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softly, it goes

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Some chronic illness hacks from my worst times:

- take your pills with something. I know it’s good bragging that you can take pills dry but it really sucks to get esophagus problems from that. If you have trouble washing them down or psyching yourself up to swallow, try it with food! Oatmeal, prunes, or banana were my favorites

- take it ten steps at a time. Literally. If you don’t know how you’ll manage to get through an hour meeting or a long distance, count your steps or breaths. Focus on the pattern, walk to syllables to your favorite poem or song, count in French, whatever gets you through that small chunk of time. Then do it again

- have a distraction. Your brain can’t face your symptoms all the time. Watch or listen to something for everything

- sit down. Sitting usually hurts less than standing for me. Sit while brushing teeth, showering, sorting laundry

- switch your media. You will build negative associations to a song you listen to when you are in pain. Some take longer than others. I constantly cycle through music and keep a playlist of music that seems immune to the associations

- take breaks. Pace yourself. There’s no shame if you need to take four days to cut your nails or read one paragraph at a time

- plan for rest days. I usually have a day before and after a task set to just prepare and recover

Please add your wisdom!

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Some things to think about

  • We have very little control over how our bodies look
  • How much you weigh is honestly pretty boring, and the world is full of so many more interesting things to think about 
  • If you do gain weight, so what?
  • You have no obligation to be attractive
  • Physical health can be extremely complex & difficult to manage, and whether or not you can is not a measure of your worth.
  • Mental health is important too. 
  • You are worth so much more than the way you look.

Think about this and then give your mind and energies to more worthy ideas..

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Reasons to live: lonely edition

  • watching the sunset outside your window
  • practicing your favorite musical instrument
  • making delicious meals and feeling like a chef
  • trying out pinterest ideas
  • writing new daily routines to improve yourself
  • learning a new language or reading books on niche subjects
  • reading every morning in your cozy reading spot
  • going on evening drives and blaring your sunset playlist
  • walking in your city to find cute cafes and secret gems
  • picking a new artistic or sporty hobby to pour your heart into
  • doing really fun workouts to songs you love
  • dressing up in cute outfits or makeup looks without going out
  • drawing pictures and quotes for your wall
  • getting a film camera and taking candid pictures
  • sitting in the park and people-watching
  • searching for small reasons to regain faith in humanity and life
  • doing something special for yourself each weekend
  • petting your cat or dog
  • or petting neighbourhood cats that wander into your garden
  • the wistful beauty of watching things & people from the distance
  • buying flowers for yourself
  • growing cute potted plants like succulents
  • film marathons and netflix marathons with ice cream
  • feeling like a lonely indie film character
  • dancing by yourself
  • trying different tea flavors
  • writing poetry about your solitude
  • write surreal stories inspired by weird dreams
  • noticing stuff most other people are too busy to notice
  • befriending your loneliness and yourself
  • find beautiful stuff to appreciate every day & write them down
  • writing detailed diary entries even if nothing happens
  • spending so long inside that sunlight feels like a hug from the universe
  • appreciating tiny warmths more, like soup, tea, blankets and songs
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If bras hurt your shoulders and make your pain worse, don’t wear them. If that itchy sweater your grandma gave you aggravates your sensory problems, thank her for it, but don’t wear it. If heels make your feet ache or make your dysautonomia flare, wear flats to parties. You shouldn’t follow any social conventions that make your symptoms worse, let alone ones related to something as insignifcant as the clothing you put on your body. 

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here’s a secret: you’re not annoying, I promise! even when you talk about your feelings, even when you ramble on about that thing you found that makes you so happy, even when you need space and have to take time for yourself. you are always loved, even when you feel like you’re at your lowest. no one is judging you for thinking about yourself sometimes. you’re not selfish for taking care of yourself.

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thoradvice

this isn’t all that there is!!! there are sunsets you haven’t seen, people you haven’t met, things you haven’t learned, food you haven’t tried, and places you haven’t visited. life is so much more than what you’re experiencing right now, and there will always be new things coming. there’s so much more out there for you!!

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If you feel useless, please stop scrolling for a moment

I want you to know that it’s okay if all you managed to do today was breathe.

It’s okay if you didn’t manage to get out of bed.

It’s okay if you didn’t get that piece of work done.

It’s okay if you couldn’t socialize today.

I’m proud of you. Tomorrow is a chance for a fresh start. Stay strong and be safe.

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ways to become friends with yourself:

  • set boundaries with people. those who respect you, will respect them.
  • allow yourself to accept good things. you deserve happiness and warmth and love.
  • it’s okay to be a mess. it’s okay to not know what your next step is. it’s okay to be scared. trust that the universe has your back.
  • remember that healing is not linear. you are not weak because some days are suddenly harder than others.
  • consciously feel the world under your feet as you walk and the warmth of the sun on your cheek.
  • do things you enjoy! even if they seem silly. even if you think you have no time. make time for yourself.
  • take care of yourself. take deep breaths. take bubble baths. take too long admiring yourself in the mirror.
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helperhoopoe

stop insulting yourself. it doesn’t help.

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rottentrauma

But what if it’s true

it still doesn’t help. you can call yourself as many names as you want, but it won’t make you a better, happier, healthier or kinder person.

punishment doesn’t work. only positive reinforcement does. be kind to yourself and get better.

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