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“Your failures are okay, too. I used to really be very hard on myself if I thought I wasn’t accomplishing something or reaching a certain level. Be with your failures. They’re just as educational and just as opening to the process as the success is.“
Do you feel like a failure sometimes? Don't worry, here are 20 signs that you are probably succeeding a lot more than you think you are.
—Maza-Dohta
I relate to this SO much. I have learned a great deal more from challenges and mistakes and losses than from ease and winning and successes.
“I feel that it’s important to fail now and again. For instance, if I go for a job and I don’t get it, that makes me not a better person, but more balanced, more aware of what life is really like.” - Romola Garai
“Failure” transforms into “Fighter”
For a very long time there was nothing I was even remotely good at and I felt terrible. It took me a while to discover that the only way to learn anything was to devote yourself to it for a long time, years even.
I used to think I was a failure but I just needed time.
I needed this today.
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To all of those who have been cheated on, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
While some things you did or said (or not did or not said) may have bugged your Ex, THEY chose not to address that. THEY kept the secrets. THEY lied. THEY cheated.
It was THEIR CHOICE.
NOT YOURS.
...
I am working past this myself, and I am here to tell you that IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
And, frankly, if your ex, like mine, keeps trying to place the blame on you,
THEY ARE NOT WORTH THE EMOTIONAL PAIN,
and
YOU DESERVE BETTER!
