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Ramblings from Apalapachia...

@thesunflowersqueen / thesunflowersqueen.tumblr.com

Helen Sunflower. 34. Enby/Demisexual/Queer. They/Them. Feminist. British-Canadian. Traveller. English Language Teacher. Artist. Reader. Writer. Dramatist. Whovian. Sci-fi & fantasy lover. Talks too much. Wants more than ordinary. Willing to fight for it. Sometimes NSFW.
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Canada has a heart of gold. And also just a lot of gold.

Yes, I am abstaining from watching Sochi. Yes, I m actively protesting against Russia's tyrannical human rights violations (openly beating LGBTTTQAA in the streets? denying them human rights and freedoms? NOT OKAY.) for those who identify as queer and support the queer community. ... But, just a reminder that I am 110% in favour of human kindness, sportsmanship, and equity. This article reminds me to be proud to be a born and raised Canadian! These are the things that make countries and people great: respect, kindness, sportsmanship, dignity, openness, and activism. Thank you, Canadians, for continuing to represent our country this way. .. Hopefully the Russians will soon follow our example.

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Tallahassaa: Emma grabs Hook. Hook thinks it’s because of a kiss. Emma is surprised and is like no. Hook lets go and feels awkward.

Good Form: Emma graps Killian. Kisses Killian. Killian is surprised at first but kisses back. Neither lets go. Both realize they have feelings.

Funny how it’s Emma who grabs Killian both times.

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I don’t get it. Both Irene Adlers were defeated because they fell for Sherlock Holmes, because of their sentimental feelings for him, but one is bashed and her writers are called names (Sherlock) and one is celebrated and her writers are called progressive (Elementary). I guess I’m thick but I see no difference between them, neither won and both let their feelings for him cloud their judgment.

Allow me to explain.

In BBC, Irene is hyper-sexualized, introduced as a lesbian woman, who’s sexuality is then ignored in order for her to get wet in the panties for Sherlock. It is revealed that she only posed a threat in the first place because she was given help from Moriarty, a man. She is then defeated when Sherlock proclaims that sentiment is a “chemical defect of the losing side", reenforcing "Women are so weak and emotional and girly feelings make you weak" tropes, and the episode ends with Sherlock having to go and save her from the scary scary terrorists. 

In Elementary, however, Irene works to SUBVERT the classic “damsel" trope. We are told that she was killed to get to Sherlock, only to be recovered and in need of “healing." (Bonus! Even in scenes where she is changing, she is never hyper-sexualized) However, the entire thing is a trick. Irene is actually the one in power. She manipulated SHERLOCK’S feelings in order to dominate him. Her needing rescue was only a trick, praying on Sherlock’s emotional buy in to the classic “damsel" narrative. The vast majority of the male antagonists in the show were only HER pawns. And let’s be clear here: She DOES beat him. She defeats Sherlock. Irene/Moriarty is only defeated because she underestimated JOAN, not because of her sentimentality. Because she only saw Joan as a “mascot." (And woah, the racial implications there are intense). In fact, Moriarty is primarily empowered by her emotions, talking about how her ability to manipulate people’s feelings is one of her sources of strength. 

You see, the BBC narrative buys into sexist tropes and the systematic disempowerment of women, along with a healthy dash of queer-baiting.

Elementary deliberately subverted those sexist tropes, demonstrates the power of women, and only has Moriarty defeated by underestimating another woman. 

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“You don’t have to get a job that makes others feel comfortable about what they perceive as your success. You don’t have to explain what you plan to do with your life. You don’t have to justify your education by demonstrating its financial rewards. You don’t have to maintain an impeccable credit score. You have to pay your own electric bill. You have to be kind. You have to find people who love you truly and love them back with the same truth. But that’s all.”

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I've seen so many people freaking out like OMG WHAT IF THE FEELINGS ARE ONLY ONE-SIDED OMG

For one thing — chillax. We’re already past the point where the feelings are one-sided. She cares about him, and it might take her some time to GET THERE, but she WILL get there, I promise.

MOVING ON.

Maybe I’m weird, but hell, one of my most favorite fucking tropes in fiction EVER is a man who’s got it bad for a woman.  There’s something about seeing the lengths they’ll go to for the object of their affection that I just REALLY LOVE.

And I guarantee you CS is going to be a magnificent representation of that trope and I CANNOT FUCKING WAIT.

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I was thinking about Orphan Black and how when the clones were born they were all essentially the same baby. Blank slate, no experiences, same genetics and brain chemistry. But you see them 20 something years later and they’re all so different and that really makes me think about how many possibilities every individual person could turn out like. You might grow up to be a brainy scientist like Cosima or you might end up a religious serial killer like Helena. 

The potential for you to be any sort of person is huge, you feel me? So go out there and be who you want to be and don’t let your genes or your upbringing limit you because we all homies and you’re a special butterfly and I need to take a nap.

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