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Domestic Anthropologist

@thedomesticanthropologist

Anthie (pseudonym) Queer, poly, 33yo writer, artist, nerd They/She, 18+ no minors please I write smut banner by @star-bear-art
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Anonymous asked:

Hey Anthie, this question is kind of weird/complicated but I'll try my best to ask. It has to do with recovering from your past habits but I think it could also relate to general stress and handling difficult emotions and experiences (which would include addiction of course but sometimes like... just life too, I guess?)

Anyway, I wanted to hear how fiction helped you or currently helps you? For example I've seen people say that writing "helps" them but when I'm struggling I don't inspired to write, I feel terribly drained, and I'm also a perfectionist. I find it hard to relate to people who transform their pain into art. And I don't have any close friends in the same fandoms like I did when I was a teen so I don't have that sense of community where people encourage me to work on writing and I encourage them to work on their art/writing/etc.

I'm also not sure if it's good to entertain myself even though that might sound weird? Like I'll read, because... it's a thing I can do. And yeah, I enjoy it and have them. But I don't know if it's really aiding in "fixing" myself, and sometimes when I'm reading something, I start worrying that I'm wasting my time somehow? (I made reading more one of my goals for this year, because I went for literal years without reading for enjoyment, and thought my adult ADHD was going to make it impossible for me to ever read again, but now that I'm actually doing it, I don't know how much of an accomplishment it actually is)

Just wanted to hear if any of this ever felt relatable to you, and how you overcame it if so? Thank you and hope you continue to do great with everything, I wish you the best!

This took me a while to get to! thank you for your patience. I tried to narrow your questions down a bit so I hope this is around and about what you were wanting. Under the cut cause its long

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BLOG INFO

  • Yes you can send me asks! Either for headcanons, drabbles, or general questions, advice, fandom questions, etc. I like getting messages.
  • I'm in and in-between fandoms right now. Blog is more general than it used to be, but I made my following by chattering about BG3 so you'll find a lot of BG3 content here still haha
  • You can send asks about my OC's, and if you wanna get to know em better you can find them under the tags: Mira the Cleric and Sivvus the Snob (for now, more incoming)
  • Sivvus is my main, art on this pinned post is by @quinthebard and @star-bear-art

YOU CAN TAG ME IN ASK MEMES and if I Reblog it, go ahead and send em in!

Rules:

  1. Yes I write explicit content, do not send asks if you are under 18
  2. I don't always get to every ask, but I do my best
  3. You can ship your OC with mine if you want, but please keep it light and realize I'll do this with everyone so replies are in your own little universe, etc etc
  4. I'm approachable in the do no harm take no shit kinda way so I'm not a punching bag, but I'm very fair and a safe space within reason, if you have an issue with me please bring it up so I have the opportunity to address it
  5. Be polite!
  6. Mun is 33 years old with a wealth of life experience that would leave many surprised you can stuff that much trauma into 33 years 😅. We love a little dark humor here, theres going to be heavy topics up for discussions, sometimes things aren't tagged thoroughly- please take care of yourself and navigate appropriately
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