Shoutout to selfshippers who find their F/O's actions morally reprehensible and hot at the same time!

Hi hi Anon! Thank you for the ask! I'd be happy to help! And yes, platonic f/os are absolutely a thing!

Fictional Other // Comfort Character letter ideas!

These can work for any type of F/O relationship!

Should I write more ideas and make this a series?

Hi hi! I'm starseverance , and this is my self shipping blog!

If you like villain F/Os, contrasting dynamics, and general selfshipping shenanigans, you've come to the right place!

I rb a lot of imagines, and take requests for my own. My ask box is always open for questions, gushing, imagine requests, or anything else! I love getting asks and hearing from you!

No DNI, I enforce my own boundaries when necessary.

If you're new, I recommend that you check out my tagging system; and if you're under 18 please blacklist the "mdni" tag.

My F/Os // Self Ship Lore // Tags

About Me: I'm 19, pronouns he/him only. I was once called a🚨Huge Proshipper🚨(accurate, I guess?) I am a system that uses I/we interchangeably. I don't participate in fandom outside of self shipping, but I love Star Wars!🪙💫

MMMMM I LOVE WATCHING THE SAME VIDEOS OF MY F/O ON REPEAT THIS NEVER GETS OLD

Happy Pride Self Shippers!

Looks like everyone and their mother is doing a new promo, so I'll throw mine into the mix! If you like villain F/Os, contrasting dynamics, and general selfshipping shenanigans, you've come to the right place!

I'm 18, a 🚨Huge Proshipper🚨, and my other interests include: history, sociology, the Pathfinder RPG (1e), Star Wars and writing!

My asks are always open for whatever you have to say; be it gushing about your F/Os, asking me questions about mine, self ship imagine requests, or just to say hi! I love getting asks and hearing from you!

If you are under 18 and interested in following me please blacklist the "mdni" tag. I recommend that everyone check out my post about tags (linked in my pinned,) so that you can navigate my blog and blacklist anything that you wouldn't like to see!

Shoutout to self shippers who...

Self ship for fun, you're so cool!

Self ship to cope, you're awesome!

Have real relationships with their F/Os, you're amazing!

Self ship casually, you're great!

Post a lot about their F/Os, you're so creative!

Don't post often, you're still a beloved part of the community!

Have lots of F/Os, you have so much love to give!

Have very few F/Os, you're so devoted to them!

Hi hi!

I'm StarSeverance, and this is my self shipping blog!

If you like villain F/Os, contrasting dynamics, and general selfshipping shenanigans, you've come to the right place!

Important Info

My F/Os // Self Ship Lore // Tags

I don't participate in fandom outside of self shipping, but my other interests include: history, anthropology, sociology, the Pathfinder RPG (1e), Star Wars and writing! 🪙💫 Anonymous drawy box thing Deco my tree! <-

I have a backup account at starseverance-backup, and I am on pillowfort and aethy with the same username (although I don't use either frequently.)

Hi hi Anon! Thank you for the ask! It's taken me a while to get to it, but I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed learning about flower symbolism!

Messages for my F/Os in Flowers

🪙<3

I would send🪙 a bouquet containing: pink camellias, hydrangeas, red tulips, tiger lilies, some hyssop, sage, and a sprig from a bay tree. Surface level, it might seem like an odd combo for a bouquet, but one that would probably smell very nice. But the real message would be more like...

"You are as glorious as you are heartless. You are immortal, as is my love for you. I long for you, I would sacrifice anything for your affections. You have the wealth to buy anything you want in the world, but I give you my heart and soul even if I receive nothing but coldness in return."

Passionate, yet slightly uh... deranged?

💫<3

For my darling 💫, I would send him a bouquet of heliotrope, blue hyacinth, yellow tulips, nasturtium and gladiolus; with a little bit of sorrel and yarrow. I bet it would smell very nice as well, and it would mean something like...

"I think of you always when we are apart, and I miss your smile. I wish you strength and victory in your battles. I am devoted to you for eternity, I love you."

I can't help but feel this affectionate towards him, he's just so loveable!

I'd love to hear which, if any, apply to you! <3

Imagine your F/O making you actually take a break when you're sick. They remind you that your body needs rest, actual rest, and not to use the time to be as productive as possible. They encourage you to stay in your pajamas, make some tea, and listen to what your body needs most.

Ask Game Link! Hi hi Ghosty! Thank you so much for the ask! :D

2) If someone visited your house without any prior knowledge of your FO, would they be able to work out the connection through the items you own? If someone visited my house without any prior knowledge of 💫, they may or may not be able to figure the connection out. I have a large portrait of him on my bedroom wall, along with 4 associated posters. They might recognize a symbol that is on one of the posters from a sticker on my laptop. I do own two shirts with 💫 on them, but I never wear them out of the house.

4) Angst: Have you ever struggled with the knowledge that you and your FO might never inhabit the same world? I have struggled with that, but those struggles are now in the past... They have, of course, been replaced by new struggles; but I am thankful that I don't have to deal with that anymore.

9) What do you imagine your life be like now, if your FO had never been in it? Gods, I have no idea. If it weren't for 💫, I wouldn't have begun to heal from past traumas, I wouldn't have acknowledged my ability to feel love, and I wouldn't have gotten out of the "I'm a bad person" mindset. I wouldn't have opened myself up to (platonic) love the way that I did, and I would have never had the friendship that changed me the most. It's crazy to think that someone sending me a shirtless picture of 💫 because they thought he was my type changed my life so much. The time has flown so fast, I fell in love with him when I was 15, and now I'm 18!

(F/O takeover) Ask Game Link! Hello Ghosty! Thank you for sending me an ask. For the purposes of this answer I'll refer to my beloved as "Star."

(1) What sorts of things do you associate with your s/o? I associate Star with baked goods, learning, rest, safety, learning, love, and peace.

(5) Are you okay with PDA? How affectionate are you willing to get in public? I enjoy a small amount of PDA. A kiss on the cheek or the lips is acceptable, but nothing further. I like to hold his hand (but I prefer an arm around his waist.) Star and I do not feel the need to advertise our feelings for one another, but we do like to show off every so often.

(6) Are you a “actions speak louder than words” type of lover or do you prefer verbal declarations of your thoughts and feelings? I believe that actions and words are of equal import in demonstrating love. My favourite ways to express my love are physically and through quality time.

(13) What’s a typical conversation like between you and your s/o? Our conversations vary. Star and I often "infodump" to one another about our interests and share stories about our experiences. We like to read/watch things together and then discuss them. I have read all of his favourite books, which he references almost daily. We frequently tease one another, but we take care not to go too far.

(20) What’s the most romantic thing you can remember having done for them? What’s the most romantic thing they’ve done for you? I like not to focus on grand gestures of affection, but instead the simple things we do for one another each day. Our love is unconditional, accepting, and understanding. I push Star to take care of himself and prioritize his wellbeing. He sets aside time for me no matter how busy he is, and often buys my favorite foods.

Ask Game Link! Hi hi Birdy! Thank you so much for the ask! This one'll be for 💫!

In general, I think my biggest fears are in the vein of abandonment and not being up to my own standards. 💫's biggest fear is something in the vein of not having made an impact, and/or not having acted when it matters. I think that both of our biggest fears stem from our childhoods and the various experiences that we had with our families. We were both raised in environments with high expectations, and expectations for children be just like adults (except more obedient.)

💫 helps me by pointing out times when I might be incorrectly interpreting something as hostile/negative. I tend to assume the worst, and it helps having someone to reassure me that the world isn't always like that. He also pushes me to do my best, while also encouraging me to take breaks and reminding me that he loves me no matter what.

I try to help 💫 by encouraging him to incorporate radical acceptance into his life; by that I mean like, accepting that he can't change choices that he made in the past. He tends to get wrapped up in thinking about what he "should have done." I also remind him that he very much has made an impact in so many ways, even just on my life. 💫 has truly changed my life for the better, and I am so thankful for that.

Ask Game Link! Hi hi Anon! Thank you so much for the ask, and I hope you're having a great day! :D I will answer this one for 💫! because my other f/o would not care

🌧 Not everything is perfect… So one day everything just seems to go wrong. Nothing is working out like you thought it would and people are rude. You come home angry and tired and however else a bad day makes you feel. How would your F/O comfort you, or make your day a little brighter? When I'm having a hard time, I tend to want to be alone, which is often the opposite of what I need. 💫 would let me vent to him, and he would validate my feelings on whatever had gone on. Sometimes he does offer unsolicited advice, but he's working on asking first, lol. Whether I need a distraction, to talk about it, or anything else, having 💫 around usually makes me feel so much better. He would encourage me to take care of myself and do what is best for me- and he would give me cuddles, and those help quite a bit too!

Ask Game Link! Hi hi Quill! Thank you so much for the ask!

Draco - What are both of you like in times of dire need or stressful situations? I’ll start with 💫! In situations like these, 💫 is able to remain calm and collected. It comes from the lifetime of practice, but it’s still very impressive how he can keep a cool head. To some people, it might seem like he never gets stressed. He always tries to remain focused on his goal, putting his own feelings behind.

My answer is a bit more complicated because "I" am actually a system; so it really depends on both the situation and the person fronting. I like to think that we do our best to keep calm and remedy the situation like 💫 does, but that's not always how it goes lol. The amount of pressure any given one of us can take before "cracking" varies, but at least when one of us cracks, another might switch in?

Come to think of it, we all have widely different responses to stress. Definitely something to bring up in therapy lol! :P

Ask Game Link! Hi hi El! Thank you for the ask! :D

Unwanted: What’s something most people find funny that your f/o finds annoying? I have already answered this one for 💫 here!

🪙 hates friendly/flirtatious teasing. He doesn't understand how "insults" could be affectionate; nor does he want that kind of affection. If someone were to tease him (even "affectionally") they must either believe what they are saying, or want to offend him. Perhaps both. Thankfully 🪙 has no friends, so he doesn't need to worry about this.

Remember: What is the funniest memory or memories your f/o can remember? 💫's funniest memory is an absolutely horrible story that I am not going to fully repeat. It took place when he was in his late teens and involved underage drinking, irresponsible use of firearms, mutilation, and super glue. He cannot tell the story without laughing and I will never understand how he finds it funny; but hearing him laugh is worth it.

I have no idea what 🪙's funniest memory would be, I'm not sure if he even has a sense of humor outside of cruelty; and even then, I'm not sure if he finds it funny.