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Icon photo from 1966, around the time Star Trek first aired
Header image by @equalopportunityenby
Fandom Grandma Dee passed away in February 2018.
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I drew this after reading an article by a self-described ‘fandom grandma’ – (I’m not linking to it because of Tumblr’s stupid rule about hiding posts with links in the tags.) But you can check out her blog and the article @spockslash. I wish I could share this with her but this will have to be my way of saying thank you.

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Instead of Generations and the stupid Nexus why couldn’t we have the Enterprise going back in time to scoop up Freddie Mercury and bring him to the twenty-third century?  Not only would they have benefited from his fashion sense, but surely if aliens were psyched about whale song they were also psyched about Queen, and there would be a probe headed for earth accidentally destroying everything in its path asking Why did Freddie stop singing?, and when the aliens found out why they would be like, “You shunned gays and blamed them for AIDS and didn’t try to cure it for the longest time? You morons you deserve to have your planet destroyed,” so yeah, once again we’d need the Enterprise crew to go back in time and save humanity from its own stupidity and also, you know Spock would secretly be so into Queen and try to hide it but Jim would find out and croon some lyrics from “Love of my Life” to Spock and how cute would that be?

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An open Tumblr letter to younger fans, from a 77-year-old TOS fangirl

* who has shipped Spirk since that night in 1967 that Amok Time first aired * and helped storm NBC to keep TOS on the air for a 3rd season * and wrote fanfic way back in the day * and was privileged to be around for the earliest days of fandom, when Leonard used to come to your house if that’s where the fan club was meeting and sit on the sofa with you in that Spock hair cut and eat cake

All of you who are writing TOS/AOS fan fiction and creating fan art now: remember, YOU are the ones shaping the traditions of fandom. You have inherited the kingdom. Bless you for keeping it vibrant, growing, alive. In fifty years, you will be the ones who are remembered for molding it and handing it down to the future. It probably doesn’t feel like now, but you are making history.

Your current addiction to TOS and the feels you get when you contemplate the love between Jim and Spock will be with you for life. It won’t always be in the forefront; you will sometimes go years, sometimes go a decade, without Star Trek being more than a passing thought. But then something will remind you and every consuming feeling you feel right now will come rushing back, every bit as powerful and deep and strong as it is today. All there, right where you left it.

The friendships you make in fandom will be with you for life. Like all friendships, they will wax and wane as the focus of your life shifts over time, but you will always be able to pick up the thread. You will — to give you a hypothetical example — be 77 years old and discover Tumblr and get a rush of Spirk feels after a decade of not giving TOS a thought, and contact your 83-year-old fangirl friend in the nursing home, to whom you haven’t spoken in several years. You will open the conversation with, “So, Jim and Spock love each other and that just makes me so happy.” And your friend in the nursing home will sigh and say, “Yes. They do love each other. It’s such a comfort.”

That look that Jim and Spock give each other, of absolute adoration and acceptance and love? That’s real. It’s rare, but it’s real. One of my greatest joys in life is to see my son and his husband give each other looks like that. Of course I don’t know you; I don’t know your strengths and struggles or your place on the spectrum of gender or anything about your sexuality or what you look like or what your life has taught you to believe about yourself, but I do know this: YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED AND LOOKED AT THE WAY JIM AND SPOCK LOOK AT EACH OTHER. Please don’t accept less than that in your life.

The future of our planet does not seem very hopeful at the moment. But please remember that when Gene created Star Trek, the world was in turmoil and the future seemed very bleak. Star Trek is, was, always shall be about hope. Reach for it. When TOS first aired, we hoped to see some form of a Starfleet on the horizon in our lifetimes. That vision must be passed on to you. Do it. Make the world worthy of launching the human race out into space. CREATE STARFLEET.

You are all creative and funny and amazing. Far more amazing than you know. Be kind to yourselves. Live long and prosper, kids.

Tags are in reference to my first bullet point. Meant as a kudos to your work, but feel free to untag yourself if you don’t want to be linked to my ramblings; I won’t be offended! (Also, this extends to a thousand other artists and writers out there who deserve kudos. tag at will.)

@spockslash​ will not be taken down until / unless tumblr takes it down.

Love from “Fandom Grandma” Dee’s children

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not-freyja

In the midst of all the purging panic, I was alerted to a very important issue. It was a very real possibility that @spockslash, the blog of our late fandom grandma would be lost to us forever. So I archived the blog, every post. As it was today (12/3/18).

You can find the archive page here.

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spockslash

Thank you for this, @not-freyja

Love from “Fandom Grandma” Dee’s children

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Dee called AO3 a “candy store,” and said the fan art she has seen, in particular, has been overwhelming. “I cannot get over the art,” she said. “We would have jumped at this. I would’ve given my right tit for all this art when I was in my twenties. Because you couldn’t reproduce it, you couldn’t send it out, but [now] there’s this fabulous art coming out every single day.”

Yes. Yes. Yes.  This is how it happened.  Excellent article.

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spockslash

Thanks to the author for permission to share this here, and for being just a really nice human being, and big thanks to the artist who did my mom’s portrait, above. -Zachary

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An open Tumblr letter to younger fans, from a 77-year-old TOS fangirl

* who has shipped Spirk since that night in 1967 that Amok Time first aired * and helped storm NBC to keep TOS on the air for a 3rd season * and wrote fanfic way back in the day * and was privileged to be around for the earliest days of fandom, when Leonard used to come to your house if that’s where the fan club was meeting and sit on the sofa with you in that Spock hair cut and eat cake

All of you who are writing TOS/AOS fan fiction and creating fan art now: remember, YOU are the ones shaping the traditions of fandom. You have inherited the kingdom. Bless you for keeping it vibrant, growing, alive. In fifty years, you will be the ones who are remembered for molding it and handing it down to the future. It probably doesn’t feel like now, but you are making history.

Your current addiction to TOS and the feels you get when you contemplate the love between Jim and Spock will be with you for life. It won’t always be in the forefront; you will sometimes go years, sometimes go a decade, without Star Trek being more than a passing thought. But then something will remind you and every consuming feeling you feel right now will come rushing back, every bit as powerful and deep and strong as it is today. All there, right where you left it.

The friendships you make in fandom will be with you for life. Like all friendships, they will wax and wane as the focus of your life shifts over time, but you will always be able to pick up the thread. You will — to give you a hypothetical example — be 77 years old and discover Tumblr and get a rush of Spirk feels after a decade of not giving TOS a thought, and contact your 83-year-old fangirl friend in the nursing home, to whom you haven’t spoken in several years. You will open the conversation with, “So, Jim and Spock love each other and that just makes me so happy.” And your friend in the nursing home will sigh and say, “Yes. They do love each other. It’s such a comfort.”

That look that Jim and Spock give each other, of absolute adoration and acceptance and love? That’s real. It’s rare, but it’s real. One of my greatest joys in life is to see my son and his husband give each other looks like that. Of course I don’t know you; I don’t know your strengths and struggles or your place on the spectrum of gender or anything about your sexuality or what you look like or what your life has taught you to believe about yourself, but I do know this: YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED AND LOOKED AT THE WAY JIM AND SPOCK LOOK AT EACH OTHER. Please don’t accept less than that in your life.

The future of our planet does not seem very hopeful at the moment. But please remember that when Gene created Star Trek, the world was in turmoil and the future seemed very bleak. Star Trek is, was, always shall be about hope. Reach for it. When TOS first aired, we hoped to see some form of a Starfleet on the horizon in our lifetimes. That vision must be passed on to you. Do it. Make the world worthy of launching the human race out into space. CREATE STARFLEET.

You are all creative and funny and amazing. Far more amazing than you know. Be kind to yourselves. Live long and prosper, kids.

Tags are in reference to my first bullet point. Meant as a kudos to your work, but feel free to untag yourself if you don’t want to be linked to my ramblings; I won’t be offended! (Also, this extends to a thousand other artists and writers out there who deserve kudos. tag at will.)

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Does anyone have a mailing address for the Kirk Spock Archive? Need to send fanzines. -Z

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I don’t believe they have an address, none that I can find but perhaps if you send them to a fan, or scans of them, someone might be able to publish them under her name

Thanks for reply. I’m looking for where to send 18 file boxes full of fanzines from the 1960s and 1970s. Her instructions just say Kirk Spock Archive.

Thank you to everyone who has responded to this post.  We stepped away from sorting my mom’s affairs for a bit (grieving time needed), but @meeedeee has stepped forward with her extensive knowledge and spent a good portion of her Sunday afternoon walking my sister Alice through our options on getting our mom’s collection donated. Thank you @meeedeee !

-Zachary

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From Dee @spockslash ‘s son again:

For all the gay and trans people who wrote messages to my family about what my mom meant to you, my husband and I want to respond. First, thank you. It was great to hear. I’m proud of my mom for many things but the most for what an ally and advocate she was to the gay community. Especially for kids. Obviously I’m gay and I feel very lucky that my mom was my mom. She was the best. Not merely accepting but celebrating who I am. Adopting my husband and loving him like her own son. When I was in high school and college all the gay and questioning kids hung out at my house because of her. One trans boy lived at our house for over a year when his parents threw him out. She showered us with love and pride. I’ve read through some of her blog and can see that she was doing online what she did in real life. I'm glad and proud that she did that even when she was old. An old lady on tumblr because she always was the coolest though she didn’t know it. Now she’s gone, please, gay and trans kids who wrote to my family about her, honor her by loving yourselves and never, ever doing yourself harm. It’s what she would want. It’s really important. Thanks. -Zachary

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Our mom, Dee, Fandom Grandma, wrote this for you and asked that we share it after her passing.

Oh my darlings. My fandom friends, my fandom family.

This is a difficult message to write.

It has become clear that treatment can no longer help me battle the cancer that has invaded my body, and it’s time to prepare myself to say goodbye to those I love.

That includes all of you.

I have struggled mightily with how I should do this.  Should I tell you now, so you will not be blindsided by my passing?  Would telling you burden you unnecessarily ahead of time?  I don’t want you to worry about me. I want my last few months or weeks to be an opportunity to give as much love and kindness as I can, to cheer on your wonderful fan art and writing, to share as many memories of the early days of fandom as I am able, and to enjoy the fun I have in being with you.

So after much thought, I’ve decided to ask my children to let you know of my passing when it happens. If I hurt anyone with the suddenness of that announcement, I hope you can forgive me and know that I meant well by this decision.

I hope you know that you have enriched my life immensely in what turn out to be my final months. What fun it has been to be a fan among fans again!  I feel so lucky to have discovered modern fandom and this community when I did. You have taught me so much. You’ve impressed me, moved me, made me laugh, and brought a whole lot of happiness to my days.

I hope you know how honored I feel to have been embraced by you as your Fandom Grandma and your friend. It’s humbling  to be given this opportunity to care so openly, so freely. I am touched by this, daily, more than I can say.

I know that some of my adopted family here are not in happy family situations in their off-screen lives. It troubles me that I will not have further opportunity to tell you how special you are, how unique, how precious.  That you are worthy of love and happiness.  Please know that wherever I am, my caring about you and believing in you will still go on.

Dear beautiful hearts — and that means every one of you — please be kind to yourselves. And to each other. Please, please keep fandom a place where we are welcoming to newcomers.  Where we value each other, even if we don’t agree on specific ideas.  

And please go on enjoying fandom, as long as it is meaningful and positive for you. I hope many of you will be fandom grandparents to the generations that will follow! Please keep writing and creating art. Keep our traditions alive. I’m passing the torch of this historic fandom on to you now. 

You are amazing. I love you. I know you will make me proud.

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Hi everyone. This is Dee’s son.  “Star Trek Grandma” or “Fandom Grandma” as she is known here.  My mom passed away earlier this week. 

She asked that one of her kids tell you when she passed rather than delete her site without any word. She wrote you a letter to say goodbye. I will add it when we go through her papers in the coming days.

She was an amazing lady. We feel lucky to have been her kids. We are glad you got to know her a bit. She always had lots of love to share. I’m not a big Star Trek fan but in her honor I will wish you all to “live long and prosper.”

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brotp: Jim and Lwaxana

Lwaxana: *looks at Jim, then Spock, then back to Jim*

Lwaxana: *looks at Spock, then back to Jim*

Lwaxana: *points to Spock* Is he all you think about?

Jim: (◡‿◡✿)

Spock: (///__///)

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Jim and Lwaxana picnicking on Betazed and laughing at everything while Spock and Mr. Homn quietly sip tea on the other side of the blanket.

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Lwaxana putting a flower behind Spock’s ear. Jim using that as his personal lockscreen. Because Spock blushing green is really, really cute.

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Jim playing chess with Lwaxana even though he knows he’s going to lose. But it makes her happy so it’s worth it.

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Stranded plant-side on a mission gone wrong and taking refuge in a cave, Jim and Spock sit side-by-side and wait for the others to sleep. To their misfortune, Lwaxana pushes her way to sit between them because “it’s warmest here!”

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Lwaxana taking Jim’s arm as he leads her around the observation deck.

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Jim officially introducing Lwaxana to others with her full title.

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Also…

Chapel: (☞゚ヮ゚)☞

Lwaxana: ☜(゚ヮ゚☜)

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Dee interview transcript, Jan. 24, 2018  (Part 3)

[Tell me about your experiences meeting Nimoy, Roddenberry and the rest of the cast.]

Leonard Nimoy was the only cast member I met when the show was still in its original run. When he was in Oregon in 1967, he came to the home of the president of my sci-fi club and chatted with us for about 45 minutes.

Gene had invited me to visit the set in 1966, but I didn’t go. If I had known that 50 years later Star Trek would still be around and I’d still be a fan, I might have tried harder to get there!

In 1970, my husband got a job that took us to Pasadena, which was lucky timing for me. The show was beginning its run in syndication and growing more popular, Trek fandom was beginning to consolidate through the first conventions, the founding of the Welcommittee, the proliferation of print zines, and the push to get the show back on the air. I fell in with a group of fans who were incredibly busy with all of those things, and there was such a buzz of energy and creativity when we met, because everything was new and untried and exciting.  Fans were basically inventing fandom as know it today, and for almost 4 years I was in one of two spots (the other was NYC) where most of the action was happening.  

Meanwhile, all the cast except Leonard were pretty much out-of-work actors — they were not movie stars back then — and living next to LA meant it was very easy to get to see them. They did not charge anything to come to fan events in those early years. Jimmy Doohan once came to my house when a bunch of us were meeting for the campaign to get the show back on the air, basically because we offered him home-made lasagna!

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If you’re a Star Trek fan, or a Karl Urban fan, read this.

If you’ve know Karl Urban (Bones), like at all, then you know that he’s an upbeat sunshine guy that’s a rare gem blessed upon our world. 

At conventions he’s the kindest, most generous guy you’d ever meet, I know a couple of people who have gone through things from fainting to panic attacks to being disabled and he’s accommodated every single one of them.

But over the past year, as the vast majority of you already know, ‘fans’ have basically started throwing him face first into shit he doesn’t deserve, from spending 3 weeks harassing him over a joke to the point of saying he needs to be deported from the country to making fake social media accounts under his name and trying to pick up and fraud girls with them. In fact the latter happened only yesterday. 

I thought it would be nice if we Star Trek fans and Urbanites actually did something to show our appreciation for a change, to show him there are more of us that DO care than the ones that don’t.

We’re asking for anyone, absolutely ANYONE to record a video of up to 20 seconds of yourself saying anything from simple encouragement to your favorite character of his, how you met him, how he inspired you, etc. 

If you don’t want to show your face, or don’t want to speak, then just record your hands holding paper with any nice quote on it, “thank you” or “keep going” or anything that’s short and snappy.

Send the video to [email protected]. If you want your name on there then tell me in the message so I can add it in the credits. The deadline is 1st March 2018. Once I’ve finished compiling all the videos into one, I’ll send it on twitter and you guys can retweet the hell out of it to make sure he sees it. 

(please for the love of god don’t advertise this on twitter-he checks that everyday, and this is a surprise)

I know in this day and age it’s effort to take part when you’d rather be in bed, but let’s try to make something good happen from his fans for once.

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Glad to see this is gaining momentum.  In this house, we love and appreciate Karl. :)

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