even in fandoms people feel the need to fit everyone into a box. we have to identify as shippers and stans of certain pairings/characters and if we critize or dislike something about said ship/character people tell us but you ship/stan them, you can’t do that. you need to play your part in this, you need to ship/stan them; you’re not allowed to change your mind.
Exactly. I hate that this happens. Why do we always have to hate on each other when we have differing opinions? Why can't we just live and let live, think and let think, say and let say, ship and let ship?