How to become a dreamgirl: step one, realize that you can never definitively embody a man's dreamgirl vision, since all ideas are abstract and as such can change overnight or even from minute to minute. It's the same fool's errand as chasing a beauty ideal which is artificial and conceptual and can never be actually achieved. Instead, adopt a high value mindset by becoming your own dreamgirl. You make the rules, you're building your authentic persona and you get to continuously become your best self. Nobody can tell you that you're doing "you" wrong.