im normally not into heterosexual pettiness but i love Jennifer Aniston and i can just picture her waking up in her Tresume-funded mansion drinking coffee finding out that exhusband Fuckface McCheaty is being divorced by his gorgeous wife and just…….even after all these years i have to imagine that feels good
I hate hearing stories about how someone cheated but the other person forgave them and now they’re even more in love and lived happily ever after, it’s propaganda and I don’t care
Heard yesterday's blogpost: "Strength: Surviving a Cheating Long-term Partner" yet? Give it a listen on youtube.
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New Blog Post: "Strength: Surviving a Cheating Long-term Partner". Read about how a bad situation made me a stronger person!
I have made the decision to stop expressing my feelings and thoughts about my cheating ex-boyfriend on here, because doing so makes me wallow in it more, and that's unhealthy. Also, he apparently STILL STALKS THIS BLOG and enjoys messaging me to complain. Since I don't want to encourage communication between myself and the DOUCHECANOE WHO CHEATED ON ME, I will no longer openly talk about it. BUT... if you are one of the people who I have been talking to about being cheated on, working through being cheated on, and moving on after being cheated on, this is an invitation to message me to discuss.
- Wallowing is unhealthy
- I am just tired of thinking about it
- I have so many better things to think/write/talk about
- Said ex stalks this blog and takes it as me opening communication
yeah, I know it's pretty sad, I really dunno how he thinks that's okay
BUT
If you are one of the people who I have mutual therapeutic chats with and you want to discuss, please send me a private message. I am happy to work through stuff with you :)
That HORRENDOUS moment when you find ROMANTIC/SEXY TEXTS from your CHEATING EX on your old phone...
FIRST
THEN
THEN
THEN
AND FINALLY
itsjessnv replied to your post:“How does anyone EVER get in the headspace where they think it's OKAY to cheat on the person they claim to love and be monogamous with?!?”
My ex-best friend cheated on his wife of 7yrs, he and I no longer talk because I hate cheaters. Plus, he feels I "picked" her and I did, because cheating is cowardly & blatantly malicious. And I'll happily hit the guy with my car for you!
Wow. And I thought my 3 and a half years was rough. I cannot even IMAGINE how your friend must've felt (and probably still feels).
I love you for that offer. I laughed out loud, actually.
In real life, I'd take you up on the offer, but I'm trying to move on, and while that'd feel good at the time, I'd feel guilty about it later. I dun wanna sink to his level and hurt him. I'm not interested in hurting him. I don't wanna be like him. You know?
But since this is the internet... GO FOR IT! lol =P
How does anyone EVER get in the headspace where they think it's OKAY to cheat on the person they claim to love and be monogymous with?!?
THESE ARE MY PERSONAL FEELINGS. TRIGGER WARNING FOR CHEATING.
you had it right.
cheating douchecanoe ex will always be cheating douchecanoe ex.
*tight hugs* you’ll pull through and find someone worthy of your amazing love (and sexiness).
Who knows, you might find them in Scotland (soo jealous!) ^w^
Oooooh, yeah. If I went back in time and lived through it all again, I'd still cut off contact. Actually, I'd get out of relationship MUCH sooner and not let him string me along and use me for months.
I'm happily single, and looking forward to meeting new people in Scotland!
You know me SO WELL, 'Manda! <3
How does anyone EVER get in the headspace where they think it's OKAY to cheat on the person they claim to love and be monogymous with?!?
THESE ARE MY PERSONAL FEELINGS. TRIGGER WARNING FOR CHEATING.
Another tweet I wrote and didn't send.
One of today's tags was #LiesBoysTell, and this is the truth.
Was the bigger person and didn't submit, but oooh, the itch...
Stop asking your cheating ex why they left you. Ask yourself while you're not moving on.
...
Because that is the REAL problem.
Don't dwell on the past. Your ex made their decision.
NOW YOU MAKE YOURS.