Hi Fish! I was reading through your FP advice and saw the one where the anon mentioned loaning out their pens. I have always been told that part of the appeal of fountain pens is that after some use, the nibs begin to attune to the user! That makes me think it might not be a good idea to share one's pens (especially if you use the nice delicate nibs that Fish-Senpai does). Have you ever had a pen change on you, or is this just a myth? Thank you for all the beautiful art and have a very nice day!
Hello!
While it was true in the past, modern fountain pen nibs are made with stainless steel, so the chances of them wearing down (and attuning to the user’s writing style) is very slim. It might still be true with gold nibs since they are softer, but other wise, your nibs still probably last you a life time. The danger of loaning out pens is actually the other person.
Ballpoint pens are made in a way that requires the user to press harder to dispense ink on the paper, thus, overtime, conditioned writers to press harder and harder on their pens. Fountain pens uses liquid ink, thus requiring no pressure to dispense ink onto the page. Pressing too hard actually springs the nib tines and damages it, creating ink flow issues. If the writer is aware of this and uses the pen properly, you can rest assured that no wear-and-tear will come to your nib!