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For anyone who doesn't know what's going on in Canada right now (which, let's be real, is probably everyone who's not in Canada):

This week, a mass grave was discovered at a former Indian Residential School, in Kamloops, BC. The grave contained the bodies of 215 Indigenous children.

For people outside of North America, residential schools were places that Indigenous children were sent to, to have their language and culture stripped away from them. They were literally stolen from their families, and scattered across Canada, to ensure that they would be surrounded by children who didn't speak their language. They were given Christian names and forced to speak English. They were horrendously abused, and the survivors have been traumatized.

Hundreds of children never returned. The assumption has always been that they died. This has now been confirmed.

The school in Kamloops closed in 1978. They are now trying to identify bodies to inform family members. The last residential school closed in the 1990s. There is growing demand to search all of them, but the government hasn't responded to that, as of yet. Ottawa JUST gave in to pressure to fly the Canada flag at half mast. They weren't even going to do that.

This is the reality if anti-Indigenous racism in Canada. The residential schools may be closed, but that hasn't stopped the abduction of Indigenous children, let alone the hundreds of missing and murdered Indigenous women.

100 more bodies were found at a school in Manitoba, and 35 at a school in Saskatchewan the same week. 751 more unmarked graves have just been discovered at a school in Saskatchewan. This isn't normal or okay, and I'm willing to bet your school didn't have a cemetery. You can't call this anything other than what it is - genocide.

Indigenous Canadians have always known that this was happening, but now non-Indigenous Canadians are finding out about the true horrors of residential schools for the first time and everyone is shocked. This isn't new, it isn't shocking, and it certainly didn't only happen at two residential schools. Indigenous Canadians are so terribly mistreated by this country and they have been begging for help for decades, but it took 215 children for anyone to care, speak up, or take action.

We're supposed to be taught about Indigenous issues from elementary school straight to high school. Indigenous issues were taught so poorly that by the time I was in grade 11 and the Indigenous history portion of the social studies course came up, everyone started to complain and our teacher actually apologized to us because "it's boring but we have to study it." There's been no respect until now and people haven't been properly educated as a result.

Anti-Indigenous racism is not a thing of the past. The last residential school closed in 1996, so this isn't just ancient history. Several First Nations across the country don't have access to clean drinking water and have been on boil water advisories for up to 20 years. Indigenous women are 12 times more likely to go missing or be killed than non-Indigenous women, and about 133 are missing or murdered every year. Canada is portrayed as this polite, friendly utopia, but the polite-Canadian stereotype is used to hide the history of racism and genocide that this country is built on.

As settlers, we need to do better. Listen to and amplify Indigenous voices. Please take the time to educate yourself, whether you're in Canada or elsewhere, and please keep talking about this.

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i don't care how uncomfortable you are around cis men, queer cis men still need places to go, and sometimes, those spaces will be shared with yours. disabled and neurodivergent queer men and queer men of color especially need a place to go. the queer community isn't the "fuck cis men" community. that is the rad fem community. if you think cis men and people who read as cis men are inherently "too scary" or shouldn't be allowed in queer spaces, you joined the wrong community.

additionally: hi, trans woman here. who gets called a cis man by the queers around me pretty consistently. literally no matter what im wearing or doing or what my makeup, nails, clothes look like. trans girls will come up to me and compliment my partner for having such a gnc cis boyfriend. just wanted to say: well i cant say that but im gonna say: dont do this shit.

also it becomes real fucking clear after a while of this that its not even "cis men bad" in their heads, its "anyone im not attracted to is bad" and theyre only attracted to skinny white femme. cis men bad is just a "progressive" label for pushing white supremacist ideals.

not to fucking mention how "cis men bad" forces trans men who could be mistaken for cis to disclose their trans identity. which a cis guy could just lie about anyway so like. whats the end game here are we gonna start doing genital checks or can we all just settle the fuck down and believe that if somebody showed up to the queer event they prolly belong there and its none of our fucking business why

okay last thing, sorta unrelated, but if u never dated a woman with a beard then i think ur a loser and beneath contempt. okay i love you byyyyye

thank you so much for this addition- this is exactly what i was implying when i said that people who "read" as cis men also need safe spaces to go and should never have to disclose their trans or cis status in order to be able to find safety. this mentality disproportionately affects trans women and trans men. this affects trans people way more than it does cis people- people project their idea of what a cis man "looks like" on to whoever they want to without discretion. you summed it up perfectly. thank you

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the king has a large problem. The hero that was summoned thinks slavery is "a bad thing" and women "should have rights"

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pluckypeony

Study because it makes you smarter. Every time you dive into a new topic, you're not just memorizing facts; you're building a sharper, more agile mind. The breadth of your knowledge will never be a hindrance; it will only ever propel you further in life.

Study because it opens doors. Knowledge is your ticket to new opportunities. Whether it's landing your dream job, travelling the world, or just being able to hold your own in any conversation, the more you know, the further you can go.

Study because it builds discipline. Setting aside time to study teaches you valuable skills like time management and self-discipline. These habits will serve you well in all areas of life, long after you’ve closed the textbooks.

Study because you want to improve yourself. Self-improvement isn't just about hitting the gym or eating right. It's about feeding your mind and growing as a person. Each study session is a step towards a better, more informed you.

Study because it’s a privilege. Not everyone has the opportunity to learn. Embrace the privilege of education and make the most of it. Honor those who fought for the right to study by making the most of your own education.

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kcl1627

I think you forgot a really important point of why we should study

Study because it is cool

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Bear in mind that this is a technique that anyone can use on anyone about anything.

For example, you probably want to be suspicious when megacorporations start rebranding themselves as "diverse" and "sustainable".

"Vegan leather" replacing "pleather" as the most frequent term for the material, as the greater populace began thinking that anything vegan is good and anything plastic is bad, is another good example if you want something specific.

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This is the perfect reaction image for something. I don't know what. But something.

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teaboot

Me, twirling my hair: Oh, if only there was someone who could tell me about the many fallacies of late-stage capitalism.. guess I'll just have to go about my day with incorrect beliefs about the current political climate and various significant historical events.... and what is that whale stuff they use in perfume is called...? Oh well....

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i just know in my bones that i will somehow make a beautiful life for myself no matter what the world throws at me

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genericmain

I don't know it in my bones, but I will claw tooth and nail if I need to, and carve myself a beautiful life amidst chaos if that is what the world throws at me. I have come so far, and I'm not giving up now.

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teaboot

SON MISTAKE: In teaching my cat son boy the command "out"- intended to mean, "emerge from the enclosed space"- I have unwittingly trained him to understand that if I open a box, cupboard, cabinet, or fridge in his presence, he need only rush inside and stay there, firmly planted with his wide wet baby eyes, and he will surely be granted the opportunity to earn a delightful little treat

PROS: My darling son WILL emerge from the microwave as soon as I ask!

CONS: My son will be in the microwave. Until I ask

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milo-hypno

I'm certain this is on Tumblr somewhere, but I haven't seen it around, so I'm sharing it myself

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geopsych

Here’s a video so you can hear the water and the thrushes. I took it for you because you couldn’t be there. <3

Sharing this again for anyone who could use a few seconds of peace and light today for whatever reason.

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tea-tuesday

what i've been up to lately in the city (grabbing coffee, gallery hopping, exploring potential pottery studios) ! honestly, after the election, the future's been feeling bleak but i'm trying to be optimisitc and show up for my local community. if anyone wants to vent, my dms are always open for you 🫶

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