sansa gave winterfell to dany because she understands there are more important things than what she wants and her pride and being in charge. they need daenerys, the dragon glass, and her army to fight the night king, everyone will die with out her and her dragons. sansa understands that, you should too.
Oh my god DUDE this is so p a t r o n i z i n g like come THE HECK on.
First of all, this is not just about Sansa ~being in charge~, Winterfell is home to all the Starks. Their family as a whole should be in control of Winterfell because it is their home. The Martells control Dorne because it’s their home, the Tyrells should be in control of The Reach because it’s their home, the Arryn’s should be in charge of the Eyrie because it’s there home. Don’t reduce this to just wanting Sansa to be in charge, because it’s not.
Secondly, this “there are more important things” argument generally holds no real functional credibility with me, because it’s constantly being used in such an arbitrary manner. Why is it that the Starks must give up their home for the greater good, but D doesn’t have to give up her ambitions for the greater good? Why shouldn’t she use her dragon glass and her dragons and her army to fight the Night King just because it’s the right thing to do and because (to quote you) “she understands there are more important things than what she wants and her pride and being in charge”?? Why shouldn’t she be this willing to make this ~noble sacrifice~ in the name of morality or humility or whatever??? You don’t think D should have to give up her ambitions and claim to the throne she has been fighting for for seven seasons for the greater good. I don’t think the Starks should have to give up their ancestral home they spent seven seasons fighting for for the greater good. It’s a circular argument and we could sit here all day, but in the end it literally comes down to you wanting your fave to get what she wants and me wanting my faves to get what they want.