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The Masked Lady Anon

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On this blog you will find positivity posts and cute animals to brighten your day! If you need advice or just an open ear my askbox will be open for you. If your artwork or writing needs a push just tell me. If you know somebody who needs a cheer up please let me also know. You may also send recommendations or gush about friends' OCs/writing/art. These asks will be published anonymously in a seperate post. (Blogs that post too many of my triggers without tagging them, don't answer my asks, actively and with malicious intent aim to destroy others mental health or spread negativity I wont follow and even block.) Icon by ghostcomit.
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Hey!!!!

I know you haven’t answered one of these questions in a minute but I have a question about relationships... kinda???

Is it normal for a person to take the blame and apologize when someone else doesn’t trust them, even when the distrust has no fair or logical basis?

Is it a problem when someone expects people to not trust them, even when they’ve done nothing to deserve a distrustful reputation?

This is something my S.O does all the time and I don’t understand it bc if it were me in that position I’d be pissed off to be treated so unfairly

Can you provide some insights for me on this?

Hey anon! Thank you for reaching out, I actually do have some thoughts and insight on this!

I am going to stick my answer under a cut just because I discuss some anxiety related issues here and my anon chats tend to get a little long lol 

#anxiety#rejection sensitivity#past trauma#mentions of abuse#Me
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myintention-s

Someone who has been emotionally abused will:

• Constantly apologize • Hide their feelings in fear of upsetting you • Break down during small disagreements thinking it will explode • Need a lot of reassurance Please be patient, we are trying.

Or they may be

•irrationally defensive

•shut down in mid conversation when you thought everything was going well

•become aloof and distant

We all react differently and cope in our own way.

You never know what someone has been through, be patient with each other.

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the-masked-lady

They don't lack confidence to manipulate you into getting compliments.

They might not believe compliments because they have been told the contrary long enough.

Please don't get angry, loud and/or annoyed when they apologise.

It just might trigger the person you are talking to.

Please try to be patient and understand.

If they apologise just assure them gently that it is okay.

Please just be patient and supportive. ❤️

#Anxiety#Support
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