"I'm not writting a love song to him"
"Here Today was a love song about my relationship with him."(2001)
"It was a love song, really, not to John but a love song about John, about my relationship with him. (2004)
"Here Today is a love song to John." (2021)
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Lol, "not to John, but about John".
tbf the context is they’re talking specifically about “Maybe I’m Amazed” and Howard says he thinks that song was for John rather than Linda (iirc)