Travis

Reblog to piss off Travis and support trans women + male cosplayers

id suffer the massive dysphoria of wearing boobs if it meant pissing off Travis.