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local bi dork // she/her // 23 // (icon credit goes to @kurapilka)
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thunderpetal

Tao seeing Elle feeling like shit about the transphobic climate we live in and deciding to make her a video just showing her being a normal, pretty, girl making art, laughing with her friends and boyfriend, having fun, setting up a whole movie night for him to show it to her, and after it was over, saying ‘that’s how I see you’ while gently holding her in his arms???

#heartstopper
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spiritoast

checked out the first ep of dandadan recently and i thought it was very fun. i like the dynamic of these two quite a lot

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spoondrifts

something about vi never wanting anyone in her life to change. something about jayce not caring at all how much viktor has changed so long as he's alive. something about the way vi associates radical change with death, perceiving jinx's continued existence as a kind of necromantic horror—the way jayce would shatter fundamental laws of nature without a second thought in order to give viktor the best chance at survival, in whatever form that may take. transformation as rebirth vs murder, hextech vs shimmer. nature has made us intolerant to change, but fortunately, we have the capacity to change our nature. and then jayce, realizing that he hasn't changed at all, not really—that he is a scientist at heart, and he shouldn't have tried to be anything else. and then vi, realizing she has become someone unrecognizable—never thought my sister would turn bluebelly. and for both of them, it's too little, too late.

#CRYING#arcane
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teaboot

I hate that thing some people do where it's like. "I left my wallet on the table to see if you'd say anything" or "I wanted to see if you'd wash the car if I stopped doing it"

Cause like

I dont know about anyone else

But I am perpetually hovering three inches above the strong subconscious belief that everyone knows what they're doing at all times except me, so if you change your normal patterns and I notice, then I will assume it is an intentional choice with a thought-out plan behind it and I will avoid interfering

And if I don't notice, because I won't, because why would I, because not much bothers me and if you don't say anything to indicate you are bothered then how would I KNOW

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teaboot

Alternatives to experimenting on me like a lab rat when you suspect me of being inconsiderate:

  1. "I feel like I'm the only one who does this chore. Can we start taking turns?"
  2. "I'd like you to ask me how I'm doing more often."
  3. "It bothers me when this area stays messy so long. Can you do X when Y happens?"
  4. "I feel like the onus is on me to initiate X, and it's wearing me down. Could you try making the first move more? Like 3-4 times a week?"
  5. "I'm feeling upset right now and I'd like to spend some time with you."
  6. "When X happens, I feel like you're taking my work for granted."
  7. "I'm feeling neglected. Could you do X?"
  8. "I'm burnt out and need help."
  9. "I feel like I'm the only one putting effort into X."
  10. "Do you notice this?"
  11. "Are you bothered by this?"
  12. "I am bothered when this happens."
  13. "X habit of yours bothers me."
  14. "When X is like this, I feel bad. Can you [action] when you notice X?"
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hug-your-face
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brehaaorgana

From the book Organizing Solutions for People with ADHD:

  • Putting a coat on the back of a chair by the door is fine, but if you prefer, use coat hooks and a large catch-all basket for dropping keys, hats, gloves.
  • Small bookcase end-table next to the couch to store craft projects, books, and other things being worked on for easy access.
  • Add a storage unit near the dining room table to transition between eating and working there.
  • Daily toiletry items should be stored in a basket that you can move easily
  • Extra toiletries and medicine cabinet items go in open shelf/basket storage so they can be seen and used easily. If items no longer fit, purge the excess. Don’t obscure the view!
  • If you disrobe in the bathroom, place a tall hamper in there.
  • Keep a set of cleaning supplies in each bathroom
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unashamedly-enthusiastic

Reblog and say what project you currently have spread on your dinner table in the tags

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pancakeke
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