tangleofrainbows reblogged
Girls who don’t lift up other girls confuse the fuck outta me
I just don’t have the upper body strength for it
Wait that’s not what you meant
Three things: 1. You gotta squat down and lift with your legs, so your upper body strength matters less. You would probably be surprised by how strong you actually are. 2. Use your “traditionally feminine” skills such as cooperation and consensus building to get that girl lifted. There is no shame in recruiting a third, or even a fourth girl to help you lift the first girl (and no shame in being a girl who requires a whole crew of girls to lift her). 3. Always get the consent of the girl being lifted. Some girls don’t like to be lifted and that’s okay.