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As much as I want to keep my anon asks open, and i do love hearing the stories of closeted trans people and the persepectives of trans people in non-western countries they are going to be closed indefinitely for the time being.

I want the people who've contacted me with nice messages to know that I appreciate you, and thank you and to the people who've contacted me with their stories that I'm so glad i could make you feel comfortable enough to share.

Unfortunately being open about my trauma and vents on a discourse blog is actually not a smart idea lol, so don't do that kids.

I like to think I am a strong person but sending asks trying to trigger my religious and cult trauma did catch me a little off guard. haha.

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hermeticum

Sit down white american he/they the people with actually meaningful commentary about oppression dynamics are talking

When would calling someone their pronouns (he/they) as a noun NOT be transphobic?

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Two of the most common arguments against transandrophobia:

'Transandrophobia is just men trying to make it about themselves again'

'Transandrophobia is so stupid, there's like barely any history to it'

Are like directly contradictory.

Like you can't in the same breath say transandrophobia is not credible because it doesn't have enough historical writings on it, and also suggest that the writings have always centred trans men and are only now starting to shift in favour of trans women.

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speciose2

[Tweet from @/fozmeadows: "human gender and sexuality are very much like animal taxonomy, in that both look structured and simple on the surface, but once you start investigating, it turns out there's actually no such thing as a fish despite the fact that we all know what a fish is, and that's okay"]

As a biologist, that is a fantastic comparison.

We talk about “fish” (which, cladistically, do not exist, there is no monophyletic group of “fish” that simultaneously includes all organisms we understand to be “fish”-like while also excluding, say, humans) because, despite the utter fiction that is fish, it’s still a useful label when we talk about certain features that “fish” tend to have in common.

Gender is absolutely the same way.

Reject Essentialism, Embrace Nominalism

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psychotrenny

It's insane to me how many people on this site seem to think "tranny" is meaningfully a slur against anyone but transfems. It's a level of social awareness that's worse than most mainstream CisHet Liberals, and I have to wonder how many people say this to intentionally undermine trans women vs they've picked up enough of the especially virulent background transmisogyny that seems to permeate any fandomite social space. Because I swear that most "Queer as in Fuck You" types have an even worse attitude towards trans women than the sort of "Hey Man-I mean girl(?)- how's it going?" types you might run into in the streets. A truly miserable state of affairs for so called "progressives" indeed

you don't think tranny is a meanigful slur against trans men?

you don't think faggot is a meaningful slur against faggots of sticks?

Last I checked the trans in trans men DOES actually stand for TRANS and is not a SYNONYM.

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psychotrenny

It's insane to me how many people on this site seem to think "tranny" is meaningfully a slur against anyone but transfems. It's a level of social awareness that's worse than most mainstream CisHet Liberals, and I have to wonder how many people say this to intentionally undermine trans women vs they've picked up enough of the especially virulent background transmisogyny that seems to permeate any fandomite social space. Because I swear that most "Queer as in Fuck You" types have an even worse attitude towards trans women than the sort of "Hey Man-I mean girl(?)- how's it going?" types you might run into in the streets. A truly miserable state of affairs for so called "progressives" indeed

you don't think tranny is a meanigful slur against trans men?

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Some (not all, but a generous portion) uses of 'TME' feel like a bait and switch thing?

Like you use 'tme' to mean 'cis' something like for example, TME people think trans women want to 'make their kids trans'. (largely trans people would be unlikely to worry about their kids being 'made trans')

And then 5 minutes later you're going, 'TMEs are gross parodies of transness'. (to predominantly mean transmascs).

So like 'tme' is used to mean cis when describing how much privilege they have and then used to mean 'transmasc' when actually insulting them?

Does this make sense? Does anyone else get this feeling?

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fun fact, if you go into the mirror and chant that you are mentally ok, healthy and strong, 5 times

You will not actually suddenly become mentally ok healthy or strong

You will instead start sobbing.

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sarah-ankh

Because being in a cult means willingly surrendering your autonomy to the cult and abdicating all responsibility for independent thought in favour of mindlessly parroting what you're told.

Ignorance is bliss. Life is easier when you're willfully ignorant.

Not really 'willing', when you're born into it. But I do get your point.

(Sorry, you may not have context for this but this was just me after getting my religous/cult trauma triggered and I was having a slight panic that i was eternally damned to hell because I'm trans and left the cult)

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"The reason transmascs act the way they do is because of the white girlhood they experienced"

  1. You're racist
  2. You believe in socialisation theory.

You are being a racist terf.

I have too much going on in my brain right now to analyse the whole post and how you heavily implied through your statement that

'trans women don't focus on if they're valid because they immediately experience a kind of bigotry'

and simultaneously

'trans men do focus on if they're valid'

That you don't think trans men immediately face a kind of bigotry when they come out.

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I don't miss my long hair. I don't miss my mother either.

But I do miss the nights, usually after a particularly bad beating, when she used to spend hours smoothing out my hair with one of those old brushes, the ones without plastic bristles. She would stroke my head and tell me its ok, and to pray, keep my trust in Allah.

And that He would make sure I got a good marriage 'in the next few years.'

She started saying that when I was 11.

I don't miss my mother.

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anyway by the fucking way, I'm glad my parents would be dissapointed with me

they fucking should be

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There is no one I love like my trans sisters and brothers who also grew up in conservative muslim countries. Know that I adore you even in a country that doesn't. Know that, in the thousands of miles of what seems like a sea of hatred, there are other lights.

You are not blasphemous for existing.

Its ok if you distanced yourself from your religion its ok if you believe they are compatible, its ok if you got closer to your religion.

Its ok.

I love you.

i am not. blasphemous for existing

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There is no one I love like my trans sisters and brothers who also grew up in conservative muslim countries. Know that I adore you even in a country that doesn't. Know that, in the thousands of miles of what seems like a sea of hatred, there are other lights.

You are not blasphemous for existing.

Its ok if you distanced yourself from your religion its ok if you believe they are compatible, its ok if you got closer to your religion.

Its ok.

I love you.

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