I'm struck by sudden painful need for Dana Winters. I- it was never cleared, I don't remember, if she actually died. Regardless, is there a fic where she is still alive, recovering in a foreign hospital with very good turnout of patient recovery and Tim is always checking on her but is determined to keep her away from his dangerous life, and no one really paid attention to her much as the second wife of the broke Jack Drake and it was easy enough to imply her death and the media took it as fact except her family knows but they just didn't connect Tim the stepson as Tim Drake-Wayne and her connection to him is completely non-existent in any and every records, not even Bruce knows (because Tim was still nursing his anger at him for Stephanie when he'd made the arrangements). And maybe I want someone to, like, suggest a threat to her but Tim stops that by calmly walking up to the audacious guy, threading their hands, and pushing until he's on his knees and Tim is looking at him with calm, dark eyes that are almost purple under his bangs and says it like a fact, not a rule or a promise because those are meant to be broken, but the sky is blue, rainbows are light illusions, and Tim is going to enjoy breaking them the next time they even look in her direction.
starts talking about my emotional state with 2 degrees of abstraction instead of 7 and the sniper across the street who i pay to keep me in line fires a warning shot thru my little hoop earring
wait can someone explain what this means to me I really want to know
if i am candid about how i feel i will die like john f kennedy
Wheres my toy or i'll get mad now
Bark for me dog
Dr. Gachey with foxglove, 1890
Some of Van Gogh’s best work was done during a period of his life that he spent in a hospital being treated for his mental health problems. I could be wrong but I think Starry Night was among those.
This is consistently the case. Creators tend to do their best work when they are in a healthy place and receiving proper treatment and not being self destructive in their efforts to cope. Go figure.
All our experiences, good and bad, inform what we create, but suffering is not the price of great art. Suffering is what prevents artists from completing great art.
(I bring to mind this @tkingfisher / Ursula Verson quote about once a week <3)
Nightwing by Gleb Melnikov
yeah well. I'll jump off that bridge when I come to it.
America has a weird relationship with cults where they’re terrified of small cults (or organizations they think are cults) but completely normalized massive cults that hurt many more people (eg: LDS Church, Jehovah’s Witnesses, the Amish, Scientology, most Megachurches)
To anybody asking if the Amish are a cult, the answer is yes, very much so.
They’re a high control group that isolate you from society. The cult decides how you dress, how you behave, who you marry and how. They control what you know, blocking all information from the outside world. They control how you feel and what you’re allowed to think with threats of both social and supernatural harm. They’re a cult.
The best method to determine if a group is a cult, in my opinion, is Steven Hassan’s (cult expert and former cult member himself) BITE model.
BITE stands for Behavior Control, Information Control, Thought Control, and Emotional Control.
The more points a group “scores” on the model, the more of a cult it is.
I think this model is the best one for several reasons:
- It’s more nuanced than “cult” or “not cult” and doesn’t make false equivalences between groups
- It’s versatile, applying to groups big and small, and cults of all kinds, religious, political, financial, etc.
- It focuses on what’s important, which is what the cult does to its members, and those members’ experiences, and not on irrelevant details like how uncommon their doctrines are or whether they have a charismatic leader
This is a great example of Thought Control used by cults whenever they’re confronted with criticism.
The creator of the BITE Model considers abusive relationships to be two-person cults.
It’s important to note that almost every sect of evangelical christianity in the US today fails the BITE Model.
This was the post that lead to breaking my JW mindset. Been a while since I seen it.
I’m glad I could help in your deconstruction, if only a little bit. I wish you all the luck in your journey moving forward.
starting a compilation of my favorite "no thank you" buttons from when they want you to subscribe so bad
More from the notes:
Two new snail species named after Tolkien characters
New snails just dropped named after Eowyn and Merry ☺️
saw cdrama winter clothes on pintrest and wanted to draw smth
himbo this, bimbo that. in my day there was mambo, and there were five of them.
I am creating a life i don’t want to run from i am creating a life i don’t want to run from i am creating a life i don’t want to run from
Victor Frankenstein trying to manifest success on his second attempt.
no “carrd.” you learn things about me based on what you can piece together from the vague details of my life I disclose in rare moments of vulnerability
no "carrd." you will learn things about me from the pre recored audio tapes that i have left all across the enviornment, which may or may not detail my slow dscent into madness