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Born 1991–07-21, majored in linguistics and East Asian studies at Tel-Aviv University. Unabashed (but not unbridled) SJW. Working as a tutor: I teach English, Hebrew grammar, K–12 math, and beginner-level Japanese. Also a translator: I’ve translated 3 books to English so far. Expect NGE and others fandom rants, some odd observations, and SJW rants. NOTE: The opinions expressed on this blog are mine and mine alone. They are only tangentially related to those of people close to me, and they tend to clash strongly with them. Do not jump into conclusions regarding the opinions of others you happen to be familiar with. they/them/their
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I think the reason a lot of leftists struggle with disability justice is that they haven't moved past the concept that discrimination isn't bad because it's objectively "wrong." yes, sexists are objectively wrong when they try to claim women are dumber than men. yes, antisemites are objectively wrong that jewish people are inherently greedy and run the state. yes, racists are wrong when they try to claim that white people are the superior race. and so on.

but then with disabled people, there are a lot of objective truths to the discrimination we face. people with IDs/LDs do fall behind and struggle with certain concepts. physically disabled people are often weaker and less capable of performing demanding tasks than able bodied people. many of us with mental illnesses are more reckless and less responsible. a lot of us are dependent on others and do not contribute much "worth".

and guess what? disabled people still deserve a place in the world. disabled people still deserve the supports they need. because they are people, and that should be enough to support them and believe they deserve a place at the table.

if your only rebuttal against discrimination is its objective inaccuracies, you are meeting bigots where they are at. you are validating the very concept that if and when people are truly incapable of being equal to the majority, that means they are worth less. this causes some leftists to then try to deny the objective realities of disabled people and/or become ableist themselves.

your rallying behind marginalized groups should start and end with the fact that people are completely worthy of life and equity, because they are fellow human beings and that should, frankly, be enough.

Although you’re correct on the ‘objectivity’ thing, I think you’re conflating things here, because ‘racist’, ‘sexist’, etc. are broad terms. There’s racism that says ‘those people are vermin and should be eradicated or at the very least kept on a very tight leash’ because they’re bad (supposedly because they’re genetically predisposed to be criminals, or because they’re scheming women), or because they’re a net drain on society, and then there’s the more ‘benevolent’ kind that masquerades as accommodation: segregating schools, keeping women in the kitchen, etc.

The last part is the most insidious, because it limits people under the pretext of ‘helping’, so a focus on saying, ‘No, we don’t need your kind of “accomodation”,’ is vital. Let alone tackling claims that those people are going to cause you tangible harm, and you can’t say ‘be compassionate’ towards people who are ontologically wicked. So tackling these things on the facts is a must here.

The way this carries over to disability is a separate issue I don’t feel entirely qualified to talk about. I’m autistic, but I’ve always had the feeling that I need to learn to adjust myself to society rather than the other wary around and use my autism as an excuse, and I’ve only started getting much nuance in recent years, and even then it’s mostly kinda-sorta and somewhat hard to shake.

(Semi-related: will everyone reading this please start adding alt-text to your pictures? Please, consider those who physically cannot see them.)

"you can’t say ‘be compassionate’ towards people who are ontologically wicked."

That literally is what I'm saying though. There are people out there who exist that are more dangerous or destructive or irresponsible than the base population and they still deserve rights. Some mentally ill people are more prone to acting out and/or causing violence, it doesn't mean they should be considered less than the majority. People's rights shouldn't be circumstantial or based on how well they behave.

People who suffer from a potentially treatable affliction that make them lack real control over their own actions or understand of them and their ramifications are not the same as people who are inherently inclined to harm you in ways they control and understand. People who choose violence this way definitely are less and we rightfully deny them certain rights. And even those who harm others and can’t help it have some rights denied as well, because you need to keep people safe. The issue is with those who say, ‘Let’s act preemptively because we totally can.’

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On ‘The Kindergarten Kid’ and R. D. Laing

Everyone’s making fun of that scene in ‘The Kindergarten Kid’ where Peridot mimics the corrupted Gem’s behaviour like it’s some over-the-top silliness, but it’s most likely a reference to the work of R. D. Laing, who was quoted as stating, ‘Insanity—a perfectly rational adjustment to an insane world.’ (The quote is most likely a paraphrase and slight oversimplification of his creed rather than something he said exactly.) Famously, as The Guardian recounts:

Once, when faced with a naked schizophrenic woman rocking silently to and fro in a padded cell, Laing took off his own clothes and sat next to her, rocking to the same rhythm until she spoke for the first time in months.

The kind of jokes people here make about how Peridot handled the situation are a bit uncomfortable. I have a relative who has ADHD but couldn’t take his medication without other kids in his school mocking him for it; he stopped taking it and it effectively cost him his education.

Please stop mocking people for the kind of help they need and those who provide it for doing so.

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I am literally fucking shaking with rage right now. This is not fucking okay.

On the top is my original post. That was a post about autism. A post about MY EXPERIENCES AS AN AUTISTIC PERSON, posted IN THE TAG FOR AUTISTIC PEOPLE, meant ONLY FOR AUTISTIC PEOPLE.

Who was

the ableist piece of garbage

Who edited out the title?

Allistics, this post was not for you. Grow the fuck up and get over yourselves. This wasn’t some quirky “haha I listen to songs so many times and everyone gets mad at me I’m so weird :)” post. Autistic people rely on things being the same, rely on similarity and familliarity, every single day of our lives. We listen to the same songs over and over again because of the way our brains work and it is not something you as allistics will ever understand.

This post was not for you.

THIS POST WAS NOT FOR YOU

Y’all will fucking downright abuse and dehumanize us for doing shit like this. Don’t you fucking dare silence us and edit our goddamn posts so you can tag along to posts about our experiences. I’m so fucking mad right now. Fuck whoever deleted the title. This post has gotten two thousand notes today after the title was removed. Fuck every single allistic that reblogged this.

signal boost, y’all. reblog from the source, allistics don’t reblog at all.

If this is your idea of ableism

Then do you know what?

I fucking ENVY the kind of life you have lead. 

Do you know what ableism was for me?  Being told I could take my exams over two years early, then having the new people at school insist that as an autistic person I was not smart or bright but actually meant for nothing in life, that it would be a miracle if I learned to stack shelves: they took away my english literature exam papers and textbooks and colouring in to do.  Or maybe it was being constantly tormented as “the retard” and “the special needs kid” and constantly being spoken to like a toddler and having people think they understand everything there was to know about me because of that stupid The Dog and the Pitchfork and the Bedtime or whatever that stupid fucking book was.

Not someone thinking that something as insanely relatable as “oh i played the same song 400 times over and over again and it annoyed everyone” was exclusive to autistic people and a ironclad symptom of only autistic people.

Nice way to other us and make us seem like insanely strange freaks.

Allistics reblog away and let this child pout as much as he or she wants to.  If they actually are autistic, as thinking something everyone does is somehow special and super unique symptoms of autism is textbook self diagnosis behaviour anyway.  You know like the tucutes who say every anime character ever is trans.  

Will you please stop? This is not a fucking pissing contest. What Kieren has suffered is just another aspect of how allistic people fuck us over: belittling our symptoms and stigmatising them when we exhibit them, but not when they do. That’s the thing about oppression: it manifests in more than one way. This is akin to white people wearing a bindi and henna tattoos and Indian clothing with little to no negative repercussions, while actual people from the Indian subcontinent are heavily stigmatised for it. No, it might not be as bad as taking away our opportunities for education or employment or physically assaulting us, but it’s still a repeated slap in the face that contributes to making us fair game in general.

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when you say “skinny shaming” im going to pretend what you mean “misogyny flavoured Ableism aimed at women with eating disorders” and that that is the thing you’re upset about instead of like fat women saying “ugh skinny girls”

Yes, this is exactly what I mean. Especially considering that Nicki Minaj is not fucking fat. She sounds like a 1/16 PoC white person talking shit about white people, fully enjoying white privilege while flaunting a meagre excuse to claim a dissociation with the privileged group.

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