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Anger is a valid and understandable emotion when it comes to healing from trauma, even if your trauma does not have a specific person to blame. If the person who hurt you did not mean to or did not know better, anger is still a valid emotion. You’ve been hurt and you should not have been and it is reasonable to feel angry at this.
◤(un)popular opinion; i’m not really a fan of muses who pull the ‘i’m not afraid of you, lol’ card with dangerous or powerful muses when they are being threatening ( or even if they appear humble or cute but are full of power ). if it wasn’t for being called god modding, i’m 700% sure these more powerful muses would have, could have, should have killed another muse if they persistently irritate them. especially if the offending character is a run of the mill human. unless your muse has dealt with similar monsters/menacing personalities/dangerous situations - try not to antagonize deadly muses to the point of obvious rage knowing the writer can’t really write them killing your muse even though that is completely in their nature to do so.
So tired of people just needing to have their muse be some sort of victim to the point where they will write fake scenarios that have supposingly happened where my muse was mean, without ever asking for permission. But then they get mad when I write that it didn’t happen cause then ‘their muse looks dumb’. Well stop creating a damn victim for nothing!
I do UNDERSTAND there are duplicates who were problematic, like stealing headcanons and ideas from their muns who are rping the same character they are. You have the absolute right to be wary, ignore them, and not befriend them. Though, for the most part, they’re all here to have fun and bring in their own style. And I am starting to notice people are leaving fandoms merely because there are muns who hates “competition”.
Since when did rping become a contest to see who’s the best?
Like I said, you have the right of not wanting to associate or befriending with duplicates especially if you made it known in your rules. But throwing in the passive aggressive attitude and telling others not to interact with them, ostracizing them from the community is not the right way to do it if you feel insecure around them. There’s the block button and tumblr savior.
Most importantly: You have the right to be insecure, but your mental illness is not a valid excuse to be mean.
“I wanna be your first choice.”
— a six word story by marshhmelllow (via just-six)
Please take as long as you need to reply
Please come talk to me about headcanons, ships and plots
Please introduce me to all your characters
Please never be afraid to start new things with me (even if we already have 1000)
Please leave endless amounts of memes and all kinds of random stuff in my inbox
Please IM me about things that happen in your life
Please feel free to be yourself
Please HAVE FUN
Sif, Amora, Brunnhilde, and a silenced Lorelei are somewhere collecting lost Asgardians and forming as new Asgard because it’s not a place, it’s a people, and the Russo’s don’t know what the gods don’t want them to know.
Amora’s an asshole, but she’s a fucking asshole that stands with Asgard until the bitter end.
WHEN I FOLLOW YOU, I WANT TO INTERACT. I don’t follow for follow, I follow you because I’m interested in your character and want to write with you. sometimes, even when you follow me, I’m too shy to approach, or I’m just not really sure HOW. please; if I’m following you, shoot me a message. go ahead and RANDOMLY JUMP IN MY INBOX. Something – just know that if I follow you, I WANT to interact with you!!
Thor in Avengers already wondering “who controls the would be king”, then in AoU going on his quest to figure out what’s going on beyond the obvious, investigating further threats to the wider universe in Ragnarok.. I mean he’s the only one who’s been caring about Thanos and trying to get to the bottom of things so he better fucking not get sidelined in Infinity War.
Thor has been much more essential to The Avengers than he’s made out to be. Here on earth, you have multiple factions trying to find solutions to stop threats from reaching earth. Yet, Thor’s the only one providing any solutions because he knows what kind of threats are out there and even if he didn’t? He’s one of the few capable of seeking out real solutions.
Then, you have these individual heroes trying to act big, and Thor becomes so angry with them because it is petty! They are tiny! They have no comprehension regarding how insignificant their existence is to the worlds outside of Midgard. No one takes him seriously, though. No one understands where he is coming from. They’re not going to fully get it until Thanos touches down.
The Chitauri were just a warm up. A very relatively easy warm up and while the attacks certainly had a serious effect on everyone that was taken seriously by all, they are so woefully under prepared for what is coming but they’re going to think they’re too strong to fail. Thor is old enough to watch empires crumble. He has seen super powerful beings die. He knows the gravity of this all.
If anyone has solutions to this incoming disaster that is Thanos, it’s going to be Thor. If anyone should be giving any kind of leadership, it’s Thor. He’s spent much of his time traveling from realm to realm to learn and to defend. They can power Thor down all they want when he’s with the mortals, but he is narratively one of the most important characters when it comes to this.
IN THIS HOUSE WE RESPECT OUR LORD AND SAVIOR THOR ODINSON
I’m probably not going to want to RP with you (especially not shippy stuff) if you actually dislike/hate/rag on my character to me. You don’t have to love them like I love them. But you need to respect that I love them.
stop feeding your compulsion to actively seek out content that you know is upsetting.
stop visiting tags that upset you (you should probably blacklist them)
stop visiting blogs that you’ve blocked, and/or that you know is going to post about stuff that upsets you.
stop hate reading.
I know from experience that it can be addicting because getting angry about stuff is just a good of a distraction as any. but it’s such a pointless, self destructive, and avoidable source of negativity in your life.
when people say that Loki being adopted means he’s not Thor’s “real brother” or that they’re not related
they’re brothers ok? full stop
fandom “elders” are always so creepy. if youre 25+ and in a fandom space with literal 12 year olds you need to conduct yourself as if you were in a room filled with children. you cant say youre a fandom mom and in the same breath make porn of underage characters. you are a fucking adult. act like it.
im all about adults continuing to be passionate about their interests if it makes them happy. but honestly yall had better fucking behave. recognize that youre in a space filled with vulnerable minors and its very easy to manipulate them if youre gonna be like “uwuuuu im a momma to all the fandom babies im a fandom grandma”
I get that adults in minors spaces need to act responsibly: 100% yes to that.
But…minors must be aware that they are minors. Fandom spaces are not one big homogeneous space; we actively choose where to be. Ever user curates the space they inhabit. You hand-pick which blogs to follow, which subs and forums you visit, which twitter hashtags you use. I mean, you still chose whether or not to turn google safe-search off.
Spaces that are not for underage people are not going to change just because younger people are not interacting responsibly. These spaces, like: blogs that are 18+, websites which are designated for people over certain age, various nsfw public forums, specific areas on multiple platforms…Etc. They are here to stay. Other people are not here to police your participation. That is your and your guardians responsibility to negotiate. Other users are not here to cow-tow to where and how you enter those spaces. Now, we all know that no-one can stop you from going wherever you want on the internet, and that you might feel ready to engage with those things, but those are choices you are making. It depends a lot on what you personally feel you are mature enough to handle. But again, these are your actions, not ours. There is a further problem that a lot of younger people are not really getting: public space is not underage space by default. By default, public spaces are adult spaces. Yes its messy, and yes demographics are shifting and changing on platforms all the time, but if you are literate enough to use those platforms, you are able to make informed decisions for your usage. If you are not able to do so, then the responsibility falls on your guardians. If you find that one space is more volatile and that no matter what, you can’t control what you are interacting with? Then you(or your guardian) need to recognize that it might not be the place for you at that point in time.
I grew up lying about my age to get onto various platforms, yes. Did I stumble onto things I really wasn’t ready for? yes, sometimes. And I was grossed out or even sickened. But I learnt from that, I learnt how to avoid things I didn’t want to see, and when to err on the side of caution for my own happiness. I never had the kind of parents who would only let their children use the internet while supervised, but I had the kind of parents who taught me to understand my own limits, and how to be aware of the world around me so that I can make choices that were good for me.
“creepy“
lol. i’d love to assure any teenager that i have zero interest in interacting with you. i’m not your mom, not your friend, not your anything.
if you’re underage, it’s the responsibility of your parents or your guardians to make sure you enter age appropriate places. not mine.
“As someone with english as my second language, it’s insulting to see everyone excuse big spelling and grammar mistakes with the fact that not everyone is a native english speaker. DO NOT HAVE LOW EXPECTATIONS ON US! We are just as capable of learning as everyone else. Correct us if we’re wrong. But do not expect our spelling and grammar to be poor. And dear second language speakers like me….STOP USING THE FACT THAT ENGLISH IS YOUR SECOND LANGUAGE AS AN EXCUSE FOR POOR GRAMMAR AND SPELLING!“
My kinds of ships are the ships where the men know their women are powerful forces of nature and that they could fuck up entire armies in a matter of seconds and THEY EMBRACE IT AND TAKE PRIDE IN IT???! “Oh… It’s not me you should be worried about… It’s my WIFE.“ *smirks* YAAASSSSSSSSSS GIVE ME MORE.
Please keep in mind that, however hard my muse may argue something or however confidently they make a statement, they can be wrong. It’s my muse’s opinion, and my muse talking, and their perception is skewed. Do not feel like everything out of my character’s mouth is the truth, or that I’m godmodding.
